Do big dicks make obsessive relationships?

[angryoungman]

I wrote my first in-depth blog. I basically have been really depressed lately. I think having a big dick makes people obsessed with you and act crazy. Does anyone else feel that way?

Here is my blog by the way: http://www.lpsg.com/blogs/angryoungman/relationship-problems-73736/

I just keep getting into horrible relationships where I'm unhappy and they constantly want to fuck but get so possessive and crazy over me. I don't know if this even makes sense. Can anyone offer insight or advice?

 

[B_slimjimpencil]

i'm sure guys who are very handsome or have great bodies etc. have the same problems. it also probably has a lot to do with the type of girls you are going with. any self-respecting and intelligent woman can respect a man with great physical qualities but also know that she can find other men who have the same or better qualities or who treats her better, makes her laugh etc. if you are single, there are tons of people in the world, no reason to be obsessing over any one person, especially if they don't want you back.

 

[BriefStretch]

Use it to your advantage bro

 

[deleted3782]

Do big dicks make obsessive relationships? Yes, they can.

I've known guys with huge dicks that get burned out in life. People often see them as a big dick, and little beyond that. Maybe they get special treatment for having a big dick (all expenses paid trips, gifts of clothes, etc), or maybe having a big dick gets them blowjobs/sex/flattery at the drop of a hat when they are horny.

The frustrating thing is...these guys can become so jaded that they don't trust anyone. They might think everyone likes them just for their big dick, and that eclipses everything else. The trick is to not become jaded (from reading your blog, I don't think you are), and let your looks/body/dick be a component of future relationships rather than the center of it.

Maybe a way to do that is to try and establish friendships before sex. Maybe, because you have a big dick, you should hold back on revealing that fact too soon. Maybe you can get some confidence that people are interested in you for you before they find out that you are endowed.

It does get complicated...and many of us get worn down for a variety of reasons as we get experience. Challenge yourself to be surrounded by genuine and good people, cut the negative and immature people out of your life. It sounds stupid but your body and dick should be a nice treasure for the special person/people in your life, and not a playtoy for empty people.

 

[D_Blue_Barry_Eel]

Can't say I've ever experienced this but I'm not vastly experiences in relationships, am virtually in my first proper relationship with a guy. I don't go around declaring my size to people I know particularly and my partner certainly doesn't 'obsess' about my penis size; he recognises that I'm big but definitely doesn't obsess over it. Could be because I'm his first gay relationship, but it's probably just that he isn't that obsessed about it I should think.

 

[lottie]

Sorry but your blog message was too long to read fully, but it's becomes clear very quickly that the relationships you first had with women were drug addicts and then with guys who are drunks. Both sexes have then gone on to abuse you physically or emotionally or both.

So I think you need to re-look at actually what your problem is, as it's not about your dick at all. Yes obsessive behaviour, but that's part and parcel of going out with addicts.

Do you come from a home life where one or both your parents/siblings were addicts/drunks? Because you are a co-dependent and it's you who need's to go and get help, as you are drawn to addicts for a reason.

That's help from a counsellor, AA or whatever. You will not fix this deep-rooted problem with well meaning or otherwise messages on here.

You need to do your own research on codependent relationships, acknowledge that the problem is yours, rather than just start another relationship with someone else, who will also turn out to be abusive to you.

 

[ShannonH]

+1 for lottie

The women I've dated who became 'obsessed' all had addictive personalities to begin with. I was with one woman whose AA sponsor even told her not to date me; we sort of agreed not to date, but after that we just kept meeting up to fuck all the time. I was with another woman who used to cut herself, and by the end of our (mostly sexual, and extremely frequent) relationship she had gone from blowing off her friends, to cancelling with her psychiatrist, to missing important classes to meet me. Both these cases I'm sure had far more to do with those women than with me.

It's the 'large penis support group', but sometimes these threads read like 'the entire world revolves around my penis group'

 

[8pointfive]

Just had a read of your blog.

I had an ex that was very much like you mentioned, albeit the after school special version of what you're going through. She was clinically depressed and the one thing that kept her spirits up was sex.. once she clued in on it she wanted it more and more, to the point that I was starting to withdraw, and I started to feel more like a treatment than a person. I didn't want to be the reason for her to fall more into a depression, but I didn't want to stay in a relationship where I was just the big dick she needed, either.

