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Do gay male couples have anal sex everyday????

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It may be a stupid question...... But I would think to have you ass constantly prepared to be penetrated would be tiresome.

I mean for the guys who do, do you irrigate your ass every time?
 

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From all the research I've seen (and yes, this research is out there), most queer male couples use anal as an addition to their sex life, not the main course. I'm sure there are some that do, but despite what porn would tell us - and we all know what a good gauge that is - oral, mutual masturbation, and the myriad other things queer guys get up to fill up most of the menu. This totally follows with most of the couples I know personally.

As for irrigating every time, I hope there aren't too many bottoms out there doing that. It's actually not good for your colon, and quickly makes you more likely to contract something.
 

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Anal sex is not unique to the gay community. Heterosexuals engage in anal sex as well. Some straight men get off on anally penetrating their female partners. Some straight men get off on having their female partners anally penetrate them with a strap on penis. Conversely, there are many gay couples who don't engage in anal sex at all.
 

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My first guy (of the two) had a 5 incher (the second was way smaller, bit it still worked!). He was uncircumcised and was easily able to penetrate me, without lube. He'd pull the foreskin up over the head, as far as he could and then just press it against my opening. He sort of unraveled it into me.

Bizarre! I had no idea this was possible! There was no friction, when he pumped in and out, until the moment, at the very end, when he got bigger, thicker and harder and in the throes of orgasm, pushed in a little deeper. Maybe an inch of unlubricated penetration, that nearly made me have an orgasm.

I think he could have done that, every day and I could have gotten ready, after going to the bathroom, in the morning, then using the stream-feature, on the removable shower head, to just empty/rinse out, the rectum. Not a high-colonic, or anything, just a wash-out of the last 9 inches, or so.
 

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I know a girl who gets it up the ass almost every night (from her husband) and from me a few times a month. She totally flushes out for him (a real deep clean). With me, she will do a lite clean just before she meets me since we never know for sure when we can meet. She is a total anal slut (I pat myself on the back for turning her into one) and would rather have it up her ass 8 out of 10 times. I know that keeping it too clean back there is not great for the bacteria that live in the lower intestinal tract, but he won't do her ass unless its cleaned out and she's hook on anal. She keeps a balanced diet and hasn't had any problems yet.
 

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Your right it is a stupid question! And it is triesom (in a physical way) just like vaginal sex. I have had 'I'm too tired tonight' many a time and have said it myself. But like i said exactly the same as vaginal.
 

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You shoulda met any of my exes, but bottoms sing my song :cool:

I am sure they do! :biggrin:

Did they get fucked evrynight for a prolonged period of time? I know you require they be squeaky clean (I think I remember you saying in a thread a while back that you would obsreve the clean out process, well sans the actual expelling. It was back when I first joined) so did you notice if they had any issues with douching daily?

I know when I was with my ex in Sacrramento I did and I had horrid issues from it. Not the sex but the daily rinse out. I was wanting anal every day and he wanted me totally cleaned out. We were fucking 3 times a day or so. Rinsing out before each time.

I kept rinsing out the thin mucus layer that makes shitting not a dry painful ordeal. I would have to douche just to go, regardless of if we weere fucking or not. Not fun.It took a few months forr me to restore balance after we broke up.

Yet I am reading some people seem to have no issue at all.

What has been your experience Mr. Bb?
 

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I should be so lucky ...lol
Once a week for us, but when I know we are going to play, I usually always clean out....just in case there a hand involved...:wave:
 

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Aha! Found the quote if yours I was mentioning in my post Bb!

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Nice to know some pays attention :cool:

The above advice is spot-on. Douche with water (not the chemicals they put in enemas), hold until you simply cannot any longer, then let go on the toilet. Repeat this at least one more time.

Drying time is essential; nothing less than an hour will do, but longer is better. You must allow all the water to either be completely eliminated or absorbed, otherwise you'll get leakage, which ain't pretty.

In a different forum, a female member (who enjoys a good butt-fucking), suggests fasting most of the day prior but eating a hearty meal a hour or two before (for energy). That sounded like a great idea.

Though I have zero interest in scat, I have been known to supervise a wash-out in the interest of making sure it's done properly (especially with a guy with less experience). I leave, of course, during the actual release.

Yeah...I'm really that much of a controlling Dom :rolleyes:

My memory ROCKS!!!!! That was from almost a year back (11/15/2010)

SO my q remains Mr. Bb: Unless they were a string of one or a couple nighters, when you were in LTR did you fuck everyday, with the same bottom, and if you did you require (as it seems you do) them to do a full clean out, and did they have any complications form that done the line?

EDIT: I think this was one of the first times we interacted with each other, as you were responding to my post! I don't know if it was the very first (even MY awesome memory has limits!)
 

