There were a few great responses on here, I myself as a gay man for a bazillion years now, find it very interesting that gay men are as promiscuous as they are. When your younger and trying to find out who you are and what you like, as far as sex goes, is one thing, but to live your whole life going from bed to bed or dick to dick? How is that fulfilling? Its just temporary. I have been in 4 relationships, and everyone of them have ended because of infidelity, on their part. So after a few months, you try the dating pool again to see whats out there, and happen to meet the nicest guy in the world, only to to find out that he is in an open relationship or you date him for a few months and find out from someone else that he is involved in a relationship for the last 10 years, and your just his flavor of the month. That has happened to me more often then not. Why cant a gay man just be happy with who he's with? Why do we have to search for the ulimate dick, or the cutest face or the nicest ass? I was a bartender in gay bars for many years, I have heard every pickup line in the book, watched many couples break up over promiscuous behavior, and infidelity, watched sweet innocent people get hurt, and watched highly respected people in the community enter bathhouses, cruising at parks, or rest stops while his partner is at a different bathhouse park or whatever. Its sad, and its no wonder gay people get a bad rap. Granted I was brought up old school, in an itty-bitty town, and was basically brought up by Ward and June Cleaver. AND, that is the type of gay relationship I would like to find and have been searching for almost 30 yrs. It doesnt exist. I find it very difficult to believe that there is very many, IF ANY, genuine monogamous gay men out there. So my thought is... that gay men do live under a few different rules than straight people.
example: gay guys.... how many times when you are on a first date, do you ask or get asked, how big is your dick?, are you a top or bottom, and end up touching each others peepees in the bathroom, or just skipped the movies and went home and had sex?
straight example: ladies.... if you were on your first date, and some one asked you how tight your pussy was, or if I liked to get fucked in the ass, he would probably be wearing his dinner and/or drink...right?
yes we have different rules...