Do Bi Guys Turn on the Ladies?

[pichulon]

my god. this is ridiculous. you are so self-centred that you think everything is about the man in this situation. it's too weird to you that women might have preferences of their own indepenent of a guy, that you can't help but see it as relative to yourself.

I keep thinking you won't surprise me, but you manage.

Seres. you are a bright woman, I am sorry if you feel threatened by my post, I am not a guy that feels self centered. I am just trying to find out how we think, we, human beings.
Please, do not find offense in my words, there is nothing close to that.

I hope you enjoy the information that we could extrapolate from this interesting topic.

Pichulon.

 

[sares]

again.. you're confused. Not "threatened." More like "rolling my eyes so hard they might stick like that."

and you're not here to listen or learn or enjoy information or whatever you keep telling yourself... you're here to validate preconceived beliefs, which you've essentially stated. No matter what anyone says ("many women genuinely like gay porn"), you twist it to fit what you already believe ("women are just getting back at men for men's 'natural' appreciation of lesbian porn").

 

[AlteredEgo]

I love gay porn. Watching two men in a voyueristic way is very hot for me. I used to go clubbing only in gay clubs, and I loved watching hot, half naked guys making out against the wall. My favorite club had a huge fountain in the middle of one of the dance floors, and some of the guys would splash around and be soaked. And guys started this trend of visible thongs, not women. Yum!

However, I am not attracted, neccesarily to the idea of a bi-boyfriend. I mean, just as I don't want him chasing other women, I don't want him chasing men either. I joke around on the boards a lot, but I am not one to share a man. I fantasize about a big orgy with lots of men, but would not enjoy that as a reality. I have had fmf threesomes, but greatly prefer one on one sexual encounters. I have never to my recollection seen bisexual male porn, but I'd love to!

Oh. Vinny_Spirucino is the clear exception to the above. Clearly. :biggrin1:

 

[vinny_spiruccino]

However, I am not attracted, neccesarily to the idea of a bi-boyfriend. Oh. Vinny_Spirucino is the clear exception to the above. Clearly. :biggrin1:

I was ABOUT to say...:la:

 

[AlteredEgo]

I was ABOUT to say...:la:

Aww, how could you ever doubt, Boo?

But please note I said neccesarily. I wouldn't care if my boyfriend was bi or straight, (just not gay- he needs to be sexually attracted to me) as long as he understood that our relationship was a monogamous one.

Again, Vinny is always for sharing. Always.

 

[madame_zora]

again.. you're confused. Not "threatened." More like "rolling my eyes so hard they might stick like that."

and you're not here to listen or learn or enjoy information or whatever you keep telling yourself... you're here to validate preconceived beliefs, which you've essentially stated. No matter what anyone says ("many women genuinely like gay porn"), you twist it to fit what you already believe ("women are just getting back at men for men's 'natural' appreciation of lesbian porn").

Sares, everyone can see you clearly explaining your position (haha) and pichulon repeatedly distoring your words. It doesn't take long for the annoying to out themselves, does it? When someone keeps saying they're just trying to learn, but then they keep putting words in your mouth, they're either 12 years old or too stupid to bother with. Either way, the rest of us are paying attention.

 

[Matthew]

Again, Vinny is always for sharing. Always.

Exactly.

No need to be greedy, he's got enough to feed the needy ...

 

[AlteredEgo]

Sares, ...Either way, the rest of us are paying attention.

Yes, Sares. You are not alone. I have already tried to explain to Pichulon that this is precisely why people keep labeling him homophobic. But it just hurts his feelings. He learns nothing.

 

[sares]

Yes, Sares. You are not alone. I have already tried to explain to Pichulon that this is precisely why people keep labeling him homophobic. But it just hurts his feelings. He learns nothing.

understood, good to know. I think I haven't necessarily been in the threads where he's gone off on this topic, before. either that or I wasn't paying attention to him :tongue:

I maintain one cardinal belief: the people that are most scared and disturbed by homoeroticism are the people who are secretly interested in it. Not necessarily gay... but the thrill of the forbidden (especially the internally forbidden) always puts a sheen of decadence on a given thing.

