Do Bi Guys Turn on the Ladies?

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  1. Captain_Chaos

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    Forgive me if this has been asked before (blame it on my utter noobness) but I'd be very interested to hear what the female members of this forum think!

    The standard male fantasy for most guys is seeing two women together - lets face it, us guys love a bit of bi action between two girls.
    My question is this - do women find the thought of bisexual guys a turn-on? If it does, are you turned on by watching, or just the increased possibilities for sex? I'd love to have a bi girlfriend - would you like to have a bi boyfriend?
    (that's a question, not an invitation :smile: )
     
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    Bi guys do NOT turn me on.

    I wont say it's just their population though, because most of the general population doesn't turn me on. I'm bisexual myself, so it's really the person that I like, not their preferences and such. If I found the right person, be they bisexual, gay, or straight, I could totally fall for them.
     
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    Nope, I am not turned on by bisexual guys in general. However, if I was unattached and wanted to have a one-off threesome with two men, I would definitely pursue bi guys so I could watch them happily interact with each other and with me.

    I'm very happy with the 100% straight hub, though. Metrosexual is as close as he gets to bisexual, lol.

    ...Most of my porn is gay porn, not bisexual porn, because there's just not enough out there. I do love to see two men interacting.
     
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    Sares.
    Since you are inclined to watch men on men porn, do you ever entertain , or just fantazise about your heterosexual husband in a sexual encounter with another man?

    I am not saying you are going to ask him to do it, but, since you enjoy male on male, I just want to know, ( because I see contradiction in your post) if you would like to see him, or if you think,( making images in your mind,) of him with another man.

    In my case, it would freak me out, if I had a GF that had a library of gay male porn.

    It is foreign to me, your frame of mind.

    No pun intended, just learning by asking.
     
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    Nope. For me it's actually a turn-off. I want the fellah's attention to myself!
    Actually, a friend of mine explained to me why guys like lesbians. Biologically, it's the prospect of two women getting all revved up and then the guy hopping in to satisfy them both. Biologically the appeal is impregnating 2 women. Since women can only get pregnant once at a time, it does not work the other way around though. Seeing 2 guys get turned on by each other really does nothing for me.
     
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    Gay man/man pron is my favourite. I love seeing 2+big strong men with each other and how can you go wrong with two or even more cum shoot's.

    An ex said he always wanted to have sex with a man just once to experience it. I found it a huge turn on that he could admit it to me and he even agreed that he would let me watch...unfortantly we broke up before it happened, but also i dont think i would have liked to made it a regular occurance
     
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    I LOVE seeing men have sex. Gay porn is the only porn I watch, although I'm not exactly a porn addict. The guys are usually more attractive than the ones in straight porn and there's just a lot more action. Also, because it's often somewhat less commercial, you're more likely to see people having sex who are into it to some degree, which is fun. Seeing a bunch of plastic princesses fake orgasms isn't my idea of excitement.

    I would love to have a bisexual lover, if he was truly into it and not just doing it for me. Sexual orientation isn't something one should fake, and I could never return such a favor if it were one because I'm not into women in the least. But yeah, find me a guy who likes the idea of having sex with men sometimes, and I'm all about it.
     
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    Not for me.

    Heteros turn me on and some gays too...
     
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    My man is a masculine man. I would never even want to think about him involved in gay sex.
    I am not into male gay sex. It is just not part of my life.

    no!
     
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    Yeh..me to Jessica...i'm attracted by masculine man...

    But the gay man masculine is/was a magnet to me i smell him :biggrin1: and he may be giving me very confuse vibes...bcause the feminines i see as someone like me..

    A bisexual man is someone who enjoys both...:rolleyes: and i'm not attracted to it at all...but for the ones who enjoy one...and are masculine...

    Yeh..if they give the masculine vibes it can turn me on...but i will not be free to touch or want to...but anyways is just a turn on...:tongue:
     
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    Actually, this is false. I am not at all aroused by seeing two women together. Unless if by "together" you mean "go down on me at the same time." In which case, yeah, that's pretty hot.
     