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My first guy (of the two) had a 5 incher (the second was way smaller, bit it still worked!). He was uncircumcised and was easily able to penetrate me, without lube. He'd pull the foreskin up over the head, as far as he could and then just press it against my opening. He sort of unraveled it into me.

Bizarre! I had no idea this was possible! There was no friction, when he pumped in and out, until the moment, at the very end, when he got bigger, thicker and harder and in the throes of orgasm, pushed in a little deeper. Maybe an inch of unlubricated penetration, that nearly made me have an orgasm.

I think he could have done that, every day and I could have gotten ready, after going to the bathroom, in the morning, then using the stream-feature, on the removable shower head, to just empty/rinse out, the rectum. Not a high-colonic, or anything, just a wash-out of the last 9 inches, or so.




That sounds really hot. And I don’t want to come off like a jerk giving you a hard time for your claiming to be 90% straight; I’m just wondering, if this is who you are 10% of the time; what the fuck are you up to the other 90%?
 
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I can say for us anal sex is not important and it does not happen very often. Oral sex is more enjoyable to us.
 

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I am sure they do! :biggrin:

Did they get fucked evrynight for a prolonged period of time? I know you require they be squeaky clean (I think I remember you saying in a thread a while back that you would obsreve the clean out process, well sans the actual expelling. It was back when I first joined) so did you notice if they had any issues with douching daily?

I know when I was with my ex in Sacrramento I did and I had horrid issues from it. Not the sex but the daily rinse out. I was wanting anal every day and he wanted me totally cleaned out. We were fucking 3 times a day or so. Rinsing out before each time.

I kept rinsing out the thin mucus layer that makes shitting not a dry painful ordeal. I would have to douche just to go, regardless of if we weere fucking or not. Not fun.It took a few months forr me to restore balance after we broke up.

Yet I am reading some people seem to have no issue at all.

What has been your experience Mr. Bb?

One ex, a lovely Venezuelan with whom I lived for four years when we were in our 20s, springs most immediately to mind. He was a ravenous bottom, and we fucked very nearly every night for the first year or so that we were together (out of four, total), then several times weekly after that. If he douched then he did it very discretely, because I never saw any evidence of it, but he did take two showers a day. I recall him being sparkling clean and fresh both inside and out.

Another hungry-hole ex, whom I met on my 35th birthday, rinsed out when he felt it was required, but not every time necessarily. He always showered before sex, too.

I've personally always preferred duration over frequency; instead of fucking 3-4 times per day, I more enjoy once for an extended period (between one and two hours when I was younger, over three hours now). Obviously you've seen that extreme douching to the extent you were doing it is harmful.

Anyone really concerned about this should eat a lot more active-culture yogurt. It helps keep everything balanced in the digestive system naturally.

My memory ROCKS!!!!! That was from almost a year back (11/15/2010)

SO my q remains Mr. Bb: Unless they were a string of one or a couple nighters, when you were in LTR did you fuck everyday, with the same bottom, and if you did you require (as it seems you do) them to do a full clean out, and did they have any complications form that done the line?

None of my LTRs would have found it appropriate for me to supervise a wash-out; the dynamics of our relationships were always pretty vanilla. I always reserved the extreme stuff for one-off hook-ups and short-term FBs. As I've been single now (since 2004), and I've met a lot more freaks (in a good sense), I've become spoiled and have progressed from top to Dom. Administering a douch is much more a Dom thing than a top thing. Most guys I meet online arrive all prepped, however, if I meet a guy in a bar he usually isn't spotless and needs a rinse.

In all the years I've been fucking ass, I've never heard a bottom complain about douching.

BTW: you get an extra ten points for remembering that post. I wouldn't have known where to look :redface:
 

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One ex, a lovely Venezuelan with whom I lived for four years when we were in our 20s, springs most immediately to mind. He was a ravenous bottom, and we fucked very nearly every night for the first year or so that we were together (out of four, total), then several times weekly after that. If he douched then he did it very discretely, because I never saw any evidence of it, but he did take two showers a day. I recall him being sparkling clean and fresh both inside and out.

Another hungry-hole ex, whom I met on my 35th birthday, rinsed out when he felt it was required, but not every time necessarily. He always showered before sex, too.

I've personally always preferred duration over frequency; instead of fucking 3-4 times per day, I more enjoy once for an extended period (between one and two hours when I was younger, over three hours now). Obviously you've seen that extreme douching to the extent you were doing it is harmful.

Anyone really concerned about this should eat a lot more active-culture yogurt. It helps keep everything balanced in the digestive system naturally.



None of my LTRs would have found it appropriate for me to supervise a wash-out; the dynamics of our relationships were always pretty vanilla. I always reserved the extreme stuff for one-off hook-ups and short-term FBs. As I've been single now (since 2004), and I've met a lot more freaks (in a good sense), I've become spoiled and have progressed from top to Dom. Administering a douch is much more a Dom thing than a top thing. Most guys I meet online arrive all prepped, however, if I meet a guy in a bar he usually isn't spotless and needs a rinse.

