Lot of fetishizing happening.
I never understood the idea that you could just shrug off entire swaths of men based off skin color. I literally don't personally know anyone who thinks Idris Elba isn't just the sexiest of men. I can't imagine saying something like "there isn't a single black person on this planet that I would ever find attractive" because that seems like more of a psychological or societally ingrained hangup than an actual "preference".
The gay community can be so segregated and elitist. For a community of people constantly at the whim of societal fear and oppression, they love to be the oppressors and exclusionists in their own right.
However, it's also not surprising as, in America and much of Europe, it is very easy for white people to self-segregate without even consciously doing it. The number of White friends I have who have ZERO close friends of color or people of color living in their neighborhood or working in their offices, etc is disturbing.
To answer the posed question, men are beautiful. I've dated and slept with men of all races and backgrounds. I tend to date men of color, probably because I was raised in and have usually lived in communities that are not predominately white so I've been exposed to a greater range of diversity. My current long term partner is black.
I never understood the idea that you could just shrug off entire swaths of men based off skin color. I literally don't personally know anyone who thinks Idris Elba isn't just the sexiest of men. I can't imagine saying something like "there isn't a single black person on this planet that I would ever find attractive" because that seems like more of a psychological or societally ingrained hangup than an actual "preference".
The gay community can be so segregated and elitist. For a community of people constantly at the whim of societal fear and oppression, they love to be the oppressors and exclusionists in their own right.
However, it's also not surprising as, in America and much of Europe, it is very easy for white people to self-segregate without even consciously doing it. The number of White friends I have who have ZERO close friends of color or people of color living in their neighborhood or working in their offices, etc is disturbing.
To answer the posed question, men are beautiful. I've dated and slept with men of all races and backgrounds. I tend to date men of color, probably because I was raised in and have usually lived in communities that are not predominately white so I've been exposed to a greater range of diversity. My current long term partner is black.