Do any bottoms actually enjoy the burning, stinging sensation of being entered?

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Mr. Nico.. maybe some folks pay for their intorwebz access by the word. ya can see how quotes/reply numbers would be a cause for concern:tongue1::biggrin1:*


:kiss: happy to be ya giggle gal, Mr. Nico



*good natured foolery. not evil snark-platter of fuck you.
 
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Ms. ML, you is always a bright ray of sunshine here!

I suppose I should also apologize for the grammatical errors that crept up in y post. I was trying very hard to phrase things right, and not be too harsh, and I duplicated some words. If ya are right, and he has to pay by word, i would hate ta think what my duplicate words, of previous incarnations of thought must have cost him!:eek:*

I tried to rectify by not directly quoting you, :tongue:

*Possible snark, but no fuck you, just playful snark, lol
 

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OK. I will play nicey nice...*sigh* Con, yer friend does have a point, but only to an extent, and to a certain point, and it is very variable.

When i was first bottoming, being penetrated was...odd. It felt good-ish, and hurt a bit (not bad, but there was a very stretched feeling, and depending on angle and length an uncomfortable poking sensation and pressure in certain positions on my badder) and, yes, there were times where it felt as though i had to or wanted to evacuate my bowels of the intruder. It was oart of my bodies way of coping with an unknown feeling. Well Mostly unknown, I had played with toys before, though the same was true of them.

Once my body understood and could quantify the sensation, that feeling of having to take a crap vanished, replaced with only sensations of pleasant fullness, heat, friction, and overall pleasure. I would say it was about 10 times or so of bottoming for various guys before the change was complete. This was for ME though, and there are people who never experience it thus, or always do, or as pain, or any number of ways.

As i said before, I sometimes get that slight sting upon entry. Not always. Not even the majority of the time. Hell not even a quarter of the time.But there are occasions, when I am sufficiently hot and bothered, where I throw caution to the wind, and plow ahead (well I get plowed at any rate, lol) and not just suck up and deal with it, but truly enjoy it.

I hope that clears things up, well from my point of view at any rate.
 

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Yes. Some people need to lube up and man up. My showering routine every morning involves three fingers straight up the back passage. The other day I took a thick one and a large dildo at the same time no problem. It's all about keeping your muscles relaxed and using some lube.
 

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Dude! there's a spray for that. =) your missing out!!! Also try clorespetic are Vicks spray for soar throats... Spray some down your throat till its nice n numb... YOU'lll give the most AMAZING deep throat and face fuck =)))
 

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Dude! there's a spray for that. =) your missing out!!! Also try clorespetic are Vicks spray for soar throats... Spray some down your throat till its nice n numb... YOU'lll give the most AMAZING deep throat and face fuck =)))

Wow! That's good information. Why didn't I think of that? Plus you just reminded me of the time with my first steady boyfriend who was medium-large. I got haemorrhoids after 2 weeks with him and used a local anaesthetic gel on my butt before and after sex. It was like lube but caused a numbing around the sphincter. It worked. The trade name of the product was Xylocaine and it's also used by dentists because of the "Novocaine" like properties.

After about 10 days my problem cleared up and my muscles were used to the penetration so no more pain. I've only ever had the problem recur when fisting with too little lube or too short preparation, never with just fucking.
 

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use more lube and prep. rim jobs open me right up. when i fuck a girl in the ass, i rim her and use tons of lube. all over my cock and her ass.
 

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I dont think anyone enjoys the pain portion of anal but after youve done it a few times and are "broken in" it actually does feel amazing to bottom. hearing and seeing the guy youre with in complete pleasure as hes about to finish. any tops in the vegas area im down to chat or meet up. :)