Actually, from what I've read over many years in male sexuality, it's not all that uncommon (to initially) not be all that overwhelmingly impressed by the female anatomy. Yes, sure--there should be at least
some sexual desire I suppose. For some men, perhaps it's NOT as interesting as a penis.
For most men though, whether they dare admit to it or not--becoming acquainted with a woman's body
IS a learning experience. After all, for a number of reasons too, men bring to their girlfriends / wives different sexual and emotional backgrounds. And, granted, the male and female anatomy IS designed very differently. Men already know about their own genitalia. But WOMEN'S ? Guys will ultimately need instruction from their women,patience
and time to learn. This process (which is inevitably what it is!) ...
takes time. GOOD lovers men....
aren't born! They have to LEARN to be good lovers.
It helps, I suppose, to realize just how uniquely the two genders are made and that the ingenuity behind both male and female genitalia somehow always allows (eventually :wink: ) for a proper fitting of the two. No matter how the other "looks"...it's appearance, its function, it's
all exactly how it was originally intended to be now, isn't it? Even the characteristic female "scents" which could be regarded by men as 'the smell of love". This was exactly how the matter of feminine hygiene was referred to in a CHRISTIAN guidebook on marriage I just completed reading!
So, calling either gender's sexual organs "ugly" or "gross" ?
It's the ultimate insult to the master creator!
.....I'm just offering this OTHER way to think about it!