Do any bottoms actually enjoy the burning, stinging sensation of being entered?

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  1. earllogjam

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    No, but the pleasure that follows shortly after makes it worth it.
     
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    i'd really like hearing the discussion that comes from this question--- speak up to educate the board guys!
     
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    I don't get off on the actual pain, no. I would imagine unless you're into BDSM this would hold for most people (men or women) receiving anal sex. It's a psychological thing, it excites me greatly that I'm being entered. Also I find if you're warmed up (fingered, rimmed etc) and both your hole and the dick are well-lubed then there's minimal stinging and burning anyway.
     
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    Instead of this: :confused:, earl, why don't you tell us first. Do you? Then let the convo flow from there.
     
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    The only time it hurts too much is if (1) you're not lubed well enough and/or prepared (fingered, rimmed) (2) the guy just pushes too hard (ease that baby in there, please). Otherwise, that pain is worth what follows.
     
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    burning, stinging sensation of being entered?

    I have never felt that before either you aren't using enough lube or you have hemroids. I love the feeling of my man's penis opening me up.
     
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    Yeah, burning and stinging suggests you should go slower and take your time.
     
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    Sometimes in the heat of the moment my ex has entered me too quickly and it hurt... (a lot) I personally don't like the pain but after a minute or so it goes away and then its feels like pure ecstasy. Also I'm very tight so lots of spit has to be used.

    one thing I miss about him is that sometimes he would surprise me. he was very vanilla but there where time wheN he fucked me like a bull. those where always the best sessions. :)
     
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    It is awesome when a man fucks you like a bull.
     
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    Yeah, if it hurts you're doing it wrong.
     
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    Sometimes that pain makes me not want to bottom but, once I walk it off and past the inital shock of his thick cock its all fun from there.
     
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    I only have that sensation when I'm on my back getting fucked. It doesn't happen when I'm the one controlling the action (for lack of a better way of saying it).
     
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    I've noticed that, too. Back in my 20's, when I was having more sex, I was more able to adjust quickly, but recently it seems the stinging just continues in certain positions.
     
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    I dont get that burning/stinging pain. Sometimes it hurst at first. Like an over stretching pain....but that goes away, then pleasure follows. Lots and lots of pleasure ;)
     
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    Like being a virgin every time! No really I don't remember any burning stinging sensation. Just some pressure and then pleasure!
     
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    If there is the slightest bit of pain, you're doing it wrong.
     
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    Assuming you're using condoms, have you tried latex-free condoms? Latex is irritating for a lot of people. It could also be something in the lube irritating you. Or maybe you're a bit raw down there to begin with and you're not aware until someone is fucking you.

    Try different things and different positions. I for one believe it is totally worth sorting out in order to experience the awesome pleasure.
     
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    sometimes the slightest bit of pain *or more* means you're doing it right :D

    sometimes intrusion is kinda hot.
    all fumble/slam/bruising urgency/demanding.
     
    #20 MickeyLee, Mar 7, 2012
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