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well saidRegardless of what you choose to do, you were not born to dislike yourself. You deserve to like yourself.
well saidRegardless of what you choose to do, you were not born to dislike yourself. You deserve to like yourself.
For crying out loud I'm a staunch republican and was disgusted when gay marriage became legal in the us. I live in rural red state where I am a avid hunter and fisher.
What you BELIEVE is nothing but the SHIRT you chose to wear. You CAN simply choose to wear a more comfortable shirt.
Garden worms used to disgust and frighten me, but as I got older and started to love and touch penises, my feelings about garden worms became very neutral - and I could see them for what they were and touch them with no anxiety or disgust at all.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step ... investigating disgust (and fun) might be the first one.
Wait- you're saying penises are enough like worms to desensitize you to the disgusting nature of worms?
I guess never saw penises to be like worms... because no matter how long you suck on a worm it never gets any stiffer.
I remember thinking anal sex was disgusting, because assholes and what comes out of them are disgusting. Until I got fucked in the ass. They are still disgusting... butt I find a thorough cleaning helps with that, and an assfucking is just too hot to pass up. Its worth the enema. ( not to mention that having a kid and changing diapers reduces your horror of shit )
Sex is, in itself, messy, moist, and sloppy with fluids. Its very animalistic. But that heat seems to make the mess only hotter. The wetter a woman gets, the more it turns you on. The smells, tastes and flavors are often a bit rank... but then, whiskey tastes awful, too- you learn to like it. Piss tastes nasty... but I find I LOVE that its so nasty because what i'm doing when I get pissed on is NASTY.
( with the possible exception of Pre-cum- which, let's face it, is the most delicious thing on earth )
The more you are exposed to such things, directly, the less shocking or off-putting they become.
The only difference between a guy who is disgusted by the idea of sucking cock, and a guy who likes to suck cock is an IDEA in their heads. And the only thing you CAN change about the world is your own mind.
If you like sex at all, you can LEARN to like just about anything sexual.
I got the impression from his post that the problem is that he feel he is/would be dishonoring himself by being gay. It's not a matter of lack of courage or fear of consequences.There is NOTHING keeping you from doing or going somewhere else.
That can be a terrible advice, depending on the conditions of his life. You also don't know how much he values or needs the support of his family.Iyts never as bad as you think and if it is..then drop them
sorry I disagree..holding onto people that wouldnt accept him is hardly a way to go through life. Im not saying he has to just drop everything and leave...but the guy needs to start the process. That is my point, if you are not strong go see a therapist on how to get strong. If he needs the support of a family who would not accept him being gay/bi...how is that supportive? I valued my parents support because I know no matter what I told them about myself they would be on my side.I got the impression from his post that the problem is that he feel he is/would be dishonoring himself by being gay. It's not a matter of lack of courage or fear of consequences.
That can be a terrible advice, depending on the conditions of his life. You also don't know how much he values or needs the support of his family.
The problem is not lack of strenght to make a decision. You are ignoring what his complaint was and simply projecting your own life experience unto him as a trail to be followed. And you do can get support from people who wouldn't accept you if they knew you're gay, even emotional support; the majority of LGBT people have homophobic grandparents that aren't simply tossed away. It is not yours to decide what relationship is unworthy. Everybody loves their family and friends and might prefer to accept the bittersweet of having an homophobic close person than to toss away who doesn't fit the unconditional love ideal.sorry I disagree..holding onto people that wouldnt accept him is hardly a way to go through life. Im not saying he has to just drop everything and leave...but the guy needs to start the process. That is my point, if you are not strong go see a therapist on how to get strong. If he needs the support of a family who would not accept him being gay/bi...how is that supportive? I valued my parents support because I know no matter what I told them about myself they would be on my side.
A black person grows up with black parents, having no doubts about what it means to be black and having no way of deluding himself he could be something other than black. He will have to face institutional racism from society, but in the smallest social institution, he will face no such thing. Of course it doesn't make sense a black person lamenting he have been born black, but what is the parallel here?Im just saying if you are a 24 year old adult you need to buck up and make changes in your life where its needed. If a black person was lamenting how he was so mad he was born Black would that make any sense? of course not....this shouldnt either.
Im just saying if you are a 24 year old adult you need to buck up and make changes in your life where its needed