And yet gays can't be married because they threaten the "sanctity" of the institution? Just asking peeps to think about what has already been said.
I'm married too, so I have a wife and two mistresses who are both married. Menage á quatre. We don't have the sanctity of marriage in Australia because we are not religious (there are almost as many gays as practicing Christians here). Marriage is a legal institution only.
Clearly a few people on this thread don't understand the difference between love, sex, friendship, lust and the all the permutations thereof.
And yet gays can't be married because they threaten the "sanctity" of the institution? Just asking peeps to think about what has already been said.
Or maybe just one person that dosnt understand what marrige is
IT am saying you are wrong but don't tell us we are either be an adult an accept that other people think differently
Or maybe just one person that dosnt understand what marrige is
IT am saying you are wrong but don't tell us we are either be an adult an accept that other people think differently
They both said that they didn't bother 'working their husbands up' any more because it was pointless and they only had sex when he wanted it.
From their orgasms that was something else they didn't do with their husbands.
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Clearly, a few people were, very obviously, and very rudely, telling people with marriages like his, or like mine that we are wrong. Why not tell those whose sarcastic bullshit came first that they should be adults and accept that other people think differently? Why are you singling out non-monogamous people?
My marriage is perfect, except for being damn near sexless. I make up for those needs elsewhere, and come home happy to snuggle my beloved.
Clearly, a few people were, very obviously, and very rudely, telling people with marriages like his, or like mine that we are wrong. Why not tell those whose sarcastic bullshit came first that they should be adults and accept that other people think differently? Why are you singling out non-monogamous people?
My marriage is perfect, except for being damn near sexless. I make up for those needs elsewhere, and come home happy to snuggle my beloved.
it not about singling out non-monogamous people, it about telling the scums of the earth that what they are doing is selfish and just plain wrong. i understand if your wife knows that your fucking another woman and she is okay with it. Then it would be considered an acceptable open relationship where everyone is honest with each other but if your not honest with her about where you slide you dick into then you don't love her as much as you say you do cause you don't respect her enough to be honest with her.
For me, that's what pisses me off. that so many straight couples oppose gay marriage when they themselves are having affairs.
this has nothing to do with the ops question but your comment was upsetting.
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(not saying that you oppose gay marriage. but just the fact there are people out there like that... )
Not saying I disagree with you, but totally disagree with letting your emotions flame individuals for their actions. IMO you said it well enough in your last statement.
The OPs question was simply a "wanna know" type question which creates discussion and, yes, debate over the term "cheating wives".
It is sad that we cannot have adult discussions without putting those chips on our shoulders out there.
I'm not a cheating wife, but have been in an open marriage, where honesty is paramount. During that time of our life, I did have sex with other men and yes, they were bigger, and yes I did things with them that I did not do with my husband. He is a straight PinV minute man. If you've read other posts by me you know I enjoy facials (he doesn't) and there are other things I enjoy that he is "just not into" so having these experiences with other guys was exciting and special for both of us. It greatly enhanced our sex life.