sykray
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I dated a guy who loved to suck and fondle my feet; but only when they were sweaty and smelly :yuck: He never bought me shoes or sandals. I used to have to beg him to fuck me because he would literally spend an hour on my feet! He was getting very aroused; but it didn't do a damned thing for me. :redface:WTH?!! My first husband had a foot fetish, and he never once bought me a pair of shoes or boots or slippers or ANYTHING!!
Does that walk all over your theory?! :tongue:
You aren't alone, I found all of this to be disgusting too!!I dated a guy who loved to suck and fondle my feet; but only when they were sweaty and smelly :yuck: He never bought me shoes or sandals. I used to have to beg him to fuck me because he would literally spend an hour on my feet! He was getting very aroused; but it didn't do a damned thing for me. :redface:
I don't find foot or stocking fetishists disgusting so much as odd; because it doesn't arouse me at all and is basically harmless.
I understand completely SpoiledPrincess's point as I am usually the first one to break out theuke: icon. Watersports, SCAT, latex, rubber, felching, and anal rosebuds (WTF is that anyway?) are extreme, niche fetishes, there are hundreds of sites for all that stuff. Ditto incest, ere'go I don't get why it needs to be discussed here. I'd hate to see this site spiral down into a den of extreme fetishes.
Watersports, latex, and rubber are not extreme, and are extremely common fetishes.<...>
Watersports, SCAT, latex, rubber, felching, and anal rosebuds (WTF is that anyway?) are extreme, niche fetishes, there are hundreds of sites for all that stuff.
In one of my previous posts I said that the perception of sexual practices is relative . I don't care what people do in their bedroom , I respect that .As DC said they're extremely common likings, and this site is probably full of people who are into them but are scared of the reaction they'd get from mentioning it. If people are allowed freely to talk about their little kinks (and like the other people I differentiate between something I just plain don't like and things that I find morally reprehensible) I don't think the site will spiral downhill, liking someone pissing in your face doesn't mean you're a bad person
No you're not David, but it's disgusting to you, it's not disgusting per se and that's what we should all realise, it's a personal taste and we shouldn't be calling other peoples personal sexual choices disgusting.
This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.
Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.
For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.
There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.
In one of my previous posts I said that the perception of sexual practices is relative . I don't care what people do in their bedroom , I respect that .
I just simply comment of what things I SEE AS DISGUSTING . I know that to other people they aren't . For example I don't drink beer because I find the flavor disgusting , not because I think that drinking beer is bad.
I don't mind that most people drink beer and frankly isn't my business.
Very well said. You speak the truth. I feel the same way. People should be more open. Everyone has different tastes.This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.
Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.
For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.
There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.
This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.
Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.
For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.
There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.
So your new avatar is the Microsoft Office Help paperclip? Boobies went bye-bye!I couldnt have said it better myself.
So your new avatar is the Microsoft Office Help paperclip? Boobies went bye-bye!
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I agree completely. Others on this site do not.Scat and incest is disgusting to me. It doesn't bother me if someone else is into scat. If both participants in incest are over 18 years of age, and it is consensual, it is their concern.
This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting.
Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it.
When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it. Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.
For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone,
the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.
There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.
But hey, chances are if you are a shit eater you probably arent too offended that most find it gross.
Most excellent points, dong20. Which is why, in most cases, if I see a post that describes something I find "personally disgusting," I just let it pass without comment. I do more often comment if I find something to be morally reprehensible, in that it has effect on non-involved parties.Can't help but think people confuse "I think xxx is disgusting..." with "xxx is disgusting...". The former being opinion and thus entirely valid (for them), the latter being a expressed statement of fact and entirely invalid.
I also suspect that people here and IRL overreact (I know I have) with the "speak for yourself" line (usually to underscore the point) when to be honest they really are, just perhaps not expressing it very well. After all to many people their opinion is fact to them, and in a sense that's a valid perception.
One man's disgusting is another's delightful.