Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? or pumping? or inflating?

bioshocked

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 28, 2016
Posts
12
Media
0
Likes
5
Points
13
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? Or pumping? or inflating?

I did some searching and could only find the occasional comment on erections. Or the usual thread about penis size preference for sex. I am married and don't really care about size preferences for sex, plenty of comments on that all over the internet. Though I do understand how the size can be good or bad, etc.

I can't stop men from commenting, but really want the women's comments due to my wife lack of interest. My wife loves my sex and size but she has zero interest in my fantasies outside of directly having sex or playing directly with my penis such as oral, etc. But she doesn't want to use a dildo. Only acceptable device for her is a vibrating magic wand and showerhead.

So I am wondering if that is extremely common and if so, I still want to know if there are any women that get turned on by some of the things I want to talk about below.

I will have to look at the rules closer to see what I can link, etc.

Overview: I am perfectly accepting of my body and penis size. I have purchased some huge dildo's as a way to play fantasy with her, but she has no interest. And when she let me use them on her, she seems to not enjoy it at all and can't seem to orgasim with them. As a guy, the feeling of my penis expanding is so amazing. And so my fantasies often revolve around that. I am also into huge boobs, but that is a different conversation. I am very straight and do not watch any male/male porn, but I do enjoy watching solo male or male/female where they show the erection process and a very large penis. I imagine that it is me. A way to role play. I really want my wife to see it with me as a role playing method, but she won't watch it. I have tried to explore just the ideas with her, but she just doesn't seem to be into any of it.

So the main overview is that I like to fantasize about my penis being/getting huge. Regardless of the intercourse aspect. And wonder if any women enjoy that as well. And the different methods below.

1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?

2. Pumping in a tube. I love the way it feels and watching it grow beyond it's natural size! This one video of pumping to fill a 9 inch tube is erotic to me. Watching it expand past each line with each pump is fun both with my own but especially a huge one that I imagine is my own.

3. Inflation with n2o gas. This is bizzare I know. But it is out there and some of them are fun to watch. I have also felt this and the feeling is amazing. But other than looking at it and the way it feels, it is worthless for playing with as it has no firmness to it like an actual balloon. But the scrotum and shaft grow fast and huge! It's an incredible feeling and amazing for mental fantasy! Though I have never seen it done with a 8+ inch penis. Scrotum saline inflation is more common but doesn't excite me personally.

4. realistic dildo or strapons. I bought a 9" and 12" realistic to play with the wife. I like to pretend it is mine. Put it in my pants, underwear, etc. And pretend. Then pull it out and try to be sexual with her using it, but doesn't interest her. I like to rub it like it was my own and put it in a tube and pretend I am filling a wide 9" tube. So forget the 12", she practically won't let me take it out of the box. Sadly the 12" one is distorted and doesn't look natural and the width is just insanely stupid. I wish it was more like the width of the 9 and long like the 12".

5. CGI/3D rendered. Some pretty amazing fantasy penis growth that is very realistically rendered. So there is a lot of creative expression here. And often showing the growing. Though mostly futa girls with a penis. The male-only fantasy renders are usually on the realitic side of 6 to 8 inches. Would like to see bigger on the male-only stuff. The amount of cum from renders is usually very high, which is fun to me since it makes me think of how it feels when I cum and so I wish I could cum way more too.

I have talked to my wife about these 5 things and none interest her. Not even to talk about and certainly not to experience. Though she has seem me pump my penis and even inflate my penis. But mostly because I am in the same bed, not because she wants me to do it. I am happy that she enjoys our sex life and I love to give and recieve oral. But I would love to share these fantasies with her and have her enjoy them.

Is that odd? Do any women enjoy any of these 5 things? I don't do the pump and inflation to myself often, but it feels really good. I do like to see videos of others doing it with as big a penis as possible because it works the fantasy for me.
 
