Do bigger dicks have a problem staying hard?

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ThicknDenver77 said:
What kind of things cause you to develop erectile dysfuntion all of a sudden?......:confused:

Things like: The accumulated effect of years at a stressful job or long hours at work and/or poor diet and lack of excercise. Drugs, alcohol, tobacco, anger, tension, disease or pain. Lack of sustained affection for sex partner, lack of quality sleep, continual failed attempts at pregnancy, etc. Lots of shit can rob you of your vitality.
 
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Not huge but still big - 10"x2 wide and I get rock fucking hard when the wind blows... Tits? and a wet pussy... I'm ready to burst!

I think it's all upstairs with the big softees... perhaps they are a little light in the heels...
 

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i'm about 7,5 inches, and i have no problems with getting hard. i don't know if problems are normal, when you are really BIG (more than 9 inches or so). but from what i've seen in pornos, there are often guys with big cocks that don't get hard even when they are fucking. looks a little weird, when only the top of the penis is in the girl and the rest is hanging between them, being stretched and pressed again and again. but, like i said, not my problem, i'm only 7.5...
 

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sasquatch said:
As long as I don't start thinking about things like Margaret Thatcher naked and keep my mind on the job in hand then I don't have a problem staying hard at all.

Dig it. And for me, so long as the mere thought of Roseann Barr wearing a thong doesn't come into my mind, I'm as hard as petrified wood in a millisecond.
 

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Well, given the simple fact that it takes much more blood to fill a very large penis than an average/small one, it would not be surprising if they function a little differently.

Here's what I have observed with my 11"x6" penis: I have never had what I consider a "problem" with erection in the sense that I have always been able to get and stay hard enough for sex and to achieve rock hard firmness (though maybe still retaining a little more flexibility than a small penis would). But, as long as I can remember, while my penis will sometimes swell to semi-erect on its own, it usually takes at least a minute or two and some physical stimulation to reach full hardness and continued stimulation to keep it at that level. By contrast, I hear of "normal" size guys just springing instant stiffies that stay that way without any effort. (As a straight guy, the only other erections I normally see in person are in the gym showers/locker room. But I have seen more than a few of these instant boners pop up when I'm in there. Coincidence? Maybe. :rolleyes: ) Also, girlfriends have commented that it seems to take more time and effort to get my dick up to full hardness than their past, "normal"-sized lovers.

A few years back, my doctor diagnosed me with high cholesterol. Because of my age and relatively healthy lifestyle, he said it must be hereditary and put me on a statin drug. Much to my surprise, once my cholesterol went down, I noticed a significant improvement in my erections (both speed in getting erect and overall firmness). Again, I did not have a real "problem" before, but I think the cholesterol issue was affecting my erections gradually over a few years before it was diagnosed, so they are better now than they were before. Great incentive to watch the cholesterol!

Finally, I also notice even better erections when I am taking L-Arginine supplements. I started taking those for bodybuilding purposes, but started noticing the side effect that my boners seemed even firmer and faster. Did some Googling and turns out this is a well-known benefit of Arginine. (Makes sense as the stuff works by increasing nitric oxide, which increases bloodflow and is an important part of the whole erection process.)

So, my erections were always fine, but between getting my cholesterol down and the Arginine supplements, they are better than ever. Maybe large penises are more sensitive to these things because they depend on getting more blood than smaller penises. I don't know. But my advice if you're having erection issues is get your cholesterol checked and try Arginine supplements.
 

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I am 63 and during the past year my cholestrol elevated to a level higher than normal. With medication and change in diet, my 8+ by 6-1/2 girth gets harder for longer periods now. With increasing age, I need more stimulation, but a good pussy near keeps it stiff as long as it or my tongue is inside the pussy or a mouth is on my dick or I am viewing porno. If I pump it over 9 and larger in girth, it will stay hard longer and more often during day.
 

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Sometimes it happens. Maybe due to the facts that already others wrote, guys with big units are just more exposed to the threats to erections.

I have no problem at all to get hard, while my penis gets softer after some time, and returns rock hard immediatly afterwards. It looks like blood circulation needs a break every while :)

By the way i do not smoke or drink.
 

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Personally - No I have the opposite problem, keeping it down. I have no right leg (its off at the hip) and just use one crutch for walking. I find this the easiest and most comfortable method of getting around but it does cause quite a bit of friction as you can imagine.
 

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Erectile dysfunction is all in ones head. For me I can get hard and stay hard, even in bad sex. The problem though for me is anything beyond that.

Had a blowjob going the other day, but we only had about 20 min. Naturaly it wasn't enough time.

I'm for certain I need to seek mental help at this point as much as it pains me to admit it. I can't afford it right now, so at least for now I'll just enjoy the lengthy sex situations I experience.:cool:
 

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i've noticed over time that really big dicks seem to take extra effort to keep hard, not that they wont and cant, but that they need more stimulation ...
 

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i've played around with a few guys that fit the "extremely large" category and found they needed a little more attention--which i gladly offered;-)
 

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Things like: The accumulated effect of years at a stressful job or long hours at work and/or poor diet and lack of excercise. Drugs, alcohol, tobacco, anger, tension, disease or pain. Lack of sustained affection for sex partner, lack of quality sleep, continual failed attempts at pregnancy, etc. Lots of shit can rob you of your vitality.
Definitely lack of sustained affection ...if you don’t use it you will lose it ...keep using it ...with or without a partner ...you don’t even gotta cum...you may if you want; it also helps but you ain’t gotta ...