For me, a REAL straight guy is the guy who sees his wife's gay porn collection, shrugs, says, "meh," and goes back to what he was doing before. :biggrin1:

 

[DaveyR]

For me, a REAL straight guy is the guy who sees his wife's gay porn collection, shrugs, says, "meh," and goes back to what he was doing before. :biggrin1:

I have always considered that to be the truth.

I remember one particular obnoxious guy from the Village where I grew up constantly tried to bully me after I "came out". It was always done in front of a group of others. A few years later bumped into him in a gay bar. Enough said...............

 

[B_Spladle]

Anyone here ever heard of Yaoi manga? It's very popular with women.

Only with women, eh?

*cough*duomaxwell*cough*

 

[sares]

the talk of yaoi reminded me, actually -- almost all the slashfic on the internet is written by women. do any search for (shudder) Harry Potter / Severus Snape and check out the really, really badly written gay sex.

 

[Ummagumma]

the talk of yaoi reminded me, actually -- almost all the slashfic on the internet is written by women. do any search for (shudder) Harry Potter / Severus Snape and check out the really, really badly written gay sex.

lol, I remember back when I was into erotic fiction (ie when I had really bad dial up and 75 kb text files were easiest to download), I used to see those in the listings and laugh. I distinctly remember there even being ones that involved Steve Urkel.

:scared1:

 

[windtalkerways]

I love watching male on male porn, it's
a big turn on simply for the fact that
the bods are usually very hot and hung.

I would not however enjoy having a
bi-boyfriend, as I am not into sharing
sex with others.

One on one sex for me is the hottest!

 

[sares]

I would not however enjoy having a
bi-boyfriend, as I am not into sharing
sex with others.

I have a bisexual friend who would beat me for saying this, because some bisexuals are attracted to both sexes but can happily be monogamous. but I agree with you windtalker. enough bisexuals want "one of each" that it would make me a little uncomfortable to be with one.

It's all theoretical anyway since I'm married but you get the idea, lol.

 

[Matthew]

I have a bisexual friend who would beat me for saying this, because some bisexuals are attracted to both sexes but can happily be monogamous.

Good point. A person's bisexuality doesn't make them more likely to cheat in a monogamous relationship that someone who's completely gay or straight!

 

[B_Spladle]

the talk of yaoi reminded me, actually -- almost all the slashfic on the internet is written by women. do any search for (shudder) Harry Potter / Severus Snape and check out the really, really badly written gay sex.

Faina is addicted to HP slash. It is frightening.

 

[sares]

Good point. A person's bisexuality doesn't make them more likely to cheat in a monogamous relationship that someone who's completely gay or straight!

Yup, though I would argue that on the whole, bisexuals as a population are more likely to be polyamorous.

 

[bluekarma]

Okay, I'm joining in on this man on man action…..so hot….so, so hot. In fact I can't tell you how aroused I get just reading threads on this board...all these sexy, horny, men with big beautiful cocks exchanging naughty propositions. Mmmmm, god...its great. And yes, gay porn is much, much better than mainstream. In fact something about the aggression between two testosterone driven males makes me just a little jealous! Of course two women stroking breasts, licking pussy, fucking dildos - very erotic. But when a couple of fine hungry men commence to attacking one another......mmmm yea, you can't tell me there is anything sexier. I once read this erotic short story about a young college students first gay experience. His roommate was jacking off in front of him, trying to coax him into pulling out his cock so they could cum together, he finally agreed and the roommate fucked him as he jacked him off. That was one of the best pieces I've ever read. Yessss…I use that very image in many of my fantasies….mmm….ahem..I digress…..with that said, I am probably still the minority, because I would LOVE to see my man having his cock sucked by another man. I ask him all the time, he thinks I'm kidding…. I'm not….but yea, gay men are hot…... bi...whatever....men, in general, make me weak .

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Forgive me if this has been asked before (blame it on, my utter noobness) but I'd be very interested to hear what the female members of this forum think!

The standard male fantasy for most guys is seeing two women together - lets face it, us guys love a bit of bi action between two girls.
My question is this - do women find the thought of bisexual guys a turn-on? If it does, are you turned on by watching, or just the increased possibilities for sex? I'd love to have a bi girlfriend - would you like to have a bi boyfriend?
(that's a question, not an invitation :smile: )

 

[Ethyl]

How about that? More replies from women who like gay porn. Are you taking notes, Pichulon?