In all the years I've been fucking ass, I've never heard a bottom complain about douching.

BTW: you get an extra ten points for remembering that post. I wouldn't have known where to look :redface:
Yeah. Once i was done with him, it too about 2 1/2 moths of yogurt, and tons of soluble fiber in the beginning then the reg balance of soluble and insoluble fiber to get back to normal.

Why the soluble? Well take an over ripe banana, open it a bit, and squeeze out, notice the residue? I NEEDED that just to supplement the mucus membrane that was depleted. Then later a regular balance of sol and insol fiber was fine. Horrid first month though.

No I would never rinse out to that extreme ever again. But what did I know? I was nineteen, for crying out loud! What pisses me off now, is that we were only doing pure vanilla stuff, and I would have been fine with the one rinse a day if that. Especially seeing as he didn't last long. FFS definitely not long enough to worry about jostling anything loose :rolleyes:! Yeah it was that minute man jerk I mentioned in the other thread. *sigh*

I know my body's natural rhythm enough to be like your two ex's. If I KNOW I have a chance of more deep exploration or extreme play, then I will do a serious clean out. Course it helps that I only see my Guy every two months, so a deep clean for him is pretty much a given :tongue:! But if we lived together I think if he wanted to fuck me every day (and I would love that) then a high fiber diet and just avoiding the time span of, oh say 3am to 7 am (TMI alert: I go every day, usually at 4am. Who needs an alarm clock) then for regular play, I wouldn't worry too much. A quick shower and attention to my hole, would be fine, with the occasional rectum only quick rinse thrown in (as needed and as much as my body will allow).

Then we could have the deep clean out for the marathon fucks that I would want on the weekends, ya know, the ones that we'd definitely be venturing away for the more vanilla-y sex and possibly into things that one would want a "no doubt in my mind" squeaky clean hole:biggrin1:

EDIT: Oh I nearly forgot! Bb, my memory, as I have said in various forums, and blogs, is damn near frightening at times, lol! But before you give me the full ten points let me break down how I remembered:

Huh, i think he mentioned this. When did he? Recently? Noooo... When I first joined? Yeah that seems right. What did he say.Something bout fastidiousness. He observed. Said he was that hard-assed or something. Why did he say that? OH! He supervised the clean out! But not the release part.

Then I posted.

When I had the time I went to my earliest post and skimmed back till i found it.

Really not that remarkable.:redface: But thanks for the points!

How many did I get to begin with, as these were "an extra ten points"?:wink:
 
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The OP is asking if having to "douche/clean" everyday, tiresome... Not if the actual anal sex everyday is tiresome.

If I was in a relationship, I would like to play with my partner everyday... But as I am bottom, I do think it would be a bit of a hassle to prepare myself every night... It usually takes over 30 minutes for me, but it's often worth it ;-)
 
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Not just every day, I belive, every second!! And did you know that everytime a hetrosexual couple has anal sex, which has happened once or twice in the history of humanity, a baby panda dies. That`s why there are so many pandas left.... Becausehetro sexuals don`t have anal... Yea...

Did that reply match the seriousness of the question, or do I have to try even harder?
 

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The OP is asking if having to "douche/clean" everyday, tiresome... Not if the actual anal sex everyday is tiresome.

If I was in a relationship, I would like to play with my partner everyday... But as I am bottom, I do think it would be a bit of a hassle to prepare myself every night... It usually takes over 30 minutes for me, but it's often worth it ;-)
In and of itself, like once a day? I don't think it would be tiresome (as I was doing it 3 times a day, full on deep cleans, THAT was tiresome), but tiresome can mean hassle, and hassle then bleeds into is it safe, ya know, more than just "this is a bother", as one of the first few posters, i believe it was erratic, pointed out. Natural flow of the convo.

For me, once a day wouldn't be a hassle in the strict, oh it's so time consuming! Dude if it is taking you that long for a regular romp in the sack, start looking at your diet. A deep clean can take twice that length for me. But depending on time of day, bm cycle, and diet, it is no more time than most women (and a fair share of men) seem to spend n personal grooming in the shower.

Now would it be a hassle/tiresome (one again in the bothersome sense) to so so every time before every encounter in a LTR? Fuck yeah. Been there done that.

Also it is good that the possible gastric health issues were brought up. What if they weren't and some dumbass was lie "Tsk, it may be tiresome, a small hassle, but you can do it" ad totally ignore the bottom saying,"No, really, i am not feeling all that well." And the douchebag thinking "pfft. he's just making excuses, I never heard of that."