  • Like
Reactions: elizabubblebee

AlteredEgo

Mythical Member
Joined
Jan 12, 2006
Posts
19,175
Media
37
Likes
26,255
Points
368
Location
Hello (Sud-Ouest, Burkina Faso)
Sexuality
No Response
I can't stop men from commenting,
The moderators will do that for you. Men are not allowed to reply to you in this section.

Only acceptable device for her is a vibrating magic wand and showerhead.
I don't like dildos either. I really only want to be penetrated by an erect penis or fingers. I do use one on the rare occasion that I'm apart from my dude and really just need deep penetration to get off. Mostly, I masturbate with justy fingers, and prefer it that way.

1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?
To be honest, there is nothing about a flaccid dick that appeals to me. I really don't want it to still be soft by the time I see it. After we've had at least one round, I don't mind seeing it flaccid, but I still don't want to watch it grow for the next round. I would much rather feel it growing. A penis is really just not a sexual thing to me until it gets hard.

2. Pumping in a tube.
NOPE!!! That is not for me at all. The result generally looks damaged to me, and I really cannot diplomatically and accurately express how much of a turnoff it is for me.
 

AlteredEgo

Mythical Member
Joined
Jan 12, 2006
Posts
19,175
Media
37
Likes
26,255
Points
368
Location
Hello (Sud-Ouest, Burkina Faso)
Sexuality
No Response
3. Inflation with n2o gas. This is bizzare I know. But it is out there and some of them are fun to watch. I have also felt this and the feeling is amazing. But other than looking at it and the way it feels, it is worthless for playing with as it has no firmness to it like an actual balloon. But the scrotum and shaft grow fast and huge! It's an incredible feeling and amazing for mental fantasy! Though I have never seen it done with a 8+ inch penis. Scrotum saline inflation is more common but doesn't excite me personally.
Never heard of it. If I can't fuck it, that's not a sexy cock to me. Nah, I don't like the sound of this.

. realistic dildo or strapons. I bought a 9" and 12" realistic to play with the wife. I like to pretend it is mine. Put it in my pants, underwear, etc. And pretend. Then pull it out and try to be sexual with her using it, but doesn't interest her.
Sodomize yourself with it on a regular basis without failing to meet any of your responsibilities. After a few months, get back to us. For someone who isn't built to accommodate such an endowment, that thing is nothing but another chore.

5. CGI/3D rendered. Some pretty amazing fantasy penis growth that is very realistically rendered. So there is a lot of creative expression here. And often showing the growing. Though mostly futa girls with a penis. The male-only fantasy renders are usually on the realitic side of 6 to 8 inches. Would like to see bigger on the male-only stuff. The amount of cum from renders is usually very high, which is fun to me since it makes me think of how it feels when I cum and so I wish I could cum way more too.
The excess semen plays into my own fantasies, but is often too stupid to maintain a sexual mindset. Sometimes it's hot, and sometimes it is only hilarious. I don't like trans anything because it pokes at an old wound, so futa can gtfo. I'm ambivalent about rendered porn, and ambivalent about a dick until it is hard. I just am.

I do like tentacle beast hentai, and I like when the tenticles or vines, or whatever the alien creature has, expand or appear out of nowhere. I think that's as close to your fantasies as my mind gets.
 

bioshocked

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 28, 2016
Posts
12
Media
0
Likes
5
Points
13
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Thanks for all the comments so far. I have learned a lot in just a few comments both here and another forum. It was and is NOT my intent to play here or to get free services. My intent is only to learn.

Thanks again everyone. Given the visual nature of my 5 items, it sounds like the general consensus on multiple forums, is that women are not into any of these. Granted there are always exceptions. Seems like a no-brainer to me now, but still glad that I asked and got some helpful replies. Sounds like it's mostly men watching this content given their mostly visual nature. Good to know.
 
  • Like
Reactions: rtg and AlteredEgo
6

693987

Guest
Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? Or pumping? or inflating?
- Yes, but only my partner's. FUCK no on the pumping/inflating.

My wife loves my sex and size but she has zero interest in my fantasies outside of directly having sex or playing directly with my penis such as oral, etc. But she doesn't want to use a dildo.
- Not everyone likes the same things. Being open to trying things is great, but there are just some things people may not enjoy and/or have zero interest in. It happens.


