Do females have sexual fetishes?

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    We guys have numerous sexual fetishes, like: shoes, panties, piss, feet, hair, power, to name a few of hundreds. Do you guys know women who have sex fetishes and what they are? I can only come up with things that have to do with how they fetishize themselves, like with cosmetics, hair, shoes, fashion, slimness, etc. Gals, can you also comment about what sex fetishes you have and how do you act them out?
     
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    Yup. Tons of 'em. You probably don't want to know about most of 'em, though...
     
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    I do, I really do. Please tell.
     
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    I do! Just the ones that apply to you though.
     
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    Strictly speaking, I fetishize spanking instruments such as paddles or hairbrushes with wide backs.

    To a lesser extent I fetishize asses, upper arms and stomachs.
     
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    Tons of fetishes/ fantasies, most of these are points of interest for me and not something I have experienced at this time.

    Domination and submission (to be owned and possibly an owner)
    Sex with a stranger.
    MMF, MFM, FMF, FFM
    Insertions, fisting
    Anal play, anal sex
    Spanking with hand or other instrument (spankee, possibly spanker)
    Bondage, blindfolds, gags
    Sometimes force fantasy/ fetish
    Blowjobs
    Sometimes Tats, piercings

    These are what I can think of off the top of my head.
     
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    I have (at least) one fetish - huge cocks ;)
     
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    i've had lovers who liked to be lightly tied up

    into role play

    light spanking and dirty talk

    but i guess it really comes down to what you call a fetish vs just a way to jazz up the fun.
     
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    So what's a fetish, anyway? A female friend of mine told me about this guy she hung with who liked to put his wrist watch around his cock and balls when they made love.
    I think there's a difference between sexual fantasy and fetish. A fetish is more like something you really need to make sex work for you. It's where you go when you're alone with your thoughts. You think about her shoes. Maybe gals thinking about big cocks is a fetish ....and I don't think you can have a big list of them. I think that they're peculiar, unique and big in your life. If you're a woman, can you say "yes, I have a fetish for tattoos, whips, strangers, 3 ways"? That doesn't sound like a fetish to me.
     
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    I think a fetish some kind of sexual desire that requires a specific object in order to obtain optimal gratification. I've known men with fetishes for smoking, watching lipstick being applied, shoes, feet, or specific words. In fact, they were so dependent on these items, that they really couldn't really get off without those things being present.

    If I look at fetishes in that light, then I don't have any fetishes. I like thick cocks, I like MMF, I like chest hair - but I don't need any of those things to have great sex. I just want them :)
     
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    The internet has taught me that if it's a thing, somebody has a fetish for it.
     
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    Can a vagina (or a cock) be fetishisized, or is that the whole point of sex, therefore un-fetishisizable? Oh, wait, I looked back and TinyPrincess said the same thing... nevermind.
     
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    And that there is porn of it.
     
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    Do females have sexual fetishes?

    NO, NO, NO ...... fetishes are only for boys ! :D
     
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    Very tall men (I'm 5'7", but that doesn't mean I always want to be the "tall woman").

    Men who like to drink girlcum.

    Big hands.

    more later
     
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    Hey do I get anything if I score 3 out of 3?
     
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    You know you're already a 10/10 with me, silly!

    Anyway, dark hair,

    pale skin,

    sharp canine teeth (make me weak.)

    More later (and this is just men. I have a HUGE list of women's attributes/features/ personality quirks, etc. that make me hot.).
     
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    Aww, shucks. Thanks!

    Please lord, make it redheads. Cute, Jewish, redheads.
     
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    I think you know me well enough to know that if you have your own, personal Willow Rosenberg stashed away, I hope she's telegraphing me at a speed that could curl her hair... ;D
     
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    My wife just said she would totally do Alyson Hannigan.
     
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