aries303
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- 100% Gay, 0% Straight
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- Male
I'm not a fan of applying rigid hetero gender concepts to gay men. I don't care if a guy presents as "feminine" or "masculine" or "straight acting" (I hate that term, we are gay - gay doesn't mean feminine, and straight doesn't mean masculine). I'm sexually attracted to both types and neither - that's not what catches my attention. Most people have traits of both. Be yourself, be proud be gay. Nothing wrong with acting gay, nothing wrong with being gay. We are gay. I like guys who are comfortable with themselves and are not dicks. I notice a lot of "straight acting" "masculine" guys seem to think you have to be kind of an ass to everyone to demonstrate your masculinity. Nothing masculine about that and you aren't tougher or more masculine than the more feminine guys. In fact, most fem guys put up with more day to day prejudice and hate than the more masculine herero conforming gay guys and most of them manage to maintain positive fun outlooks on life and don't respond by being dicks back to people. That's the sign of a real man and that's hot.