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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by earllogjam, Mar 7, 2012.
No, but the pleasure that follows shortly after makes it worth it.
i'd really like hearing the discussion that comes from this question--- speak up to educate the board guys!
I don't get off on the actual pain, no. I would imagine unless you're into BDSM this would hold for most people (men or women) receiving anal sex. It's a psychological thing, it excites me greatly that I'm being entered. Also I find if you're warmed up (fingered, rimmed etc) and both your hole and the dick are well-lubed then there's minimal stinging and burning anyway.
Instead of this: , earl, why don't you tell us first. Do you? Then let the convo flow from there.
The only time it hurts too much is if (1) you're not lubed well enough and/or prepared (fingered, rimmed) (2) the guy just pushes too hard (ease that baby in there, please). Otherwise, that pain is worth what follows.
burning, stinging sensation of being entered?
I have never felt that before either you aren't using enough lube or you have hemroids. I love the feeling of my man's penis opening me up.
Yeah, burning and stinging suggests you should go slower and take your time.
Sometimes in the heat of the moment my ex has entered me too quickly and it hurt... (a lot) I personally don't like the pain but after a minute or so it goes away and then its feels like pure ecstasy. Also I'm very tight so lots of spit has to be used.
one thing I miss about him is that sometimes he would surprise me. he was very vanilla but there where time wheN he fucked me like a bull. those where always the best sessions.
It is awesome when a man fucks you like a bull.
Yeah, if it hurts you're doing it wrong.
Sometimes that pain makes me not want to bottom but, once I walk it off and past the inital shock of his thick cock its all fun from there.
I only have that sensation when I'm on my back getting fucked. It doesn't happen when I'm the one controlling the action (for lack of a better way of saying it).
I've noticed that, too. Back in my 20's, when I was having more sex, I was more able to adjust quickly, but recently it seems the stinging just continues in certain positions.
I dont get that burning/stinging pain. Sometimes it hurst at first. Like an over stretching pain....but that goes away, then pleasure follows. Lots and lots of pleasure
Like being a virgin every time! No really I don't remember any burning stinging sensation. Just some pressure and then pleasure!
If there is the slightest bit of pain, you're doing it wrong.
Assuming you're using condoms, have you tried latex-free condoms? Latex is irritating for a lot of people. It could also be something in the lube irritating you. Or maybe you're a bit raw down there to begin with and you're not aware until someone is fucking you.
Try different things and different positions. I for one believe it is totally worth sorting out in order to experience the awesome pleasure.
sometimes the slightest bit of pain *or more* means you're doing it right
sometimes intrusion is kinda hot.
all fumble/slam/bruising urgency/demanding.