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A serious question for all the “BBC” lovers. Why do you think there is such a fascination with BBC but still so much overt and covert anti-Black racism?
From what I see in and around metropolitan DC, there are a lot of non-Black guys who are desirous of BBC, and to a degree, a fair share of interracial couples, but you don’t see a high degree of interracial mixing in social venues. I myself have a very diverse group of friends (though it’s a mix of different relationships and not one solid group that does things together), but when I’m invited out to something by my non-Black friends, I’m often the only Black person there. Weddings, baptisms, birthdays, Thanksgiving/Christmas dinners...very social, intimate settings where you want your close friends to be, you don’t see the diversity and openness that everyone claims to espouse and “celebrate”.
This is basically a rhetorical question, but I’d love to know what gives? For those of you who talk about how much you love BBC/Black men (which you often synonymize), what does your intimate, non-sexual network of friends look like? In essence, you see and hear a lot of people talk about BBC and how they have “no hang ups on race/don’t see color,” and yet they don’t have willful contact with Black men outside the bedroom (or wherever it is that you get down).
From what I see in and around metropolitan DC, there are a lot of non-Black guys who are desirous of BBC, and to a degree, a fair share of interracial couples, but you don’t see a high degree of interracial mixing in social venues. I myself have a very diverse group of friends (though it’s a mix of different relationships and not one solid group that does things together), but when I’m invited out to something by my non-Black friends, I’m often the only Black person there. Weddings, baptisms, birthdays, Thanksgiving/Christmas dinners...very social, intimate settings where you want your close friends to be, you don’t see the diversity and openness that everyone claims to espouse and “celebrate”.
This is basically a rhetorical question, but I’d love to know what gives? For those of you who talk about how much you love BBC/Black men (which you often synonymize), what does your intimate, non-sexual network of friends look like? In essence, you see and hear a lot of people talk about BBC and how they have “no hang ups on race/don’t see color,” and yet they don’t have willful contact with Black men outside the bedroom (or wherever it is that you get down).