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why is it that I dislike/hate women.

Is it because of what my mom did to me when I was younger? I was practly treated like crap all the time.


I think one of the worst things a parent can do is to destroy the trust a child has in you by treating them like the proverbial redheaded stepchild. If that happens, they think have NO ONE who they feel they can trust and end up being bitter and sour on life period. Lets face it, it will suck if you are in that situation. My advice to you is to seek therapy and to pray, yes pray that GOD will send someone into your life that IS trustworthy. Someone who is on your side...and shows it. Of course, you have to realize that sometimes it is your fault....say if a woman leaves you for someone else.....there was something you lacked and whatever it is, he had it. Message me privately for more info...
 

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Of course, you have to realize that sometimes it is your fault....say if a woman leaves you for someone else.....there was something you lacked and whatever it is, he had it. Message me privately for more info...

I can't begin to tell you how much contempt I have for people who espouse this view (whether it be for men or women) that the person being left is somehow to blame.

Please take your religiously inspired guilt trippy "I am not worthy" and ............

Passive aggressive humility :Flush:
 

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Is it just females, or do you dislike males as well? No males or other females around you could trust? Depends if you look at the eyes in your mirror, like or dislike what looks back at you, can affect how you view others around you much of the time.
It's hard for me to trust people in general , because I been screwed too many times .
 

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sigh,
give this a go, if you are a reader and are able to retain and apply
otherwise i feel you may stay in that early teen stage till your 40 odd, with a dislike for Women to the forefront
not nice..

Self-Actualization

I'll take everyones opinion into consideration
 

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Misogyny is most of the times caused by your mother or female who raised you (grandmother, aunt, etc) treating you shitty, yes.

Actually- NO, that is entirely wrong, Misogyny is caused by growing up with an example of a woman hating or belittling male role model... and/or by the feeling that women exert control over you that you resent. ( which may hark back to a domineering female in your life, but is more likely to be the fact that you want women and they do not want you.)

...us man are just fucking pigs, fat ass, trogloditic hairy pigs.

Ahh, yes... outright self loathing is a far better solution to relationship issues... worship women because we are shit?

Great advice!

Mostly, men hate women because they resent the power women have over whether men get loved, or get lucky.

Misogyny is a peculiar form of self loathing wherein a person resents the thing they most covet. Think of all the rabid anti-gay crusaders who, it turns out, are secretly harboring gay desires.

It doesn't help when women in western culture seem to get such preferential treatment. They SEEM to get to always be right, expect their entertainment to be paid for, get out of tickets, get paid way more in tips, and in general, be held far less responsible for their actions.

Or so it seems to a man who is already resentful that they hold the key to his own sexual and emotional satisfaction.

All I can say is that you have to realize that, shows like Jersey Shore, and Housewives notwithstanding, not ALL women behave like entitled little shits. ( at least , no more so than the number of men who behave like total assholes )

There are a LOT of really great women out there. And if you are feeling hatred or dislike toward women as a group, then that suffering is entirely YOUR creation.

And like Marcus Aurelius said... 1800 years ago
"if you are troubled by any external thing, it is not that thing that is troubling you, but your own estimate of it... and THAT you have the power to change in any moment"
 
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And like Marcus Aurelius said... 1800 years ago
"if you are troubled by any external thing, it is not that thing that is troubling you, but your own estimate of it... and THAT you have the power to change in any moment"

^ I like this one
 

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why is it that I dislike/hate women.

Is it because of what my mom did to me when I was younger? I was practly treated like crap all the time.

Although my mom has been treating me like a crap, she is my hero and inspiration.
 
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Have a feeling theirs no comparison for a Mum
wife exempted, but deep down the wife to me unfortunately,has a lot to prove
Mums are heroes, by default ..
be a mighty fine woman who takes this as part Gospel ..
(ie humbly reverts to a backseat, knowing when to assert her role ..)
 

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Perhaps Males (not only fathers ) have auto inherited Machismo, as there default) drifter

Good or BAD??
(in saying that i personallydepise both M/F, for the asshole way some of us treat each other) ..