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Insults and put-downs are out of order, IMHO. Surely, if people are not interested, not turned on by something or even grossed out by something then they should opt not to read a thread or having read posts on a thread then leave without comment.
 

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I have a major foot fetish..but I only like big big feet over 14 because I need to stay in practice for the time I big fat cock may come my way. I can normally take half of the foot down my throat if I really tried....

So far have not found a foot I cannot.....
 

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WTH?!! My first husband had a foot fetish, and he never once bought me a pair of shoes or boots or slippers or ANYTHING!!

Does that walk all over your theory?! :tongue:
I dated a guy who loved to suck and fondle my feet; but only when they were sweaty and smelly :yuck: He never bought me shoes or sandals. I used to have to beg him to fuck me because he would literally spend an hour on my feet! He was getting very aroused; but it didn't do a damned thing for me. :redface::rolleyes:

I don't find foot or stocking fetishists disgusting so much as odd; because it doesn't arouse me at all and is basically harmless.


I understand completely SpoiledPrincess's point as I am usually the first one to break out the :puke: icon. Watersports, SCAT, latex, rubber, felching, and anal rosebuds (WTF is that anyway?) are extreme, niche fetishes, there are hundreds of sites for all that stuff. Ditto incest, ere'go I don't get why it needs to be discussed here. I'd hate to see this site spiral down into a den of extreme fetishes.

Correction: Not down, I don't consider people with interests different than my own to be less than me in any way shape or form. Just couldn't think of a better way to word it.
 

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I dated a guy who loved to suck and fondle my feet; but only when they were sweaty and smelly :yuck: He never bought me shoes or sandals. I used to have to beg him to fuck me because he would literally spend an hour on my feet! He was getting very aroused; but it didn't do a damned thing for me. :redface::rolleyes:

I don't find foot or stocking fetishists disgusting so much as odd; because it doesn't arouse me at all and is basically harmless.


I understand completely SpoiledPrincess's point as I am usually the first one to break out the :puke: icon. Watersports, SCAT, latex, rubber, felching, and anal rosebuds (WTF is that anyway?) are extreme, niche fetishes, there are hundreds of sites for all that stuff. Ditto incest, ere'go I don't get why it needs to be discussed here. I'd hate to see this site spiral down into a den of extreme fetishes.
You aren't alone, I found all of this to be disgusting too!!
 

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Watersports, SCAT, latex, rubber, felching, and anal rosebuds (WTF is that anyway?) are extreme, niche fetishes, there are hundreds of sites for all that stuff.
Watersports, latex, and rubber are not extreme, and are extremely common fetishes. :confused:
 

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I'm the only one that find having sex in menstruation disgusting ?
 

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As DC said they're extremely common likings, and this site is probably full of people who are into them but are scared of the reaction they'd get from mentioning it. If people are allowed freely to talk about their little kinks (and like the other people I differentiate between something I just plain don't like and things that I find morally reprehensible) I don't think the site will spiral downhill, liking someone pissing in your face doesn't mean you're a bad person :)

No you're not David, but it's disgusting to you, it's not disgusting per se and that's what we should all realise, it's a personal taste and we shouldn't be calling other peoples personal sexual choices disgusting.
 

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As DC said they're extremely common likings, and this site is probably full of people who are into them but are scared of the reaction they'd get from mentioning it. If people are allowed freely to talk about their little kinks (and like the other people I differentiate between something I just plain don't like and things that I find morally reprehensible) I don't think the site will spiral downhill, liking someone pissing in your face doesn't mean you're a bad person :)

No you're not David, but it's disgusting to you, it's not disgusting per se and that's what we should all realise, it's a personal taste and we shouldn't be calling other peoples personal sexual choices disgusting.
In one of my previous posts I said that the perception of sexual practices is relative . I don't care what people do in their bedroom , I respect that .
I just simply comment of what things I SEE AS DISGUSTING . I know that to other people they aren't . For example I don't drink beer because I find the flavor disgusting , not because I think that drinking beer is bad.
I don't mind that most people drink beer and frankly isn't my business.
 

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This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.

Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.

For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.

There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.

Dudess you are soo right! There are only a few things thata outa bounds

- Incest
- Messin with young kids
- Harming someone without their consent

Anything else is fine :biggrin1:

Things ive tried -

Threesomes
Foursomes
Orgy 4+
S&M
Hot wax
Fisting - to others, not my arse

Things ive not tried yet (but hey im open minded)
Scat / shit play
Extreme nipple torture
Watersports

:biggrin1:
 

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In one of my previous posts I said that the perception of sexual practices is relative . I don't care what people do in their bedroom , I respect that .
I just simply comment of what things I SEE AS DISGUSTING . I know that to other people they aren't . For example I don't drink beer because I find the flavor disgusting , not because I think that drinking beer is bad.
I don't mind that most people drink beer and frankly isn't my business.

