Do gay men ever have straight experiences after they come out as gay?

[Brodie888]

When I was younger and in denial, I had plenty of sex with women which I found awkward, mechanical and unrewarding.

The first time I put a penis in my mouth it was like putting a fish into water. It made it obvious I wasn't straight. It's what I was always meant to be doing. It was like fireworks in my brain of pure happiness.

I never looked back.

 

[chpoof]

The first time I put a penis in my mouth it was like putting a fish into water. It made it obvious I wasn't straight. It's what I was always meant to be doing. It was like fireworks in my brain of pure happiness.

The first time I put a penis in my mouth, it felt awkward but very right, nonetheless. The fireworks happened when that penis belonged to the man who is now my husband.

 

[Brodie888]

The first time I put a penis in my mouth, it felt awkward but very right, nonetheless. The fireworks happened when that penis belonged to the man who is now my husband.

I proposed marriage to my current partner the first time I saw his penis (I was joking at the time). He's that million dollar lottery combination of length and girth.

Almost 8 years later, he's ruined me for any other men, and I don't mean literally given what my hole has had to endure! hahaha!

 

[chpoof]

I proposed marriage to my current partner the first time I saw his penis (I was joking at the time). He's that million dollar lottery combination of length and girth.

Almost 8 years later, he's ruined me for any other men, and I don't mean literally given what my hole has had to endure! hahaha!

That's both wonderful and hilarious. I'd be lying if I said my husband's penis didn't play a role in why I married him. It had nothing to do with size; it was his foreskin. He's the first and only uncut man I've ever been with. Once I got my first taste of uncut meat, I was like, "Oh fuck...I really like this!" He also has really big balls, so I felt like I had discovered the crown jewels. Almost 27 years later, I still feel like I've won the lottery every time I go down on him. If that ain't true love, I don't know what is.

 

[chrisrobin]

I never came out as I was never in. I partied and had fun. One girl made a play for me but she always got the brush off.
Then we were at the same party and I got hammered, my mind and body just passed out, came to to find I was naked in her bed and fucking her. So I had that straight experience but it was followed with "hey dude I'm having your kid". More out of doing the right thing than love I did the right thing and we got married - and it was my kids, twin boys. Like for two years I stuck with her com planning my cock wasn't big enough, but still not seeing any guys. Later, when she took off with a well hung stud I was able to return to my roots and man in man sex - what a relief to have a tight ass instead of a loose cunt

 

[Munchy]

I never came out as I was never in. I partied and had fun. One girl made a play for me but she always got the brush off.
Then we were at the same party and I got hammered, my mind and body just passed out, came to to find I was naked in her bed and fucking her. So I had that straight experience but it was followed with "hey dude I'm having your kid". More out of doing the right thing than love I did the right thing and we got married - and it was my kids, twin boys. Like for two years I stuck with her com planning my cock wasn't big enough, but still not seeing any guys. Later, when she took off with a well hung stud I was able to return to my roots and man in man sex - what a relief to have a tight ass instead of a loose cunt

I never understood the drunk/got hammered thing!

 

[Queerh]

Do gay men ever have straight sexual experiences after they come out of the closet as gay men?

Never...never even thought about it. I tried sex with a girl when I was a teen once - my dick shrivelled up to nothing and she laughed at me. From then on it was men all the way.

 

[Teague]

Which is bisexual.

I'm not starting this conversation again. It is not.

 

[bigboaster]

Dude you're obsessed. Smh lol

 

[Teague]

Of course it is. You're sticking your dick into a vagina are you not? Through your own agency and free will are you not? You're attracted to vadge and penis are you not?

What does it matter to you? I am not bi. I am homoflexible. Why must you tell me that these are the same thing when I've explained how -- to me -- they aren't?

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

It's insulting that you do all of this and insist that you are gay. Why did you even entertain these experiences if you're "gay?" How would you even end up kissing said woman and get hard and made out all the way with. How did you do all this and still "consider" yourself to be a gay man. This makes no sense.

Dude, that was over 15 years ago.

I have been in a relationship with another man for 15 years.

And I love cock. Love it. Love it so much I am in these forums because of it. If they gave me a choice between pussy and cock, cock wins.

I think you are traumatized by the thought of a gay man making out with a woman. Get over yourself dude. It happens.

 

[deleted5247941]

Dude, that was over 15 years ago.

I have been in a relationship with another man for 15 years.

And I love cock. Love it. Love it so much I am in these forums because of it. If they gave me a choice between pussy and cock, cock wins.

I think you are traumatized by the thought of a gay man making out with a woman. Get over yourself dude. It happens.

Do you feel insecure because he feels insecure about your past experiences ?

 

[deleted9128101]

But do you really see yourself as truly gay? Why are you NOT attracted to women but curious? Wouldn't a truly gay man just not give a damn?

Maybe I'm not 100% gay I don't know. Sexuality is a spectrum why does anyone have to be 100% one way or another? This is why I don't like labels in general. Maybe I'm just curious because it's an experience that I've never had. I am always open to new experiences like exploring another country so why wouldn't I be open to new sexual experiences as well?

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

Do you feel insecure because he feels insecure about your past experiences ?

Of course. Always.

 

[bigboaster]

Maybe I'm not 100% gay I don't know. Sexuality is a spectrum why does anyone have to be 100% one way or another? This is why I don't like labels in general. Maybe I'm just curious because it's an experience that I've never had. I am always open to new experiences like exploring another country so why wouldn't I be open to new sexual experiences as well?

Most people are not 100% anything and it's silly for anyone to look at sexuality that way especially. Good for you

 

[konungr]

You need to speak for yourself and stop being so homophobic. You think you're superior because you're bisexual? Get over your superiority complex.

It is very easy to feel superior to you when you display such foolishness. None of these labels really matter at all and are just describing a certain point on the spectrum. Gay doesn't mean the same thing to everyone for example, I mostly say gay but mean pansexual when it comes down to it. It is an umbrella term used by all sorts in this community. Claiming there is no room for fluidity is ridiculous, that is actually the homophobic rhetoric. Would you like to also address to casual transphobic remarks? Many men have vaginas and it is very strange to argue that having sex with these men somehow impacts that label to which you may refer to yourself in a certain situation.

 

[purkem]

YAWN

 

[tnman]

LMFAO

 

[AfterHours69]

Aaaaand this is beyond the point where you just let foolish people be foolish. It’s like trying to debate with someone yelling at a lamppost. Just walk away.

I tried to have empathy for the dude, but no. He’s on here calling other people homophobes when he’s his own twisted version of one. Either he’s just trying to be combative or he is really that narrow minded, and either way, not worth anyone’s time to get in a back-and-forth with. It’s one thing to be ignorant, it’s another to choose to stay that way.

 

[Teague]

It matters because it's homophobic to claim your gay when you are attracted to both sexes. That is bisexuality, why are YOU making things so false and complicated. Homoflexible belong to the BISEXUAL sprectrum it absolutely has no place in gay sexuality. It's offensive to men who are gay not "gay."

I’m not bi. I’m married to a man, and generally have male-male sex. I’ve only ever once had penetrative sex with a female-identified person and I had just fucked her boyfriend. I’m about the gayest gay person I know. Telling me that I am bi because I’m not a gold-star gay is offensive.