Ditch a date because of their friends?

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Would you avoid dating someone when you know part of their social circle are utter wankers and you've fallen out with a couple of them for talking shit about you in the past?

I'm all for giving the individual a chance but doesn't your choice of friends reflect back on the person?
 

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If I have enough interest in them either male or female I'd give it a try. A lot of time would be spent with the person I was dating and not necessarily their cohorts. It would also in the bigger picture depend on just how many of their friends were annoyances and dillweeds. Many people have at least a few friends that I won't see eye to eye with or that I find to be utter wastes of air space but I am not going out with them and if they're at a gathering there are usually enough good folks around to make it bearable.

Now if the person I was considering seeing socially had talked bad of me or someone I cared about.....like my children.....then I would not go out with them. I have some standards.
 

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First off, how you look at those "friends" and how they look at the same "friends" are two distinct things. You wouldn't want them judging you for not liking them; you shouldn't judge them for liking them. How those "wanker" friends are wankers to you could just be a chemistry thing or a falling out that you had with them that they have not had. It is THAT person you want; not the friends that go with it!! If you can keep the two in two categories, don't tell each other who the other can have for friends. It rarely works out!
 

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First off, how you look at those "friends" and how they look at the same "friends" are two distinct things. You wouldn't want them judging you for not liking them; you shouldn't judge them for liking them. How those "wanker" friends are wankers to you could just be a chemistry thing or a falling out that you had with them that they have not had. It is THAT person you want; not the friends that go with it!! If you can keep the two in two categories, don't tell each other who the other can have for friends. It rarely works out!

Liars are liars whatever way you paint it. I don't think the person in question is aware of the prior situation i.e. a couple of them hitting on me, me turning them down and things then getting ugly.
 

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"You are the company you keep."

Is there a particular reason your friend keeps this particular company? Perhaps you may wish to explore this line before ditching him. I do not particularly wish to be within people I do not like; I don't expect to be entertained when in a social gathering, but I do not expect to be insulted either.
 

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Are you utterly stupid? Dump someone cause you dont like the company they keep? do you have another john lined up already?

Are you just seeing them as a meal ticket? right? you are such a whore
lets face it, you are getting paid for it after all, just money right? nothing emotional.

there must not be any emotional attachment right?

what the fuck happens if he dumps his so called shit friends then you find out his mother is worse still? ask him to dump her as well?

what the fuck happens if he dont like your friends or your mother?

bitch you got to grow up. it's called life and learning to get along.
 

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Would you avoid dating someone when you know part of their social circle are utter wankers and you've fallen out with a couple of them for talking shit about you in the past?

I'm all for giving the individual a chance but doesn't your choice of friends reflect back on the person?


If a significant other has shitty friends...I would probably would see how deep the friendships are between the S.O. before making an decision on an amicable split. If you feel that that person shares the views of their friends...and you feel it is a major deal-breaker. Then, you should leave.


 

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Are you utterly stupid? Dump someone cause you dont like the company they keep? do you have another john lined up already?

Are you just seeing them as a meal ticket? right? you are such a whore
lets face it, you are getting paid for it after all, just money right? nothing emotional.

there must not be any emotional attachment right?

what the fuck happens if he dumps his so called shit friends then you find out his mother is worse still? ask him to dump her as well?

what the fuck happens if he dont like your friends or your mother?

bitch you got to grow up. it's called life and learning to get along.

calm your gay ass down a second queenie, I'm not going out with anyone and I pay my own way. I have to get along with people I work with, I don't have to get along with dickheads
 
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Depends if the date acts the same as they do in their pescence. I can't handle drongos that are not able to act as individuals and need to be part of the gang, when separated go into withdrawal.
 

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calm your gay ass down a second queenie, I'm not going out with anyone and I pay my own way. I have to get along with people I work with, I don't have to get along with dickheads

something is wrong here,
you are dating him right?
but are not willing to put more effort putting up with the quirks of his friends and compare dating to work friends?
seriously?
I still have not heard the word affection, in the slightest degree yet.
what is the attraction? what is the reason you are dating him?
how would you feel if he was "dating" several bitches at once and you are just one of the harem? that is how you are treating him, just one of the office pals.
or is it just a friend with benefit? (using him for sex)
if that is the case, just dump him
there seems to be a lot of available big cock here :)
oops, was that your coy way of advertising free and available sex?
this is 2013, just come out and say you want bigger and better
we all want bigger and better