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    No.

    There's no contradiction -- I like seeing men who like men with men.

    I do not like seeing 100% heterosexual men with men. And I do not like the idea of a long-term relationship with someone who wants some of each! My husband is straight and devoted to me and my girlparts, and I like it that way.

    My fantasy life (the gay porn collection) is completely independent of my relationship. It's a visual thrill.

    I know. Your incapacity to see shades of grey astounds me often.
     
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    I love love love watching two guys going at it! Much hotter than any het action I can think of :cool:

    So yeah, bi guys are a huge turn on for me, and I know many ladies who agree with me on this!
     
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    Yep, I'm with you here.

    My husband, our boyfriend... incredible.

    The porn thing too... mainstream porn is crap. All lesbians with 2" fingernails. :eek: Or faking orgasm, to ugly men with no prowess.
     
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    great, I came here to this forums, to share about my life and my above average cock, and, to learn how women deal with it.
    Subjects like this one are new territory for me.

    You are saying that you enjoy man on man porn movies. I am fine with that remark which is fair enough to me. I am trying to establish a connection. You enjoy gay porn, but you do not even consider inviting your husband into a situation where he would be pleasing a gay man.
    Understood, then, is the fact that it remains a fantasy of yours. It would not cross into reality.
    When I made the remark about being freaked out if I were to find a stash of male gay movies in my girl friends posession,
    ( it would be really strange, hope some straight men can say something about it, finding male porn in your GF's posession)>>>>> you responded :

    "I know. Your incapacity to see shades of grey astounds me often"
    ( sorry, I do not know where is the quote button here )
    >>>> My following question is:

    Your husband enjoys watching male gay porn movies?

    Perhaps he has the same incapacity I was given in your reply.

    This is all new to me , a learning experience.
     
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    Nope. They're for me. If he has a stash of girl-girl, I would be as bored by them as he is by my gay porn. He rolls his eyes at my collection.

    You said you would be disturbed. It would actually upset you. That is a very different thing from being disinterested, amused, and bored.

    If you had a stash of lesbian porn, and your girlfriend was deeply disturbed, you'd probably think she needed to relax and get out more. I say the same to you and your disturbance with gay porn.
     
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    Anyone here ever heard of Yaoi manga? It's very popular with women.
     
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    My problem with manga is the fixation on bishies -- childlike/adolescent looking men. Way too feminine for me. I like male builds somewhere between thin and gymnast, but with lots of good sexual secondary characteristics like facial hair, leg hair, etc.
     
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    As I said before, I find this practice of females and male gay porn a bit strange.
    I come from the fact that , as in some cases exposed here, there is a attraction for male on male videos, but the women would not consider inviting their partners into satisfying a gay man.
    I say this because, in comparison with the opposite side of the coin, men that like female on female videos, perhaps the woman in that couple would not share the husbands /BF interest, but the man in that couple could imagine his women with another female.
    And, as read in threads of such content ( female on female sex as seen by men ), many men actually ask their females to engage in same sex for their satisfaction. It is up to the female to accept.Some other guys never reach that question.
    I see here that females do not cross that barrier, making me doubt about their replies at all.
    Just learning,
    and, in that quest, I would like to ask Segasaurus about her views on the subject.Segasaurus ,do you enjoy watching male on male videos ?,do you make images in your head about your boy friend pleasuring another man? and, would you be willing to invite her SO into a encounter with another man?
    I think that a lot of women are trying to get even with men about the whole issue.
    I am curious to find out how far it is genuine, and how far it is just a give for tat.
     
  20. sares

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    my god. this is ridiculous. you are so self-centred that you think everything is about the man in this situation. it's too weird to you that women might have preferences of their own indepenent of a guy, that you can't help but see it as relative to yourself.

    I keep thinking you won't surprise me, but you manage.
     
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