Do any of you get offended when women/men so easilly attach the word "rape" to a porn vid?

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This bothers me a lot. I see a lot of comments by men on porn sites or even my friends after they watch a movie with an OBVIOUSLY CONSENSUAL aggressive sex scene. They say "that's awful, it's rape"!!!!

I know of two woman friends dear to me who was raped and what they went through for years was hell. I find people who cry "rape" so easily diminish and disrespect what an actual rape survivor goes through.

PSA: Guys who think they are helping by their well meaning "look at poor girl in that vid, so wrong: STOP IT. Use the word "rape" sparingly for overuse makes it mean nothing.
 

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I've never seen porn where I believed a woman was being raped. There are a lot of fake forced videos that I've seen, but none that I have felt were real. What I have seen are videos that I truly believed the woman was uncomfortable, I don't know why she didn't call an end, but I also didn't see struggles to get away. The comments may stem from people believing play/ force/ aggressive sex isn't consensual, or maybe it's not obvious to the person commenting that it's very consensual.

Honestly, I see just as many if not more comments that say crap like she's destroyed, she's ruined, etc. Those comments bother me the most. Weird.
 

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I've never seen porn where I believed a woman was being raped. There are a lot of fake forced videos that I've seen, but none that I have felt were real. What I have seen are videos that I truly believed the woman was uncomfortable, I don't know why she didn't call an end, but I also didn't see struggles to get away. The comments may stem from people believing play/ force/ aggressive sex isn't consensual, or maybe it's not obvious to the person commenting that it's very consensual.

Honestly, I see just as many if not more comments that say crap like she's destroyed, she's ruined, etc. Those comments bother me the most. Weird.

The thing is some women like working through the pain to challenge themselves.

In the movie 'Inherent Vice' when the character gets sexual all of a sudden with the female my friend is convinced it's rape!!!! Not all women smile doing sex I told him and women (most) love been manhandled! It irks me he doesn't see it. It's a dangerous word to just haphazardly throw about...

I just can't believe how clueless some guys are and no nothing about women's sexuality and it's complexity.
 

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The thing is some women like working through the pain to challenge themselves.

In the movie 'Inherent Vice' when the character gets sexual all of a sudden with the female my friend is convinced it's rape!!!! Not all women smile doing sex I told him and women (most) love been manhandled! It irks me he doesn't see it. It's a dangerous word to just haphazardly throw about...

I just can't believe how clueless some guys are and no nothing about women's sexuality and it's complexity.

I have never watched the movie, never heard of it actually, but of course I found the scene on PornHub!!!

My first impression, catharsis. I didn't have an opinion of rape, but I think it was poorly done. I've never wanted to use sex in that particular fashion.
 

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I have never watched the movie, never heard of it actually, but of course I found the scene on PornHub!!!

My first impression, catharsis. I didn't have an opinion of rape, but I think it was poorly done. I've never wanted to use sex in that


I have never watched the movie, never heard of it actually, but of course I found the scene on PornHub!!!

My first impression, catharsis. I didn't have an opinion of rape, but I think it was poorly done. I've never wanted to use sex in that particular fashion.


Place a link here so people can watch and see what I'm talking about. The tone in the scene was accurate: fits the movie but there is no bloody rape involved for sure...

So curious about other people's reactions to the scene.
 

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I've seen porn videos that I would qualify as rape. Where the woman is crying for humiliation. 'Consensual' doesn't necessarily means 'with free consent'.
 

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"In the movie 'Inherent Vice' when the character gets sexual all of a sudden with the female my friend is convinced it's rape!!!!"

Do mean the scene in which Shasta is naked and seductively lays over Doc's lap with her ass in his face teasing the fuck out of him till he can't take it anymore and he finally slaps her tempting butt hard a bunch of times and then fucks her like crazy?

Yeah, she so wanted that.

"Not all women smile doing sex I told him and women (most) love been manhandled!"

I don't speak for all women but personally once I give the green light, yes, give me a big strong handed helping of a sexually charged passionate dominant male craving my bod/sex. I want the beast, predator lusting prey. A, "me soft feminine Jane you rough masculine Tarzan scenario. I like my men to be Men with a capital "M" in bed so please, by all means, manhandle away and show me who's boss. Other than me uttering the words, "stop" or "that hurts" press on through any squeal, thrashing, moans, bucking, panting, screams, struggling, cursing, or guttural growl from hell, as that's just how this kitty purrs.
 

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"In the movie 'Inherent Vice' when the character gets sexual all of a sudden with the female my friend is convinced it's rape!!!!"

Do mean the scene in which Shasta is naked and seductively lays over Doc's lap with her ass in his face teasing the fuck out of him till he can't take it anymore and he finally slaps her tempting butt hard a bunch of times and then fucks her like crazy?

Yeah, she so wanted that.

"Not all women smile doing sex I told him and women (most) love been manhandled!"

I don't speak for all women but personally once I give the green light, yes, give me a big strong handed helping of a sexually charged passionate dominant male craving my bod/sex. I want the beast, predator lusting prey. A, "me soft feminine Jane you rough masculine Tarzan scenario. I like my men to be Men with a capital "M" in bed so please, by all means, manhandle away and show me who's boss. Other than me uttering the words, "stop" or "that hurts" press on through any squeal, thrashing, moans, bucking, panting, screams, struggling, cursing, or guttural growl from hell, as that's just how this kitty purrs.

