There have been a few comments that take exception to my contention that big dicked guys have much greater success with the ladies than other guys. I must admit that the guys that I typically like to talk to are a bit on the braggart side of confidence, I still think that all the attention that big dicked guys get from men and women has to build more sexual self confidence than they otherwise would have. But I admit that there probably are many guys with enormous dicks but rather low self esteem who have no better batting average in bed than many below average guys who have terrific self image and personalities. But you should remember I asked these men to compare themselves in bed success with other men who were as much like them as possible but with only exception being a lesser size dick.
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Mr. Snakey
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That of course cuts through all the shit about size. But still since we guys all must admit that we do have more than a passing interest in having a large symbolic image of virility hanging between our legs, that if we do have it, our feelings about our sexiness which is bolstered by our envious colleagues (M&F) is manifestly blown out of proportion. And with perception being reality, feeling a sense of being extraordinarily sexy may produce the desired effects of supreme boldness in our approach to sexual conquests.
A friend from another site says that all responses to my post are moot since there are not enough 10 inch guys in the world who would happen to join this site to make more than 1 or 2 posts at the most. Maybe we all exaggerate a bit, but I still contend that even if we guys say we have 10 inches when we only have 9.5, then that confirms my suspicions even more that 10 is the gold standard for dick length, else why would a 9 inch guy not be satisfied to say he has 9 inches which is still in a microscopic minority?
My college lover seemed to be a very confident guy for his age. But he was also a great athlete and pretty smart. I do think that part of his confidence came from his huge dick. A lot of guys wear underwear around the house. This fella wouldn't wear underwear around the house, and I suspect it was so I could see that big swinging dick all the time. BTW he was 8" soft and 11" hard. Never found one that big again!
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at a mere 8x6 i can only offer a devil's advocate-style comment on this subject. my last few girlfriends had not had a bigger cock than mine, believe it or not, so there was definitely some ego-boost for me there. when getting our swerve on in their premenstrual week when experiencing a dip in the cervical head, they wouldn't allow me all the way in as it caused pain and discomfort. my favorite position is any kind that allows me all the way inside them up to the hilt as i feel more engaged and closer in the union. i have given some serious thought to PE exercises and tried jelqing and bought a cock pump, but am both very busy and very lazy and never followed through to serious gains. i feel harder and more horny from the jelqing but still just 8x6.
now, the hypothetical proposition is, would i increase to 10" if it took minimum effort and a guarenteed 2" gain? the answer would have to be a clear "non, monsieur" if it meant jeapordizing my relationship with my girlfriend. i could use perhaps another 0.5" girth, but once again - i'm not really motivated. living in L.A. there is a lot of pressure on the superficial and the external, and sometimes after a tough week i think that having a bigger cock would cure all my psycho-emotional ailments from my inner and outer environment. when i was younger i posed nude for magazines and got a bit of a reputation for having a "big one" which i honestly found to be quite embarassing, and i was totally oblivious to any come-ons which may have been as a result of this (apart from the guys, who are much more open in that regard). perhaps i fantasize about being a cocksman of all cocksmen and having lines of women drooling for a taste of the old pork sword, but in truth, i don't have the energy or the follow-through. i am, strangely enough to read my own words on the matter, perfectly happy. i guess my cock size is part of that so i suppose i'll take what i have and carry on with it...
now, the hypothetical proposition is, would i increase to 10" if it took minimum effort and a guarenteed 2" gain? the answer would have to be a clear "non, monsieur" if it meant jeapordizing my relationship with my girlfriend. i could use perhaps another 0.5" girth, but once again - i'm not really motivated. living in L.A. there is a lot of pressure on the superficial and the external, and sometimes after a tough week i think that having a bigger cock would cure all my psycho-emotional ailments from my inner and outer environment. when i was younger i posed nude for magazines and got a bit of a reputation for having a "big one" which i honestly found to be quite embarassing, and i was totally oblivious to any come-ons which may have been as a result of this (apart from the guys, who are much more open in that regard). perhaps i fantasize about being a cocksman of all cocksmen and having lines of women drooling for a taste of the old pork sword, but in truth, i don't have the energy or the follow-through. i am, strangely enough to read my own words on the matter, perfectly happy. i guess my cock size is part of that so i suppose i'll take what i have and carry on with it...
I'm going to agree with stud hunter here. I don't think the average woman is thinking 'penis size' when she meets a man.
Most are looking for the person. It also depends on the situation.
Is this a woman who is looking for sex, with no commitment? Well then yes, if you are looking for sex only, size might matter, but just because he's big doesn't mean he knows or cares how to use it.
