Do you know of a person who never has sex, has no desire to have sex, and is not sexually or romantically attracted to anybody? Don't say the Pope.
I find it beyond incomprehensible; but yes they do exist. A dear friend has unfortunately been married to an asexual man for over 23 years. :frown1: She guesstimates that in that time they have maybe had sex 10 times; and that she initiated each and every one of those encounters.Do you know of a person who never has sex, has no desire to have sex, and is not sexually or romantically attracted to anybody? Don't say the Pope.
Do you know of a person who never has sex, has no desire to have sex, and is not sexually or romantically attracted to anybody? Don't say the Pope.
Your not knowing any asexuals doesn't mean they don't exist.
It is impossible to answer your question because I am not privy to all of my acquaintances' sexual desires or sexual/romantic attractions (or lack thereof). That said, I do have a friend who gave up on dating at 28, is now 37, and seems pretty comfortable with that situation.
Why are you being intentionally obtuse?! :irked: Your first paragraph is an example of a closet homosexual. :duh:I've known more than a few men who married women and divorced in their 30's when they discovered they really loved having sex with other men and not their wife. I suppose during their marriage they would have been thought of as "asexual" at least to their wife.
Then there are people I know who are single, don't date and never bring up the topic of relationships. I would think many single elderly people are asexual simply because they don't have a sex partner.[/QUOTE]Maybe the single people in question, are uncomfortable talking about relationships and sex with you. Usually when a senior citizen loses interest in sex and companionship it is medical or depression related. Also choosing not to have a sexual relationship is called celibacy, NOT asexuality.
My friends husband is a true asexual. He doesn't just not desire his wife. He doesn't desire ANY woman or man. He has had numerous tests done. His testosterone and thyroid levels are normal. He is not depressed. He is asexual.
Asexuality is a sexual orientation describing individuals who do not experience sexual attraction[1][2] or do not have interest in or desire for sex.[3] Sometimes, it is considered a lack of a sexual orientation.[4] One commonly cited study placed the incidence rate of asexuality at 1%.[5]
Asexuality is distinct from celibacy, which is the deliberate abstention from sexual activity. Some asexuals do have sex.[6]
Why are you being intentionally obtuse?! :irked: Your first paragraph is an example of a closet homosexual. :duh:
Then there are people I know who are single, don't date and never bring up the topic of relationships. I would think many single elderly people are asexual simply because they don't have a sex partner.[/QUOTE]Maybe the single people in question, are uncomfortable talking about relationships and sex with you. Usually when a senior citizen loses interest in sex and companionship it is medical or depression related. Also choosing not to have a sexual relationship is called celibacy, NOT asexuality.
FYI - I AM NOT A CLOSET HOMOSEXUAL. I MAKE NO QUALMS ON MY DESIRE FOR LUSTY MALE FLESH.
ALSO ARE NOT ASEXUALS CELIBATE? I THINK YOU ARE SPLITTING UNWANTED HAIRS HERE.
My friends husband is a true asexual. He doesn't just not desire his wife. He doesn't desire ANY woman or man. He has had numerous tests done. His testosterone and thyroid levels are normal. He is not depressed. He is asexual.
Asexuality is a sexual orientation describing individuals who do not experience sexual attraction[1][2] or do not have interest in or desire for sex.[3] Sometimes, it is considered a lack of a sexual orientation.[4] One commonly cited study placed the incidence rate of asexuality at 1%.[5]
Asexuality is distinct from celibacy, which is the deliberate abstention from sexual activity. Some asexuals do have sex.[6]
I have a friend who has dated only because she felt compelled to (mostly by her mother, who is concerned that her only daughter hasn't spawned any chillens by the ripe old age of 26). She's never had sex. She has no desire to have sex. She has taken drugs that are supposed to increase ones libido and... nada. I don't presume to understand it, but it is.
Sorry if I struck a nerve, I didn't realize we were talking about you.FYI - I AM NOT A CLOSET HOMOSEXUAL. I MAKE NO QUALMS ON MY DESIRE FOR LUSTY MALE FLESH.
No, I am not splitting hairs, unwanted or otherwise. Celibacy is a choice, a conscious decision. Asexuality is not a choice any more than heterosexuality or homosexuality is a choice. Many true asexuals would love to be able to change, but are physiologically, mentally, and physically unable to do so.ALSO ARE NOT ASEXUALS CELIBATE? I THINK YOU ARE SPLITTING UNWANTED HAIRS HERE.
9 years without sex? Ugh.
Welcome back Rob...congrats on 4000 posts. :wink: