- Lito,
warning: I'm not a native English speaker, so please bear with my rather faulty text.
Thats it. I've been ditched 2 days ago and I'm feeling like shit. Not sure it's related to LPSG but hey... can't hurt right?
Point is, I'm a 30 year old college professor, and I work away from the city (100 miles) 2 days a week. About a month from now, I've began dating a 20 year old cutie from that city (not my student). Shes fun, not too pretty but pleasing to the eyes... all in all, I kinda fell for her.
Last friday all went to hell. I called her and invited her to a big rave party. She said sure, I'll go with you, call me when you finish your work (that would be about 22:30h).
So I leave work and call her. Weird enough she says: "I'm near you, at the college, picking a friend of mine. No, no need to meet right now. GO ahead to the party and I'll call you if anything happens"
Albeit pissed, I do gather with the other professors (we're a mafia there )and we stop at a local bar to drink up before the party. All the while I was waiting for news... so I wait... wait... wait... 1:30h I decide to call her cellphone... no answer. At that point, pissed and with some vodkas on my head, I say the famous "fuck all, let's go wild".
So I arrive at the party like 2 AM and wait a bit more. At 3am, however, I grab the first blondie I see around and kiss the hell out of her.
Sure enough, that's when girl #1 appears, ignore me and that's it.
facts:
-We were not dating officially, but I felt like I deserved a better treatment.
-Point here is not to brag, but I'm a remarkably good looking guy, have a LOT of students (and non students) hitting on me constantly, but i didn't cheat on her, ever (and we were not even in a official relationship).
-We did have sex last week, and she seemed to enjoy it a LOT.
QUESTION: Did I fuck it up? Should I have given her more credit? Perhaps she had a good excuse and I just blew it all?
I'm feeling kinda like shit right now, but feel free to flame me, or not
ps: edited on student-professor issues, since that's not what I'm interested in discussing
Thats it. I've been ditched 2 days ago and I'm feeling like shit. Not sure it's related to LPSG but hey... can't hurt right?
Point is, I'm a 30 year old college professor, and I work away from the city (100 miles) 2 days a week. About a month from now, I've began dating a 20 year old cutie from that city (not my student). Shes fun, not too pretty but pleasing to the eyes... all in all, I kinda fell for her.
Last friday all went to hell. I called her and invited her to a big rave party. She said sure, I'll go with you, call me when you finish your work (that would be about 22:30h).
So I leave work and call her. Weird enough she says: "I'm near you, at the college, picking a friend of mine. No, no need to meet right now. GO ahead to the party and I'll call you if anything happens"
Albeit pissed, I do gather with the other professors (we're a mafia there )and we stop at a local bar to drink up before the party. All the while I was waiting for news... so I wait... wait... wait... 1:30h I decide to call her cellphone... no answer. At that point, pissed and with some vodkas on my head, I say the famous "fuck all, let's go wild".
So I arrive at the party like 2 AM and wait a bit more. At 3am, however, I grab the first blondie I see around and kiss the hell out of her.
Sure enough, that's when girl #1 appears, ignore me and that's it.
facts:
-We were not dating officially, but I felt like I deserved a better treatment.
-Point here is not to brag, but I'm a remarkably good looking guy, have a LOT of students (and non students) hitting on me constantly, but i didn't cheat on her, ever (and we were not even in a official relationship).
-We did have sex last week, and she seemed to enjoy it a LOT.
QUESTION: Did I fuck it up? Should I have given her more credit? Perhaps she had a good excuse and I just blew it all?
I'm feeling kinda like shit right now, but feel free to flame me, or not
ps: edited on student-professor issues, since that's not what I'm interested in discussing