I'll sleep with whomever I damn well please & anyone who attempts to guilt trip me into a particular brand of sexuality will be laughed at & then cast out into the darkness.
Do gay men ever have straight experiences after they come out as gay?
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I lived most of my life as a straight man, only discovering my attraction to men after a messy breakup with my long term girlfriend. To cut a long story short, I got close to a male friend whom I experimented with and ultimately we had a relationship. I now consider myself a gay man and am solely attracted to and engage in sexual activities with other men.
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There’s a lyric in A Chorus Line: “So I was there and I was feeling her boobs, feeling her boobs and she asked, ‘Don’t you want to feel anything else?’ And I thought, ‘No, I don’t.’”
The script has been flipped for a lot of younger gay men. They grew up in a world where being gay was something you considered. Experimentation is bound to happen when you come out.
That and human beings, in general, are very sex positive when exposed to alcohol.
People who think that makes you not gay seem to consider others to be cardboard cutouts that have no variety of experience and emotion. I hope that’s not borne out by loneliness or untreated ASD; but dating and intimate relationships involve more than a bit of sonder.
The script has been flipped for a lot of younger gay men. They grew up in a world where being gay was something you considered. Experimentation is bound to happen when you come out.
That and human beings, in general, are very sex positive when exposed to alcohol.
People who think that makes you not gay seem to consider others to be cardboard cutouts that have no variety of experience and emotion. I hope that’s not borne out by loneliness or untreated ASD; but dating and intimate relationships involve more than a bit of sonder.
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It’s easier to to turn a straight man gay, than to turn a gay man straight.
I always find it confusing, why do men who enjoy having sex with women still want to identify as gay but yet they say that labels are not for them? If you don't like labels then lose the gay one? Also if you like women how can you be gay? arent you queer/pan/bi/ommi or whichever else?
If you notice how people use the words gay, straight and bisexual wrongly/idiosyncratically, you realize there's no "turning" actually happening.
- LQC,
Yes, it’s just a phrase. It just means it is easier to get a heterosexual man to engage in homosexual activity, than it is to get a homosexual man to engage in heterosexual activity.
Depending on the meaning of heterosexual and homosexual man.
- LQC,
No, the meanings of heterosexual and homosexual are quite clear. Those are not ambiguous terms.
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I live as a gay man but have hooked up with women who know I’m gay. Once when very drunk the married women I was having sex with was rather upset when I said I’d rather fuck her anally than vaginally! Suppose I’m just a slut?
They are not Homosexual Men. They are BISEXUAL MEN
Some stupie Guys over here need to understand that Sexual orientation is not a "social term" it is a BIOLOGICAL Term . You like it or not we are animals and we only feel sexual desire cause we are animals. We only have atraction to fuck cause we are animals. That said. Biology has a name and a definition to every single aspect of the Human body experience. Again you like it or not.
Some stupie Guys over here need to understand that Sexual orientation is not a "social term" it is a BIOLOGICAL Term . You like it or not we are animals and we only feel sexual desire cause we are animals. We only have atraction to fuck cause we are animals. That said. Biology has a name and a definition to every single aspect of the Human body experience. Again you like it or not.
WRONG. BIsexuals "BI" do you know of this word? BI means 2 so if you feel sexual atraction for 2 and only 2 sex you are BIsexual. It doesn't mean if it is 99% - 1% , 50% - 50% or 1% - 99% . You still BIsexual cause you feel atraction for 2 Different sexs. Pain and simple.
You can say that you are "Blond" all your life if you want it by using hair dye but meanswhile your genes says that your hair is black you will never be blonde
The same with sexuality so please stop lying to your self.
As you yourself said in a previous message, if you feel sexual attraction for 2 and only 2 sex you are bisexual. There wasn't any attraction to the woman involved. Friction is enough to cause an erection, but an erection doesn't equal desire. Enjoying and appreciating the beauty of the female body doesn't equal sexual desire, nor does it make me bisexual or a victim of self-deception. Labeling other people with your own standards is nonsense and pretentious. I've had sex with well over a hundred men, yet two women negate all of that and make me bisexual? Is a gay man bisexual because he saw Sharon Stones vulva in Basic Instinct and didn't run screaming from the theater in terror? Do you consider men who have never touched a woman to be bisexual because they passed through a vagina when they were born, or are the true gay men those who were born by c-section? The whole idea of someone else defining my sexuality is nonsense. I know exactly who I am. You don't.
Labels are for tin cans, not people.
Only simpletons attempt to shoehorn people into their own insecure idea of human sexuality.
Only simpletons attempt to shoehorn people into their own insecure idea of human sexuality.
Definitely gay (would never date a woman or really go out of my way to pursue one) but found myself finding a certain type of woman more sexuality attractively recently. I’ve come across “bimbofication” accounts on Twitter and just find that huge fake tits, Barbie doll look really horny. Maybe it’s cos it’s such a porny look and they don’t look like “real” women anymore. Don’t know….?
It’s definitely coincided with me becoming more dominant/interested in fem/subs in my “gay” life.
Feel like I’m gonna have to do something about it soon to scratch that itch.
It’s definitely coincided with me becoming more dominant/interested in fem/subs in my “gay” life.
Feel like I’m gonna have to do something about it soon to scratch that itch.
You Satanist Arsehole
First of all you Can not get an erection without sexual desire.
Women can fake sexual atraction cause they are just a Hole.
A man CAN NOT LIE TO HIS BODY , if you don't feel the sexual atracion your Dick doesn't get hard. And even Tho if you use medicine to Get Hard that means that you want to get hard and fuck a Female body , a Gay Man will NEVER want that. So once again you are Bisexual you like it or not and you are jusg lying to your self cause anybody else believes you are Gay.
