Do any of you use the Adult Friend Finder or sites similar to them?

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I always see these website ads with pictures of random girls who are supposedly from my town for websites like Adult Friend Finder, and I never used to believe in them until this guy I know went on one when he was drunk one night and met up with a girl and screwed her.
So do people actually use these sites ?
 

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Dis regarding the pictures scam I'm interested if people really do use it even in the smaller towns. They always "claim" people are just waiting in your town.....So if your town has no members can they still legally make that claim???
 

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I still have an account on AFF (although I am just a standard member, due to my budget). I have met people through it, too. I do think it's easier to do this if you live in a city than if you live in a small town, though.

For me, AFF is about the only way I can tactfully, actively seek out big guys. That's one of the reasons I signed up. (That and no sex for 6 years! :eek:)

While right now I am only seeking out a FB or FWB, I am open to something more serious as well. I am open to all the possibilites, just depending on who I meet.
 

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i have an account on there. i've had it for at least a year, but i don't really use it. it's not very useful for me since i don't have my own vehicle, and i sure as hell am NOT going to let any of them come over to my place. lol. noooo way. so i took my profile down for now. there were some guys on there that i was interested in, but i'm a little nervous about it being online. you never know.
 

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I have an account there. Being a female, it doesn't really take a lot of effort to keep an account. I made a profile, uploaded pics and didn't pay a thing.

I always see these website ads with pictures of random girls who are supposedly from my town for websites like Adult Friend Finder,

Interestingly enough I have found my pictures used by the different 'finder' sites for that very purpose.

The quality of people are hit and miss, I suppose that is just true of life in general. I met a man who was/is very significant in my life and I have encountered so many over the top, oh my gosh you are just strange folks as well.
 

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There are real women on AFF...quite a few of them. Lots of fakes and spam to. I'd say the ratio of fake profiles and spam to real women is about 3 to 1 or so. It doesn't take alot of experience on there to figure out when a profile is likely to be a fake/spam.

Like anything else, there are pros and cons to using a site like that. Overall, though, the women I've met from AFF, etc. have been way more sexually compatibile with me than women that I met through 'normal' approaches (clubs, grocery stores, friends).
 

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I always see these website ads with pictures of random girls who are supposedly from my town for websites like Adult Friend Finder, and I never used to believe in them until this guy I know went on one when he was drunk one night and met up with a girl and screwed her.
So do people actually use these sites ?

The beautiful "random" girls you see in the ads are nude models with your town info (gathered from your IP address, I think) just pasted in below. There are real women on the site, though -- just not the ones they use to advertise.
 

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In order to meet real women, any man must be willing the answer the following question in the affirmative:

"Ever ride a hog?"
 

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Yes. I have had a profile and am a member of AFF and a few other sites - and have met quite a few real, fun, attractive people out there and had lots of fun. So yes, you'd be surprised how real - and how many people - and very hot women are out there on them. Craigslist is a great place to look for NSA fun as well.

There are all kinds of real, normal, cool women out there that are wanting to let themselves be wild but are too afraid of their social circle finding out. AFF and other sites are the perfect way for them to explore this. And lucky for me - many of them want to experience a true big cock for the first time. I must say it has worked out very well for me.
 

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I always see these website ads with pictures of random girls who are supposedly from my town for websites like Adult Friend Finder, and I never used to believe in them until this guy I know went on one when he was drunk one night and met up with a girl and screwed her.
So do people actually use these sites ?
Yes, real people use them and have some success.

So what is it, basically just a site where you put together a personal in order to hook up with people?
Yes, it's sole purpose is to act as a means to connect people who want to have sex.

I had an account on AFF for a while.
So did I. I had a lot of responses but they allseemed kind of freaky/scary. So I never responded and closed out my account.


 

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I had an account with AFF briefly in 2006. I suspect it might work well enough if you are:

  • a straight guy who lives in a major metro area (like LA, NYC, or the like)
  • a gay or bi guy/gal in any populated area
  • a straight woman who lives almost anywhere at all :tongue:
But as a straight guy not located in a major metropolis, I found that there were actually only a handful of genuine female members of suitable age in my area. As compared to like 200 men. :rolleyes:

There are a couple of crippling problems with these kinds of sites. First off, they are mainly marketed to horny, lonely guys, via sexy picture links on other sites. Perhaps as a result, males outnumber females by like 20 to 1 or worse. This creates a dynamic where the women are inundated and the men get little or no action, which doesn't work out well for anybody.

A good test to run on this kind of site, if they will let you do a search without becoming a paid member (iirc AFF does), is to search for, say, males 25-45 within 100 miles of your location, and then do the same for females. See how many of each there are, and what portion of each are paid subscribers. If the ratio is drastically unbalanced, give it a miss or take your chances. Also, look at how many of those accounts are still active; often sites are reluctant to purge women's accounts even if they haven't been accessed in months.

Secondly, these sites will try to compensate for the lack of eligible females by adding robotic profiles. If you read enough female profiles attentively (as I did), you begin to notice that there are a limited number of paragraphs that show up (misspellings and all) in varying order in profile after profile, set against completely different pictures. These "robo-members" do not of course respond to contacts. :biggrin1:

Third, if you are a guy (can't speak for women members) you will receive what look like contacts from women. However, once you start up a conversation they will tell you about how their pics or contact info are to be found on their profile on some other site. Which is, naturally, a pay per view site. Dealing with this is annoying. The dead giveaway is when they want you to contact them at an external email address. Don't do it unless you want porno site spam out your ears. They're just phishing for your email address, and possibly CC data as well.

I understand that there are people who use these sites successfully, and as I said above I believe even single men might find them useful if there are enough women members in their area. But you will be navigating a figurative minefield mainly designed, IMHO, not to join happy couples together but to separate desperate and incautious single people, especially men, from their money. YMMV.

Cheers,
-DC
 

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I always see these website ads with pictures of random girls who are supposedly from my town for websites like Adult Friend Finder, and I never used to believe in them until this guy I know went on one when he was drunk one night and met up with a girl and screwed her.
So do people actually use these sites ?

Yes(AFF), i'm logged on as a standard member with the user name dadyloves, i've had alot of responses from local girls, and requests to meet members but my wife and i are real picky(also, we don't just jump), so we've yet to contact anyone by registering as a silver or gold member, just some hotlisting.
I have a friends network and have a bulletin board, as a standard member the only way i can add anyone to my friends list is for them to look at my profile then i can do a request to see if they want to be in my friends network or not.
Being in the friends network as a standard member allows you to browse their gallery if they have one.
The mods there are very strict, anything out of line is emediatly deleted and/or denied, any obusive members are emediatly banned for life.
chris
 

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I had a free account on there for a short time. I had met a young couple who had a son my son's age.....through the nudist club. They would bring their son over for play dates. And one day they showed me that they were members of AFF and to look at their pics I think I had to set up a free account.....Or maybe that was to look at their pics when they weren't around. I don't know. They were interested in swinging and that was how they met their swinging friends.

I had a lot of people contacting me from AFF and it was usually married men looking for extra curricular on the side...... a few couples interested in swinging. And what was scary was that they were all from my neighborhood. Blocks from where I live. I wasn't really looking for anything other than friends to go to nudist places........so I am sure the interest fizzled. I haven't signed into AFF in a couple of years so I don't know if I still have a free account with them or not.

But it seemed to be a good place to hook up with people that live close to you. Everyone I talked to seemed to be decent people.