indyguy9791
Expert Member
My ex and I had an amicable break up and stayed married for a time while we dated other people. It can and does happen and fuck what any outsider thinks about your relationships. They are yours for a reason.
Exactly my thoughts. My ex-wife and I met when I was 15. We got married whle I was in college and had a fantastic life together. But guess what.?.?.....we become different people when we are 30 or 35 versus age 15. And while we had a happy life, I always kinda knew something was missing so I "manned up" a few years ago (on Christmas eve of all days) and shared that I probably was more than a little curious about sex with guys. She couldn't have been more understanding and supportive about my decision to the point she was at least as concerned about me hurting as I was about her hurting.
Anyway, not that there weren't any complications, etc. what it came down to was that we both totallly and truly loved and respected each other. So we stayed married for a couple years mainly because of insurance and working on the house to get it ready to sell. And we both dated others and supported each other thru the ups and downs of that. And we grew even closer as result of going thru this whole experience. She met a great guy and they got engaged and we were like, "Oh Shit, we gotta get a divorce (there's a 6-month "cooling off period" in our state before it can finalize) so she could get married.
Many of our family and friends thought/think we are nuts, but it simply worked for us. We're still best friends. Always will be. And I have dinner with her and her husband prolly twice a month. There are all sorts of relationships and families out there --- people just need to open their eyes and their minds and remember that your family are those select few people that you decide to spend your life with, no matter what the title or legalitiy of the situation is.