My husband at a little over 8" is more than enough. I had no idea how big he was and that was the last thing on my mind.
He is a confident man, but he is also a very attractive man, he has accomplished a lot in his life, he has reason to be confident.
If he were impotent, I would still love him and stay with him. There is a lot more to him than his penis, you do the best with what you have.
In my job I see only women, and because I am a part of their life for close to nine months I get to know them fairly well.
I am sure there are women who will tell you size is very important to them, but from all the women I've known, including friends and family, I don't get the impression that they care about penis size.
I do think it is more important to men. I know my husband and his brother were very active sexually before I met him. Being twins they are the same size and my BIL is still not married.
He got close last year but it was her jealousness that broke them up. He is a good looking man and he does turn women's heads, but I know for a fact that has never cheated on her. They are both very honorable, and honor means a lot to them, it is how they were raised. They are also very close and if he had cheated, my hubby would know.
But the the stress of always having to verify where you are, who you called and why you are at the office later than usually was getting to him. He is at our house a lot. Too many times I've had to get on the phone and tell her that yes, he IS here. She did not trust my husband because she felt he would lie for him(BIL)
So he is back to being single and I've overheard he and my husband talking and yes, size does come up.
If he see's someone new, there is the "so, was she impressed"?
They'll make comments on a pair of jeans being "just tight enough".
I don't think most women realize how important the penis is to men. I'm not sure I did either. I knew it was important, I just don't think I realized how important it was until I began reading this site.
This might explain why men feel women would think it is important.
I'm sure there are women that do, but I also think that far more are not thinking of his penis when they meet him. If they do, it has more to do with sex and not size.
Most of us are still- hopeless romantics. If you're a good guy, chances are we'll love you just as you are.
Maybe that's not such a bad thing after all.
Most are looking for the person. It also depends on the situation.
Is this a woman who is looking for sex, with no commitment? Well then yes, if you are looking for sex only, size might matter, but just because he's big doesn't mean he knows or cares how to use it.
My husband at a little over 8" is more than enough. I had no idea how big he was and that was the last thing on my mind.
He is a confident man, but he is also a very attractive man, he has accomplished a lot in his life, he has reason to be confident.
If he were impotent, I would still love him and stay with him. There is a lot more to him than his penis, you do the best with what you have.
In my job I see only women, and because I am a part of their life for close to nine months I get to know them fairly well.
I am sure there are women who will tell you size is very important to them, but from all the women I've known, including friends and family, I don't get the impression that they care about penis size.
I do think it is more important to men. I know my husband and his brother were very active sexually before I met him. Being twins they are the same size and my BIL is still not married.
He got close last year but it was her jealousness that broke them up. He is a good looking man and he does turn women's heads, but I know for a fact that has never cheated on her. They are both very honorable, and honor means a lot to them, it is how they were raised. They are also very close and if he had cheated, my hubby would know.
But the the stress of always having to verify where you are, who you called and why you are at the office later than usually was getting to him. He is at our house a lot. Too many times I've had to get on the phone and tell her that yes, he IS here. She did not trust my husband because she felt he would lie for him(BIL)
So he is back to being single and I've overheard he and my husband talking and yes, size does come up.
If he see's someone new, there is the "so, was she impressed"?
They'll make comments on a pair of jeans being "just tight enough".
I don't think most women realize how important the penis is to men. I'm not sure I did either. I knew it was important, I just don't think I realized how important it was until I began reading this site.
This might explain why men feel women would think it is important.
I'm sure there are women that do, but I also think that far more are not thinking of his penis when they meet him. If they do, it has more to do with sex and not size.
Most of us are still- hopeless romantics. If you're a good guy, chances are we'll love you just as you are.
Maybe that's not such a bad thing after all.
Mumzi said:
Now if the male half of the population could be indoctrinated to adopt your philosophy about dick size, then a lot of body frustration would be eliminated. Since I worked hard at getting what nature did not in that department I would have been a lot more content to direct that attention to getting the whole body in good shape, which would not take 6 years to accomplish. Thank you for your sensible ideas on this subject.
Well as we can see the 'truth' is that most males are very much into their penis size and most women are not.
And as I myself have learned not long ago about that only 30% of women experience penetration orgasm and 70% clitorial ones, than the penetration and a penis size to clitorial majority will not matter but males oral skills and techniques and intimacy and whatever. But among the 30% that are vaginal orgasmic it may be where you would find the preferences for a specific size, and myself as a woman on the 30% the preference is mostly large in girth without any doubt, always.