I couldnt have said it better myself.
 

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This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.

Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.

For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.

There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.
Very well said. You speak the truth. I feel the same way. People should be more open. Everyone has different tastes.
 

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This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.

Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.

For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.

There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.

As long as you're causing no harm you're alright with me. But we're talking shit here not brussel sprouts. You can't polish a turd. Disgusting is in the eye of the beholder.

disgusting - causing disgust; offensive to the physical, moral, or aesthetic taste.

In that case I guess brussel sprouts are disgusting too.
 

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Scat and incest is disgusting to me. It doesn't bother me if someone else is into scat. If both participants in incest are over 18 years of age, and it is consensual, it is their concern.
 

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Scat and incest is disgusting to me. It doesn't bother me if someone else is into scat. If both participants in incest are over 18 years of age, and it is consensual, it is their concern.
I agree completely. Others on this site do not.

I'm not going to presume to pass judgement on any other persons of majority age to engage in consensual activities. If I don't like it, I won't do it. I guess a big part of my philosophy in this regard is that I don't want anyone expecting me to conform to their ideas about what I should or should not do with any other consenting adult. Golden rule and all. Ha, I made a joke, golden rule regarding golden showers.
 

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Can't help but think people confuse "I think xxx is disgusting..." with "xxx is disgusting...". The former being opinion and thus entirely valid (for them), the latter being a expressed statement of fact and entirely invalid.

I also suspect that people here and IRL overreact (I know I have) with the "speak for yourself" line (usually to underscore the point) when to be honest they really are, just perhaps not expressing it very well. After all to many people their opinion is fact to them, and in a sense that's a valid perception.

One man's disgusting is another's delightful.
 

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This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting.

It's human nature. Some people will laugh at a fat person, a midget, or a homeless person out on the street.

Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it.

I disagree. I think watersports is a minority interest despite vids on it and whatnot. It's still kind of taboo and most likely not in most people's sex life. Shitting and pissing activities do not even belong in any kind of sex category. It's not sex.

When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it. Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.

Never heard of anal roses or felching. :confused: They don't sound appealing. Felching sounds like puking on someone, and anal roses sounds like sticking roses up someone's butt.

For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone,

As long as they don't expect a kiss afterwards. :eek:

the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.

Whatever is consensual is fine between the people doing it, as long as they're legal adults, but when you publicly state it, you can expect detractors. Again, that's human nature. The internet hasn't been around that long. Everything that's going on today was always going on. We just didn't hear about before.

There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.

It's not just sexual practices. There are many things people do that others find odd, like eating monkey brains, cats, or dogs.

But hey, chances are if you are a shit eater you probably arent too offended that most find it gross.

That's kind of it in a nutshell. How much more extreme can you get than that? A shit eater is probably going to think that everything is vanilla. People who are into activities that others find extreme didn't get that way overnight. You don't go from your first kiss to eating shit. It's all learned behavior. A lot of people think something is really gross and it's because they never tried it. Then, once they try it they love it, and wonder why they waited so long. And then again, they may hate it.
 

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Can't help but think people confuse "I think xxx is disgusting..." with "xxx is disgusting...". The former being opinion and thus entirely valid (for them), the latter being a expressed statement of fact and entirely invalid.

I also suspect that people here and IRL overreact (I know I have) with the "speak for yourself" line (usually to underscore the point) when to be honest they really are, just perhaps not expressing it very well. After all to many people their opinion is fact to them, and in a sense that's a valid perception.

One man's disgusting is another's delightful.
Most excellent points, dong20. Which is why, in most cases, if I see a post that describes something I find "personally disgusting," I just let it pass without comment. I do more often comment if I find something to be morally reprehensible, in that it has effect on non-involved parties.

You would not believe some of the nasty things people have said to me when they ask my opinion about semen, and I give an honest answer - I find the scent and the flavor absolutely disgusting. I wish I didn't, but I do. So, then all the gay folks are telling me I have no right to call myself gay. So what, it smells nasty and tastes worse. For me. If anyone else wants to snort up lines of it like cocaine, that's their business. If anyone else wants to eat it like chocolate, that's their business. Just not for me. Nor will I villify anyone for enjoying such.