Took me a while, but I eventually realized that nobody's gonna look out for you like you - especially in situations where you're suffering in silence.

Do what you've gotta do - the relationship sounds like crap. If that's what it is, you gotta move on. I'm sure you've got all kinds of love and support at home, and you've got support from us here. If he's that must of a case, important family or not people probably will take what he says with a grain of salt.

You deserve better, we both know it. I suspect your boyfriend knows it, and only tries to bring you down out of fear.

Find yourself someone who will make you happy, and go from there. We're here in the meantime.

 

[silvian]

I wrote my first in-depth blog. I basically have been really depressed lately. I think having a big dick makes people obsessed with you and act crazy. Does anyone else feel that way?

Here is my blog by the way: http://www.lpsg.com/blogs/angryoungman/relationship-problems-73736/

I just keep getting into horrible relationships where I'm unhappy and they constantly want to fuck but get so possessive and crazy over me. I don't know if this even makes sense. Can anyone offer insight or advice?

As i said, you need a good heart girl or guy, if you see that a person hurt you it's better if you cut every kind of relationship. No one is more preciouse than you.

 

[nineinchnail4u2c]

Do big dicks make obsessive relationships? Yes, they can.

I've known guys with huge dicks that get burned out in life. People often see them as a big dick, and little beyond that. . . . maybe having a big dick gets them blowjobs/sex/flattery at the drop of a hat when they are horny.

The frustrating thing is . . . these guys can become so jaded that they don't trust anyone. They might think everyone likes them just for their big dick, and that eclipses everything else.

This.

 

[MrMXYZPTLK]

I wrote my first in-depth blog. I basically have been really depressed lately. I think having a big dick makes people obsessed with you and act crazy. Does anyone else feel that way?

Here is my blog by the way: http://www.lpsg.com/blogs/angryoungman/relationship-problems-73736/

I just keep getting into horrible relationships where I'm unhappy and they constantly want to fuck but get so possessive and crazy over me. I don't know if this even makes sense. Can anyone offer insight or advice?

When I was young, I sorta felt the same way. It's a big world, go somewhere that no one knows how big your dick is, don't sleep with the other person right away, date older people.

I had the most trouble with my big dick in highschool til I was 21. As people got older and more mature, they got more mature about what they like.

Young girls want bad ass buy with money and a big dick. Mature Women, want a nice guy with a job that will treat them like a princess, and a big dick is just a bonus.

Change your situation, but if you only date people your own age, or people your own race, you will get the same results.

 

[someperson]

I wrote my first in-depth blog. I basically have been really depressed lately. I think having a big dick makes people obsessed with you and act crazy. Does anyone else feel that way?

Here is my blog by the way: http://www.lpsg.com/blogs/angryoungman/relationship-problems-73736/

I just keep getting into horrible relationships where I'm unhappy and they constantly want to fuck but get so possessive and crazy over me. I don't know if this even makes sense. Can anyone offer insight or advice?

but it's easy to tell if they are obsessive even before relationships happens. A very good sign is the person keeps hitting on you even after you decline many many times.(more then 3 times)

 

[bluebassett]

From MrMXYZPTLK: "Young girls want bad ass buy with money and a big dick. Mature Women, want a nice guy with a job that will treat them like a princess, and a big dick is just a bonus."

Me: What he said. ^^^^ !!!!!!
http://www.lpsg.com/members/mrmxyzptlk.html

 

[auspoz]

I've become obsessive over big dick guys before. But, I'm not going to say "I'm attracted to your big dick" any more.

 

[angryoungman]

Wow. I didn't even think I got any replies to this. Thanks everyone! I agree with you all. Some of them very smart and some rather hilarious. You guys rock!

I agree, it's not the dick that makes them obsessive it's they had an addictive personality to begin with and I need to focus more on me and work on not investing so much time to those destructive type of people.

As for the relationship, I ended it right away after that post. I couldn't do it anymore. Oddly enough as I was writing this reply a few hours ago I was bombarded with drunken phone calls and my ex sitting outside refusing to leave. But I just thought, "What did I ever see in you?" And said to go home which was hard for me because I hate anyone driving under the influence.

I have to say this site has really helped me out especially with my self-esteem. I've met a lot of amazing people on here. Thanks for taking the time to reply and share your thoughts and stories with me.