For sure there are some with preference for a huge size as double digit but is very few for 'obvious reasons'...but I think the males who are having more fun and sexual encouters are the confident ones that are above average like the 7x6 and 8x6 (LoL...I never met them). In a situation where most males are between 5" and 6" the above averages are big enough.
Men will keep doing whatever they want anyways with their penises but dont say is to please women excuses... And before you guys do anything think about the esthectic results of it..why mess up a perfec penis 'just' to grow a little bigger ???
Anyways I do not have a need for a double digit one, sigle digits are great and satisfying - but if you have is your thing...:smile:
And as I myself have learned not long ago about that only 30% of women experience penetration orgasm and 70% clitorial ones, than the penetration and a penis size to clitorial majority will not matter but males oral skills and techniques and intimacy and whatever. But among the 30% that are vaginal orgasmic it may be where you would find the preferences for a specific size, and myself as a woman on the 30% the preference is mostly large in girth without any doubt, always.
For sure there are some with preference for a huge size as double digit but is very few for 'obvious reasons'...but I think the males who are having more fun and sexual encouters are the confident ones that are above average like the 7x6 and 8x6 (LoL...I never met them). In a situation where most males are between 5" and 6" the above averages are big enough.
Men will keep doing whatever they want anyways with their penises but dont say is to please women excuses... And before you guys do anything think about the esthectic results of it..why mess up a perfec penis 'just' to grow a little bigger ???
Anyways I do not have a need for a double digit one, sigle digits are great and satisfying - but if you have is your thing...:smile:
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Men are into their dicks because thats what they have Women are into their breasts because thats what they have Big or small its what you do with it that countsGisella said:
I'm generally very pleased with my size on a regular basis. Sometimes, in a fit or horniness, I wish for an extra inch or two, but an 8 inch maximum is more than enough for me
bastige said:
You're right man. A lot of guys who come here fail to realise that a lot of the women on this site are not the standard in the female population when it comes to size requirements and ability to accomodate size. They are the minority. I'm 8x6.5 and I've never been with a girl who's had bigger, or could actually take bigger (A few of my ex's did the dildo test) and their max depth ranged between 7.5-8". Ive only known one girl who said without a doubt she could do 10". I mean its good that there are guys out there with that size for the girls who can take more, but those girls are rare. Take a look at porn actor Lexington Steele. I once saw him measured on screen and he was 9.5, and I've only ever seen one girl take him all the way. Stud hunter is right, if you're 8", be damn happy, some guys are born with 4". If people always have a grass is greener attitude, they'll never be happy. I used to be like that, then I changed my thinking and started thinking about the good things in my life and what I'm grateful for. Does wonders.
- Max,
I've seen this thread but delayed replying because couldn't work out what I felt about it. I think that jumbo747jet has got it exactly right. Some big men may find that they have extra confidence and that makes them more successful with women; a few women might actively search for very well endowed men, but they might well not be the sort of women we would be want to be involved with.
Men are much more fixated on this that the average women is as Gisella says; we men tend to be more obsessed with stats and comparisons generally.
And I'm not at all sure that the ten inch mark is of much significance in any case. As it happens I can remember the moment I first realised I had passed it; someone (who knew me very well!) even bought me a few pints of beer on the strength of it. But I think my significant watershed had been passed way before that.
In my teens I pored over every bit of information I could find on this topic, and my experience since hasn't much altered the conclusion I came to then:
At 8 inches with proportional girth a man is very well endowed, right at the top end of the standard range, but still within it. Increases much beyond that take him into a small minority who may get a lot of kudos and enjoyment from their size but who will also be likely to encounter some problems and challenges along the way. To be blunt about it; if only 8 or so inches of your penis are useable, going from 9 inches to 10 makes relatively little difference.
Men are much more fixated on this that the average women is as Gisella says; we men tend to be more obsessed with stats and comparisons generally.
And I'm not at all sure that the ten inch mark is of much significance in any case. As it happens I can remember the moment I first realised I had passed it; someone (who knew me very well!) even bought me a few pints of beer on the strength of it. But I think my significant watershed had been passed way before that.
In my teens I pored over every bit of information I could find on this topic, and my experience since hasn't much altered the conclusion I came to then:
At 8 inches with proportional girth a man is very well endowed, right at the top end of the standard range, but still within it. Increases much beyond that take him into a small minority who may get a lot of kudos and enjoyment from their size but who will also be likely to encounter some problems and challenges along the way. To be blunt about it; if only 8 or so inches of your penis are useable, going from 9 inches to 10 makes relatively little difference.
