See, that there is what we have a problem with. Blanket statements about people along race lines. You haven't slept with all the white women or all the black women in the world to be able to make such a sweeping statement.
That may well be your experience - but you don't voice it that way. You make sweeping statements that seem (to us) designed to jibe at the white, female members of this board. You post in the women's issues section, rather than in Relationships or Etc., with these stated as fact opinions about how many of us are, in your eyes, deficient. And when we state our own opinions that don't concur with yours you call us fascists.
It's not exactly conducive to an educative exchange of adult opinions, now, is it?