the fact is girls give it up harder than men. if girls were as easy as dude's, everyone would be fucking everyone they meet on the street and nothing would get done. gay men, are therefore, extremely lucky.
...Now add in these factors to make the pool smaller: a guy that is actually doing something with his life, you don't have to support, doesn't have an addiction (my current ex is a major cokehead), wasn't a former escort (another one of my exes), and stable.
When I was growing up as a teenager in the 70s in Metro Boston (which then as now had a thriving gay population), I was very much influenced by Edmond White's book The Joy of Gay Sex.
In addition to various sex tips and an overall feeling of positive reinforcement regarding the exploration of sexuality in general and gay sexuality in particular, he had much to say about the "rules" society imposes on human sexuality and a gay man's place in that regard:
The Joy of Gay Sex
the fact is girls give it up harder than men. if girls were as easy as dude's, everyone would be fucking everyone they meet on the street and nothing would get done. gay men, are therefore, extremely lucky.
So my question is, Do gay men really play by a different set of rules? Or is it just that left to your own devices most men, gay or straight will fuck anything, at any time with little regard as to the consequences?
I'd say the latter. I have posted this in other threads, but it is inconvenient for me to find and link it, so...So my question is, Do gay men really play by a different set of rules? Or is it just that left to your own devices most men, gay or straight will fuck anything, at any time with little regard as to the consequences?
"From Publishers Weekly
As the authors suggest in their introduction, some readers, gay and straight, will be offended by this book's nonjudgmental, even accepting attitude toward "the kinkier aspects of erotic life." These activities include sex with animals, sadomasochism and "intergenerational love affairs" such as the relationship between an 11-year-old boy and a 21-year-old man. These repugnant sections of this revised edition of a 1977 guide to male/male relationships mar an otherwise useful volume, with new and updated entries reflecting the AIDS crisis, safe-sex practices and the upsurge of gay political activism."
That was an awesome post, carnut64. I've posted a lot of what you said and have been called a gay basher, hater, homophobic, and everything else you can imagine. I'm none of that. What I've been trying to say all along is how you are perceived is how you are treated, and if you keep up with that stereotypical behavior you'll never get the respect you deserve. You said it better than I ever could have. Kudos to you.
What is the inference?
you can count on Italian978 to jump on it and spew some half-baked, ill-advised, judgemental misinformed ideas.
I'm sure there are some really good books about homosexuality out there.