Do Afro-Americans perform cunnilingus? Because African men don't

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  1. B_johnschlong

    B_johnschlong New Member

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    I've been living in Africa for many years now. I often speak with my black male friends about sex, and have found that they never eat pussy. They consider it to be dirty.

    Likewise, when I eat out African girls, they often tell me that they've never experienced this, and that black men don't perform this act.

    So both sides seem to confirm this.

    Now my question is: do African-American men, in general, love to eat pussy? Or don't they either? Is there a cultural difference between African and Afro-American men with regards to oral sex?
     
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    I'm an African man. I do.

    I don't have sex with anyone I meet in Africa, specifically Zimbabwe (where I'm from) or South Africa (where I frequent) because the HIV/AIDS rate is so high.

    As for cultural differences...that goes without saying. Firstly, Africa is made up of 54 distinct countries and 4 or 5 times more different distinct cultural groups. African culture isn't monolithic, just like Africa isn't a single country. So the first question you gotta ask is "do all African cultures view oral sex the same way?"

    Next question?
     
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    Hee hee. I was waiting (hoping) for you to turn up here sbat :)
     
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    Wait...was this a setup? Crap, I fell for it!:tongue:

    Or were you waiting for a graphic description of how I like to get my girl wet with my mouth?
     
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    African American male and I love to eat pussy before and during sex.
     
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    I wasn't the OP, but I was waiting for you to turn up and smash his theory into pieces :smile: I'm not a fan of statements that refer to 'all [insert any group you like here]' and had a feeling you might be able to disprove the 'all' that was implied by the OP.

    Graphic descriptions are always nice though :smile:
     
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    you into yoga?
     
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    There, made some changes to reflect my experience.:biggrin1:
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    LOL :lmao:
     
  11. ManlyBanisters

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    OP is a bit of a troll, especially when it comes to preaching about his African expereinces. Also a bit, um, elastic with the truth when it comes to where he lives / lived and when.

    On Dec 9 2009:


    On May 14 2009:

     
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    Good catch, ManlyBanisters!
     
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    Lot's of spontaneous sex with multiple women you've met in Central Africa? Been to a doctor lately? AIDS rates approaching 1 in 3 adults is no joke
     
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    Well thanks for confirming the fact that I've written here before that I've lived in Africa for a very long time.

    I'm in Europe now for an 11 day stay, after which I return to Cameroon and Congo.

    Thx, ManlyBanisters, as you've so nicely illustrated, I always tell the truth.
     
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    Exactly, proving what I say is always welcome. Merci mingi.
     
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    The HIV rate for the countries I stay in on a regular basis is, on average, below 5%.

    Gabon: 8%
    Cameroon: 5%
    Republic of Congo: 3%
    Democratic Republic of Congo: 2%
    Central African Republic: 6%
    Angola: 3%
    Rwanda: 2%

    Add to this the fact that I often use a condom, and I don't really see the problem.
     
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    By the way, as an educated African you should know that there's no country on the planet with an HIV-rate approaching 33%. That's an absurd thought. Who ever told you that? Not a doctor, for sure.
     
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    These are the nationwide rates. These will differ rural vs urban areas, generally being higher in the urban areas. For example, according to the WHO, the AIDS rate in Rwanda is 4% out in the bush and 11% in urban areas. And this is just the reported rate, not even counting the folks that have it but don't yet know it, or refuse to admit they have it, which could be as high as an additional 5% in rural areas.

    Granted, the AIDS rate is highest in the world where I'm from (Zimbabwe) and where I frequent (S. Africa, Swaziland, Botswana, Zambia, etc). And given that my mother has lost two siblings to AIDS, and my dad has one brother with it too, I'm extremely cautious in that neck of the woods.

    Now, if you're banging women out in the bush, then sure, your known risk is lower, but you're more likely to run into a surprise. All that would be on my mind, if I'm eating minge, is "there is a 1 in 10 chance - at least - that this girl has AIDS." Kills my desire on the spot.
     
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    Zimbabwe had an AIDS rate in 2003 at 24.5% that was projected to increase. Who told me? My mother, who has a PhD in epidemiology (study of disease spread) who works for the NIH. Swaziland and Botswana are also in the high 20's if not low 30's now. Life expectancies in the high 30's/low 40's corroborates this to a certain extent.

    Official numbers are around 15% as of 2007 - these are numbers reported by the government, which has put little into birth control education or disease prevention. I'm quite skeptical of these figures, especially as more prosperous surrounding countries similarly hard hit still have rates in the mid to high 20's.

    Lastly, given the attitudes towards sex and HIV spread in Zimbabwe, it's not at all absurd to see a 1 in 3 percentage given that it got to the high 20's low 30's in the first place. People don't have a paranoid fear of death and suffering that's so present in the US. I'm sure its not so different in East or West Africa.
     
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    If this is so, why do so many archaic folkloric tales in all parts of Africa often make reference to this intimate practice. Or is it like some SA politicians who believe HIV doesn't exist.
     
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