A thread got me thinking the other day. It's been said that when straight men choose a partner, they marry their mothers. (And straight women eventually become their mothers, but that's another story.) So what do gay men do? I definitely married my father--the good bits of him, anyway. My other half is gregarious in company, but is actually quite shy and tries to avoid situations like that. A natural, quiet homebody, and a great reader. They even celebrate birthdays only two days apart. Who did youmarry?