I'm finding that the internet is not the place to find someone who is looking for anything but a nsa encounter. I should specify that my search is difficult because the appearance of a man does nothing for me sexually, the most comfortable of situations would be someone around my age and looks, but frankly the internet is a little deceiving when people describe or trade pictures of themselves(I've been looking for a while). Most public places in NYC are centered around drunken trysts that involve sex acts I'm not looking to do. I appreciate advice that has been given, but I'm still looking for other advice.