Okay, this one is not for everyone, I just needed to vent. I will be filing for divorce soon and just want to explode. He knows this could be coming so has gone out of his way to be Mr nice guy and do all the things he couldn't seem to do for the last 8 months. Get up off his ass and at least see if anything needed to be done around the house. I knew when we got married he was diabetic and had ED problems, no problem. What I could not deal with was him not even trying to get help for this along with his own general health. He even went to get Androgel now. A little to late dude!!! If you cant talk to me nicely what makes you think I want to have sex with you????(rhetorical, just venting )As things got more tense(I can't seem to do anything correctly) he got really cruel with his comments even going to the point of telling me "I didn't deserve any better" as we were talking about trying to make things right. Thank you for the wake up call. I DO DESERVE BETTER as does all women here. No one has to take verbal abuse EVER!!!! I will never get married again. I think I will try the friends with benefits route for now.