Moderate bullying, directed at appropriate targets, is more often than not socially productive and good.
Perhaps nuance and fine lines are difficult for you, but there is a significant difference between identity and preferences, versus objectification. Racial preferences are not inherently objectifying. Talking about occasionally getting an itch for Black dick and using a hookup to scratch that itch is very clearly a sort of objectification.
One's ancestry is virtually meaningless in judging racial prejudice.
You aren't the one he was criticizing.
You haven't said anything indicating racial prejudice of you own so far. You're just being oversensitive about criticizing objectification, for some reason yet unknown.
As far as I'm aware, bullying is bullying; if you'll pardon the pun, it's a black & white situation. Of course, should you have empirical evidence to the contrary, I would be very interested to see it.
"Racial preferences are not inherently objectifying. Talking about occasionally getting an itch for Black dick and using a hookup to scratch that itch is very clearly a sort of objectification." The latter statement contradicts the former, but if one is to apply it in life, any sexual "scratch" required to address an itch would equate to objectification.
I'm intrigued that you are able to determine that I'm being over sensitive, when correcting another member of their bullying tactics. Then again, your subtle, but nevertheless crude approach in attempting to bully me, by stating "Perhaps nuance and fine lines are difficult for you..." suggests perhaps, that both you and he are cut from the same cloth.