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You are right on target to show deference to your girlfriend by stating that you would not jeopardize your sexual relationship by having a too-long penis. But since I am post graduate of the PE school of penis sizing, I can tell you that you would not experience an overnight problem with her if you should try proven methods of adding an inch or two to your mighty member. It would take at least a year to add an inch and your gf would have plenty of time to adjust to an extra mm every week or so. If she couldn't, then you could stop, but I suspect that it would cause no problem occurring so very, very slowly. And let's face it most polls from women favor 8X6 as the perfect size so anything over that is a male ego thing. And God knows male ego is an extremely powerul motivator in men's lives.
You are right on target to show deference to your girlfriend by stating that you would not jeopardize your sexual relationship by having a too-long penis. But since I am post graduate of the PE school of penis sizing, I can tell you that you would not experience an overnight problem with her if you should try proven methods of adding an inch or two to your mighty member. It would take at least a year to add an inch and your gf would have plenty of time to adjust to an extra mm every week or so. If she couldn't, then you could stop, but I suspect that it would cause no problem occurring so very, very slowly. And let's face it most polls from women favor 8X6 as the perfect size so anything over that is a male ego thing. And God knows male ego is an extremely powerul motivator in men's lives.
The best scientific answer would come from identical twins except with one overly endowed and the other average, but I have couched the question to guys using that kind of logic (all the same but dicks) and from that I get an unqualified yes. There are actually three lines of evidence leading me to this conclusion, the magic number theory, my limited personal experience and experiences of my many very well hung friends on lpsg.
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I much enjoyed reading your initial long post! The power of a sharp brain and an articulate mind can be (almost) as arousing as a shapely '10'-rated dick As a combination, they work miracles
Cheers:wink:
FM
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I much enjoyed reading your initial long post! The power of a sharp brain and an articulate mind can be (almost) as arousing as a shapely '10'-rated dick
As a combination, they work miraclesCheers:wink:
FM
I think the mystery of the 10 inch dick is in perception. We perceive a 10 inch dick to be almost unknown among most of our acquaintances so we think does not really exist. But still the thought of having one is a male fantasy for most guys, probably because we tend to equate virility and manliness with powerful physiques and oversized sex organs. And this perception follows the rule that perception often in our minds becomes reality. I only thought of a dick larger than mine when I was less than 6 inches as a badge of sexiness knowing full well that it is not, but even so had that thought in mind for a very long time before discovering PE. Now PE is not magic, it is a hell of a lot of work for many years to make significant penis enlargement, but one thing I can say with certainty. Though the 10 inches may be excessive in terms of what is needed sexually, it is extraordinarily gratifying that accompanying that erect length is usually (and was in my case) a flaccid length of greater than the average erect length in men. That alone can make you feel rather pompous and egotistical and we guys need a few moments during the week to secretly feel pompous and egotistical.
Something most remarkable I discovered in all my talks to extremely well hung men. Though they are quick to admit that their size has permitted them all sorts of sexual privileges (or impossible challenges) and relish that distinction from their fellow smaller guys, there is stark contrast in how they want others to view them. All I have talked to are reluctant to do much posting because they feel that it will be a suggestion of unrelenting arrogance about themselves. Men often have such dichotomous feelings, proud as a tom turkey to have an enormous dick, yet do not want other guys to think that is anything all that special. Now there are some "cocky" guys out there with big dicks, but I think most BIG guys don't want to be regarded as a BIG PRICK!
And I do know that I certainly do not brag about my size to average or under average guys but feel totally free to do with guys in my size range. So we brag among those who also can brag but among those who would be most impressed, go figure!!
And I do know that I certainly do not brag about my size to average or under average guys but feel totally free to do with guys in my size range. So we brag among those who also can brag but among those who would be most impressed, go figure!!
There is another magic number besides 10 inches for a cock to be considered collosal. The number is 11. Guys are very careful to give themselves every benefit of the doubt when measuring this mammoth cocks, perhaps even exaggerating a bit of loosening the tape measure a bit. SO, we probably all mentally subtract a bit from claims of a 10.25 inch dick. BUT when a guy claims he has an 11 inch dick, believability takes on a whole new meaning. Unless the guy is a total fucking liar, he probably has AT LEAST a 10 incher -- very hard to fudge a whole inch in measuring. So 11 inches we translate to "at least 10" and puts the guy in a league (with me) of the most sensationally hung group of guys on the planet.
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