When I'm too tired to manhandle I've had women actually get visibly pissed cause they don't want to be in control!
 

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Masterpumper, your mass generalizations about women in thread after thread have me convinced you are trolling the board. I used to blame your young age for the garbage you said and now I'm sure you capped out on maturity around 12.

Rape can happen even after consent is given if it gets too rough/painful and the person is begging/crying for you to stop and you refuse to. Rape comes in many potential scenarios. I think most people know what rape is so who are you to tell someone they don't understand what rape is because it doesn't meet the definition you have in mind? You have a limited mindset because it suits your viewpoint on life to keep telling yourself rape only looks one way and can't possibly be filmed and published. Can't have a boner kill like that bro. That'll ruin a fap sesh, right?

Based on your misogynistic signature I'd suggest no one waste their time trying to change your mind on how you think about women.
 
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What you don't understand exactly?

If the woman, is crying for humiliation, she's asking to be humiliated.... right? That's the way I read your sentence.

I don't know if the people are having some type of scene together. Maybe I haven't watched some of the same types of videos you've stumbled across. I don't think I've ever watched a video where one person was asking another person to stop and they didn't? Or if they did I didn't get that far into the video.
 

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If the woman, is crying for humiliation, she's asking to be humiliated.... right? That's the way I read your sentence.
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English isn't my first language; as far as I know, 'crying for' means crying as a consequence of (some cause); I am familiar that in colloquial speaking 'crying for' is a figurative for 'he/she wanted it a lot'; I have faith that the intelligence of the reader will lead him to understand which of the two meanings is intended in the given case.

..... Maybe I haven't watched some of the same types of videos you've stumbled across. I don't think I've ever watched a video where one person was asking another person to stop and they didn't? Or if they did I didn't get that far into the video.
It is quite possible that we have seen different videos. What I was pointing to, anyway, is that there can be a rape even if the victim didn't prononunce the holy sentence that dispel any doubts that what you are seeing is a rape. Let's say I am addicted to a drug and, pray of a whitdrawal crisis I accept to be beaten as shit. Is that violence or not? If there is violence, there is rape. The legal name could vary, but it is sexual violence. Nothing to do with a 'rough fuck' or 'being dominant'.
 

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:\ I've only seen one video where I was positive it was real.
It wasn't that I was looking for it or even porn for that matter. I just clicked on a link someone posted in chat (different site) all the links before it was random stuff, some of it funny.


This video though was of rape and simultaneous dismembermen 2M 1F. Staked to the ground while being raped by 1 while the other was going at the limbs with a hack saw. I didn't watch much, maybe like 1 minute. The video autoplays as soon as the page loads.
It was one of those sites dedicated to gore and fucked up stuff.
Most of the other videos were of snuffs, accidents, public executions in Iraq, accidents, and murder scenes on the page for picture links below.

That is one of those things I'd like to believe it was fake but my gut says it was real.
I never really clicked links from that person again or really ever talked to them again.



That said. I think there are a lot of questionable videos. As Tattooed Goddess pointed out. Rape comes in many forms. Rape also evolves.

Also rape isn't going to also be really violent or met with lots of resistance from the victim either.

I imagine quite a number of those sleep creep videos fall under rape or sexual assault.

Many videos that started out consensual escalated into rape. Be it they didn't stop when she wanted it to, she signed up for something but got something entirely different, did something she said she wouldn't do.


Videos of where the girl can't take it. I'd imagine some of those might really be where a woman wants it to stop because it hurts but the act goes on. Top it off people are probably writing in the comments with words of encouragement for the guy. Then some put the cherry of salt on top by slut shaming her at the same time, basically making it as if it was her fault and the guy is a god.

Some of the public abduction videos. Where it was thought to be roleplay but it really wasn't. The more people you have in on it the more legit you can make it. 2-4 guys could make something that looked quite legitimate with some video editing, throw in some music for the beginning part and what have you.

I'd have to entertain the idea that there may be a lot more videos out there than one would like to believe. I might even bank on some videos with millions of views where it wasn't entirely consensual. On a big site no less.




  • This is very subjective and kind of has to be applied 1 particular video at a time. Otherwise it is people basing their opinions on vastly different videos. Where one legitimately saw rape and another didn't, perhaps both did/didn't but interpreted it differently.

I do think falsely named videos are annoying though. Like woman masturbates with dildo, but is labeled Girl Gets Brutally Raped or dumb shit like that where it is way too clear and seems more like a troll or some one playing some tagging gam
 

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Masterpumper, your mass generalizations about women in thread after thread have me convinced you are trolling the board. I used to blame your young age for the garbage you said and now I'm sure you capped out on maturity around 12.

Rape can happen even after consent is given if it gets too rough/painful and the person is begging/crying for you to stop and you refuse to. Rape comes in many potential scenarios. I think most people know what rape is so who are you to tell someone they don't understand what rape is because it doesn't meet the definition you have in mind? You have a limited mindset because it suits your viewpoint on life to keep telling yourself rape only looks one way and can't possibly be filmed and published. Can't have a boner kill like that bro. That'll ruin a fap sesh, right?

Based on your misogynistic signature I'd suggest no one waste their time trying to change your mind on how you think about women.

Go fuck yourself. You are generalizing about me! My signature as I mentioned before is to filter out people who take everything seriously. I like being a clown. and when did I say rape only looks one way?!!!! I'm talking about people labelling 9 out of 10 vids rape.

And for your fucking information I do what what rape is: I was raped as a child.
 
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