Overview: I am perfectly accepting of my body and penis size. I have purchased some huge dildo's as a way to play fantasy with her, but she has no interest. And when she let me use them on her, she seems to not enjoy it at all and can't seem to orgasim with them. As a guy, the feeling of my penis expanding is so amazing.
- Not everyone is into bigger things being inserted into bodily orifices. Your kink doesn't automatically mean it crosses over and will be your woman's kink. At least from the way you wrote it, you bought it for YOUR indulgence, not so much her pleasure.

And so my fantasies often revolve around that. I am also into huge boobs, but that is a different conversation. I am very straight and do not watch any male/male porn, but I do enjoy watching solo male or male/female where they show the erection process and a very large penis. I imagine that it is me. A way to role play. I really want my wife to see it with me as a role playing method, but she won't watch it. I have tried to explore just the ideas with her, but she just doesn't seem to be into any of it.
- Not everyone likes porn. Not everyone is into role play. I've done all kinds of kinky things, and BDSM is a significant dynamic in my relationship. I literally wear a collar bolted around my neck 24/7, except for when it's being cleaned, medical reasons, or when flying (TSA, enough said). I have absolutely zero interest in role play.

1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?
- Again, yes, I like watching my partner get hard. I tend to touch/hold him almost as a comfort thing. Hands free? Nah. Touching is way more fun. Hand jobs? Not so much to be a hand job, but just because I like to touch and play with him. I don't really care about hand free orgasms at all.

2. Pumping in a tube. I love the way it feels and watching it grow beyond it's natural size!
- I personally think pumping is nasty, especially since 99% of the guys I've encountered into PE it's about their ego and their fantasy, not at all about their partner's pleasure (male or female), even to the point of flat out ignoring when things get uncomfortable/etc for their partner. Plus, too many dudes who pump end up with their dick looking misshapen/unnatural as heck. If it's your thing, you do you of course, though hopefully safely. If it isn't your sweetie's thing though, that's a choice you have to make. If it's more about you, than about your partner.

3. Inflation with n2o gas.
- No. If I want to get fucked by something that doesn't feel like him/isn't him, I have a pretty nice selection of toys to take care of that.

4. realistic dildo or strapons.
- It sounds like she just wants you/your flesh. At least from your writing, I keep feeling that you care much more about your desires/fantasies than what your partner is interested in. Compromise is great to a point, but she may just never want to do those things. Being pushy about something, at least for me, is a fantastic way for that shit to not happen.

5. CGI/3D rendered.
- Not my kinda porn, sorry.

I have talked to my wife about these 5 things and none interest her. Not even to talk about and certainly not to experience. Though she has seem me pump my penis and even inflate my penis. But mostly because I am in the same bed, not because she wants me to do it. I am happy that she enjoys our sex life and I love to give and recieve oral. But I would love to share these fantasies with her and have her enjoy them.

Is that odd? Do any women enjoy any of these 5 things?
- Is it odd? Not any more odd than any other person with fetishes/kinks. Are there women who enjoy that? With how huge this planet is and the massive population, of course there are some women into those things.

I'm into all sorts of different visuals, but none of the above are included. If I give oral sex to a male to completion, I like to have them ejaculate somewhere that I can see, because I think it's hot. It isn't that I'm not visual, because more often than not if I masturbate, I am watching porn. I just think pumping is disgusting, and I want a certain amount of realism, so CGI/rendered shit is out. And by realism, I don't mean some softcore, "oh they're making love, how sweet" kinda porn either. People like different things. I'm the more experienced of my partner as far as some things, and there are some very near and dear fetishes I have that will not get indulged with him, and that's okay. I'm not a pushy bastard.
 

bioshocked

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 28, 2016
Posts
12
Media
0
Likes
5
Points
13
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Thanks for the input. Looks like I can't delete the thread. Moderators feel free to delete the thread. It has been informative and served the purpose well. Thanks again everyone.
 