It was a natural flow to the thread. Though I think we should, like you AM, answer the actual question before starting a tangential thought, no matter how relevant it may or ay not be. A quick, yeah or no and then the tangent:tongue:
 

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Not just every day, I belive, every second!! And did you know that everytime a hetrosexual couple has anal sex, which has happened once or twice in the history of humanity, a baby panda dies. That`s why there are so many pandas left.... Becausehetro sexuals don`t have anal... Yea...

Did that reply match the seriousness of the question, or do I have to try even harder?

.... right whatever. I think that the vast majority of heterosexual couples don't have anal sex everyday.

Of we have anal sex, just not everyday. Hell when me and my girl do it, we can't do it the following day because she is sore in the morning.
 
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In and of itself, like once a day? I don't think it would be tiresome (as I was doing it 3 times a day, full on deep cleans, THAT was tiresome), but tiresome can mean hassle, and hassle then bleeds into is it safe, ya know, more than just "this is a bother", as one of the first few posters, i believe it was erratic, pointed out. Natural flow of the convo.

For me, once a day wouldn't be a hassle in the strict, oh it's so time consuming! Dude if it is taking you that long for a regular romp in the sack, start looking at your diet. A deep clean can take twice that length for me. But depending on time of day, bm cycle, and diet, it is no more time than most women (and a fair share of men) seem to spend n personal grooming in the shower.

Now would it be a hassle/tiresome (one again in the bothersome sense) to so so every time before every encounter in a LTR? Fuck yeah. Been there done that.

Also it is good that the possible gastric health issues were brought up. What if they weren't and some dumbass was lie "Tsk, it may be tiresome, a small hassle, but you can do it" ad totally ignore the bottom saying,"No, really, i am not feeling all that well." And the douchebag thinking "pfft. he's just making excuses, I never heard of that."

It was a natural flow to the thread. Though I think we should, like you AM, answer the actual question before starting a tangential thought, no matter how relevant it may or ay not be. A quick, yeah or no and then the tangent:tongue:

I think I'm just very thorough...
 

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Generally, it's about twice a week for us. Since I'm "the bottom" it's my responsibility to make certain that my ass is properly maintained. ***TMI coming... stop reading if you don't want to know*** Sometimes there are days that I call "my period" where rectally, it's not pretty in there... so I just tell him no.

However, fooling around doesn't mean penetration is mandatory.... we both have hands too.
 

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I think I'm just very thorough...
wait, q: were you including time to let any..*ahem* ..stargglers, leaave the premises? Water and other stuff sometimes take a while to fully clear, especially if you went deep.

Cause when I super deep clean, it can take upwards to two or three hours when THAT is taken into account (plus the quick rise to get any residue from that out). Again, my routine is dictated by the nature of play intended.

Bu if you want shorten your time spent, regardless, take a look at your diet. Not enough fiber, ya have late comer to the ball (or bowl) as it were. To much soluble fiber and not enough insoluble and you have residue for days. To much insoluble and not enough soluble fiber and water and you have OUCHIE MOMMA! To many binding foods and your constipated, to much sugar and you can court diarrhea, not enough yogurt and GI probiotics and you can have unhappy GI tract. All of which can affect clean out time.
 

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Generally, it's about twice a week for us. Since I'm "the bottom" it's my responsibility to make certain that my ass is properly maintained. ***TMI coming... stop reading if you don't want to know*** Sometimes there are days that I call "my period" where rectally, it's not pretty in there... so I just tell him no.

However, fooling around doesn't mean penetration is mandatory.... we both have hands too.
I like the fact that i am not the only one who gives TMI! LOL! I have those days, but it is more like a set time (unless i deep cleaned the afternoon before). As i have stated i go usually around 4am. So three am is iffy (might jostle things loose if ya get me) and after I want to shower and do a finger clean at least while there. So from 4-7am, unless I roto-rooter'd my ass the afternoon or night before, those are no go times.:redface:

And yeah, fooling around does not mean penetration is necessary. As you say, we both have hands...and mouths:wink:
 

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Cause when I super deep clean, it can take upwards to two or three hours when THAT is taken into account (plus the quick rise to get any residue from that out). Again, my routine is dictated by the nature of play intended.

A deep cleanse requires several hours dry-out, otherwise there's a genuinely icky leakage that is somewhat inevitable.
 

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it may interest you to know that not all gay couples like anal sex
 

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In High School I dated a guy and between my work schedule and basball and his football practices we would have sex about 3 times a week.
 

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A deep cleanse requires several hours dry-out, otherwise there's a genuinely icky leakage that is somewhat inevitable.
Oh, no doubt. I have found that 2 hours to just under three for me seems to be good. This includes walking around a bit, moving in general, to get things moving down. The rest is reabsorbed.

Moving vs. being more stationary, for me at least, seems to speed it up a bit. Anyone else notice this?