Disgusting?

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  1. SpoiledPrincess

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    This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.

    Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.

    For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.

    There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.
     
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    Very true, but i have to be honest, scat is rough. Thats has to be a special kinda person and while I do find somethings not to my idea of sexual enjoyment, you're right, folks shouldnt be burnt at the stake for it.

    We're talking kinks and fetishes here i presume and nothing clearly illigal.

    Sexually I agree with live and let live but lets not forget that gay sex to straight men would also come under your post. That and i have a major foot fetish and i have take some real flack for that in the past.

    It's nothing new sadly, humans are judgmental by nature.
     
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    You'd be surprised how many men have major foot fetishes but they keep quiet about it because they know they're going to get the piss taken out of them. Yeah some things might not be for us, that doesn't mean we have to judge other people as sick because they like them.

    And I view anything illegal as wrong because it's illegal precisely because it has an impact other than sexual on the people doing or being forced into doing it.
     
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    Are foot fetishes on the same level as the desire to buy shoes?! :eek:

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    I can't and won't pass judgment on other people's sexual habits.

    I gross out over scat (I've changed too many diapers to think otherwise) -- so I just mentally block that out. Won't even think of it.

    But as long as sexual activities are between non-incestual, consensual ADULTS, I really couldn't give a damn, Scarlett. :tongue:
     
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    I think foot fetishists are more likely to buy you shoes - I love foot fetishists :)
     
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    Clearly mens feet are hotter, lol ;-)
     
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    You're confusing bigger with hotter :)
     
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    WTH?!! My first husband had a foot fetish, and he never once bought me a pair of shoes or boots or slippers or ANYTHING!!

    Does that walk all over your theory?! :tongue:
     
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    SP, I cannot agree more emphatically. I truly despise anything that's done "non-consensual."

    With that said, even some of the things that I find distasteful, I'm not going to say anything denigrating to someone who does enjoy it.

    And you are right, some people are such jerks about anything that's not their exact flavor of vanilla.
     
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    That partially explains why he's your first husband, he was a mean bugger :)
     
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    Some people will say incest between adults is always consensual, I don't believe that for one minute, there is a lot of pressure you can bring to bear on a member of your family.

    There is so much wrong in the world that I really can't understand how we can judge someone for having different sexual tastes to ours.

    I've often played watersports in the past, the pisser not the pissee usually, and I know when I've commented in any thread regarding them that there are a huge number of men on this site that love them or would love to try them, but they feel they can't say this in the forums.
     
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    Call it the LPSG effect. Pieds
     
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    As long as it isnt with a child, animal, unwilling participant or family member i have no problem with want anyone does.
     
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    I have a problem with people who want to be severely hurt - some men even go so far as castration, I believe to want that you must be mentally ill therefore it's non consensual.
     
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    I think eating shit is not good for your health. I sure wonder how many incidences of illnesses, viruses, (e-coli), bacteria, AIDS, hepatitis, etc. is spread. I know other practices can spread this too, but i see no way of protecting yourself from what travels through the digestive tract when youre shit eating. Atleast with oral/vaginal/anal sex you can wear a condom. What protection is there against the part of the body that always carries such a risk, no matter how sweet your ass smells.

    I've seen it and i think its disgusting, most folks do and a rare few dont. There are those weird carnie porn watchers like myself who dont hit the X when linked to something bizarre like that.

    But hey, chances are if you are a shit eater you probably arent too offended that most find it gross.
     
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    I couldn't put it any better my friend.

    I am with you SP and DC. This is a sexually oriented site and as such, you are going to get people of different likes and dislikes. If I see something like that that I am not into, I just overlook it and I don't hate on the person.

    If sexual habits (no matter how kinky or odd) bother you, I suggest something a little mellower, like this

    Self editing folks. It can work wonders for you.
     
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    Any type of sex can be disgusting , that depends of the perspective of the person . Anal sex and oral can be disgusting to some . To some gays the thought of having sex with a woman is disgusting . To some straights the thought of having sex with a man is disgusting . To some asexuals any type of sex can be disgusting . So that's is really relative.

    In my case shit eating is the most grossiest thing ever !!!!
     
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    This thread is disgusting.

    *thumbs down*
     
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    :wink:

    Actually, everyone has pretty much nailed my thoughts. Personally, if I don't enjoy something (scat, piss, or blood) I tend to just leave it at that. I may talk about the thread in PM mode with a few people, but I try to leave it alone. However, if there are misconceptions or the thread is about something that is an issue for me morally (incest, rape, underage sex), you BET YOUR ASS I'm jumping in to frown upon it.:rolleyes:

    EDIT: Some people here have minimal self control. They just jump into any thread they dont' agree with and slam it to the ground. There is a Urine thread at the moment that is not something I am keen on, but I have read it and I am just going to leave it. It's a harmless fetish that isn't my cup of tea.
     
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    I find that golden showers , ass rimming an eating shit as the grossiest things ever but of course the sex life of people is their business I respect that.
     
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