EllieP

Worshipped Member
Gold
Joined
Sep 21, 2009
Posts
9,967
Media
4
Likes
22,324
Points
318
Location
USA
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
A nice, natural erection caused by yours truly is a site to behold. Unnatural tampering with the goods always results in a monstrosity to me.

And FYI, threads aren't deleted when the because they're answered to the poster's satisfaction. There are always more answers coming.
 

bioshocked

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 28, 2016
Posts
12
Media
0
Likes
5
Points
13
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
I think I jumped too quick in my thread here to the women. Is there a way to do a poll in my thread? I am thinking of creating a similar thread that includes men to possibly get more interaction. But a poll would be really nice to go with the new thread (and this one if it can be added).
 

bioshocked

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 28, 2016
Posts
12
Media
0
Likes
5
Points
13
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
I didn't see an "Ask Anyone" section. And not sure where to continue this conversation in the Main section. I see that I can do a poll with a new thread. So maybe I should post in the Et Cetera section so I can do a poll and have everyone interact?
 

nailz

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Apr 22, 2016
Posts
1,581
Media
75
Likes
19,403
Points
533
Location
Fucking (Upper Austria, Austria)
Verification
View
Sexuality
69% Straight, 31% Gay
Gender
Female
The pumping/inflating/silicone injecting thing just grosses me out :eek:
Sure it looks bigger, but it's the consistency of a wet noodle so what's the point? :rolleyes:

Watching someone like Shane Diesel try to shoehorn his jelly-penis into a woman and having to hold onto it the whole time so it doesn't fold over is not sexy.
 

bioshocked

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 28, 2016
Posts
12
Media
0
Likes
5
Points
13
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Some videos for discussion as well below. How do you feel about what you see? And if the pumping isn't overdone and still firm, do you like to see the quick size change during pumping? What about a natural erection that you watch happen fast from soft to hard below?

Reaching the end of a 7.5" tube. You can see he was heavily pre-pumped before this video.
https://de.xhamster.com/movies/1884270/penis_pumping_to_thick.html

Reaching the end of a 9" tube. Slightly pre-pumped.
https://de.xhamster.com/movies/3012860/pumping_cock.html

Hands free natural erection and cum
https://de.xhamster.com/movies/806213/hands_free_cum.html

Hands free natural erection and cum
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=206396996

Hands free natural erection and cum starting around 40 sec mark.
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=609260885
 

Tessabunni

Expert Member
Joined
Aug 2, 2016
Posts
48
Media
0
Likes
155
Points
68
Location
Brighton (Brighton and Hove, England)
Sexuality
80% Straight, 20% Gay
Gender
Female
Watching a hands free erection? YES! Fantastic, makes me wish I had a penis! Watching hands free ejaculation? HELL YES! Drives me crazy, especially when it strains and bobs up and down like it's a creature desperate for attention!
The fake stuff- no experience of watching that but from what others say I'd guess I'm not interested!
 

rtg

Superior Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Dec 24, 2011
Posts
3,603
Media
1
Likes
9,814
Points
458
Location
Brisbane (Queensland, Australia)
Verification
View
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Female
1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?
Yes to all. But only I'm responsible for causing said erection and cumming.

2. Pumping in a tube.
Hell no.
3. Inflation with n2o gas.
Also no.

4. realistic dildo or strapons. I bought a 9" and 12" realistic to play with the wife. I like to pretend it is mine. Put it in my pants, underwear, etc. And pretend. Then pull it out and try to be sexual with her using it, but doesn't interest her. I like to rub it like it was my own and put it in a tube and pretend I am filling a wide 9" tube.
I'd try the strap on thing but probably only if my partner would let me use it on him too. If he was small then I'd be open to it without the aforementioned deal. The pretending it's yours thing is just odd to me and I wouldn't encourage this type of behaviour for my partner.

5. CGI/3D rendered.
I still don't even know what this is and am not going to watch the videos you provided just yet. Though I'm sensing it probably wouldn't be for me.