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Yes, cock size is more important to me than women.:biggrin1:
But seriously, folks, I think men are more turned on in general by visual things than woman are, so cock size might fit into that category. For me, other physical attributes matter equally or even more, such as build, handsomeness, etc. But I am smart enough to realize how much personality, experience, and intelligence also matter, though maybe not for mere viewing purposes or a one-night stand.
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This is a tricky one, because among all these groups (gay men, bi men and women) there are people who care a lot about cock size and people who aren't that bothered.
However I've been suprised at how many women this is a big issue for, and have openly said that a small cock wouldn't satisfy them. Whereas for me as a gay man who's mostly a 'top', I don't mind at all if the other guy has a small cock; in fact I kind of have a thing for them! And I have friends who are mostly 'bottoms' who point out that doctors can reach the prostate gland with a finger, so any penis of 3" or more should be able to do it and are likewise not that bothered. And, as I'm only too aware, girth is nothing but an inconvenience during anal sex!
As far as I'm aware there's no real statistical evidence on this, but one thing I'm struck by, as a small-dick-fetishist, is there's a fair number of sites for gay guys who are into guys with small dicks, cock comparisons and so on, whereas all the similar straight sites I've come across have invariably been 'small penis humiliation' with women taunting guys for not being big enough. There are gay sites like this of course, but there are also 'I like small cocks'-style gay sites, whereas I've seen no hetero equivalent.
But, having said all that, I think there's much more difference within these groups (gay and bi men, women) than between them!
However I've been suprised at how many women this is a big issue for, and have openly said that a small cock wouldn't satisfy them. Whereas for me as a gay man who's mostly a 'top', I don't mind at all if the other guy has a small cock; in fact I kind of have a thing for them! And I have friends who are mostly 'bottoms' who point out that doctors can reach the prostate gland with a finger, so any penis of 3" or more should be able to do it and are likewise not that bothered. And, as I'm only too aware, girth is nothing but an inconvenience during anal sex!
As far as I'm aware there's no real statistical evidence on this, but one thing I'm struck by, as a small-dick-fetishist, is there's a fair number of sites for gay guys who are into guys with small dicks, cock comparisons and so on, whereas all the similar straight sites I've come across have invariably been 'small penis humiliation' with women taunting guys for not being big enough. There are gay sites like this of course, but there are also 'I like small cocks'-style gay sites, whereas I've seen no hetero equivalent.
But, having said all that, I think there's much more difference within these groups (gay and bi men, women) than between them!
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It is proved that men are more attracted to visual things than women are. That's why most women don't watch or don't get horny for (just) watching porn....and then most men have a fixation towards big cocks so just imagine....obviously gay or bi men care more about cock size than women do: i have many girlfriends not even remembering or not at all caring about how big their partners have been. It is within our nature....
I must though admit that a big cock is definately a plus...as many other things are! i mean,if i was looking for a sexual thing,like a one night stand,i would go for the big cock;if i was looking for a boyfriend cock size would only be a plus. You can't stay with a guy just for his cock....and also a big one doesn't take the place or many other important lacks. I would NEVER be in love with a jerk with a porn actor's cock! ;-)
I must though admit that a big cock is definately a plus...as many other things are! i mean,if i was looking for a sexual thing,like a one night stand,i would go for the big cock;if i was looking for a boyfriend cock size would only be a plus. You can't stay with a guy just for his cock....and also a big one doesn't take the place or many other important lacks. I would NEVER be in love with a jerk with a porn actor's cock! ;-)
I think gay men are lots more into extra big cocks than women. Over the years, women I've heard talking about men tended to go for the strong shoulders and pecs men, as well as liking men with nice asses. Only a couple of times have I heard women expressing their preference for well hung men. Anyway, I gather that women are reasonable about men who pay attention to them and their pleasure when it comes to issues that gay men find non-negotiable.
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I used to think that cock size obsession was specifically a male trait. That was until I started meeting women who not only prefer large cocks but make it a requirement in a partner. I even know of one who keeps a tailor's measuring tape in her purse for that purpose. This might be the results of independent career women with a "Sex in the city" lifestyle -- where hung men are objectified as sex objects similarly to how the quintessential straight man treats skinny women with big breasts.
I think it is reasonable to predict that as women become more public about their sexual experiences and specifically more in touch with what gives them a special deep type of orgasm, demand for big cock among women will only grow.
Considering that women are 51% of the population, the size queens among women certainly, at least demographically, outnumber sized crazed gay and bi men.
I think it is reasonable to predict that as women become more public about their sexual experiences and specifically more in touch with what gives them a special deep type of orgasm, demand for big cock among women will only grow.
Considering that women are 51% of the population, the size queens among women certainly, at least demographically, outnumber sized crazed gay and bi men.
Do gay or bisexual guys...
Speaking for this gay man (of modest proportions)...
A VISUAL TURN-ON
Exaggerated male body parts (arms, pecs, nips, abs, thighs, butt, nuts, and cock) have always been sexual triggers for me, dating way back to my remote youth and my first devouring nude men in classical art and nearly-nude men in comic books, and then later when I had access to erotic imagery, where the penis was finally shown in all of its rigid glory, along with actual hard-core sex.
So, for me, a rock-hard (hard being the key work) massive cock in porn creates this erotic situation of envy and admiration, for both the owner of that great shaft of man meat, as well as for the dude whos going to take that thing on. At least one member of said duo needs to be skilled, and when both are experts, why then Im blasting loads into the stratosphere and beyond. (My apologies to NASA: I really didnt mean to splooge the windshield of the last Shuttle passing overhead.) When a guy has an average sized dick in porn, then the visual interest is more about hardness, color, shape, and girth, as well as the overall skill of its owner. (And a great cum shot is always a Boner Bonus.)
Speaking for this gay man (of modest proportions)...
A VISUAL TURN-ON
Exaggerated male body parts (arms, pecs, nips, abs, thighs, butt, nuts, and cock) have always been sexual triggers for me, dating way back to my remote youth and my first devouring nude men in classical art and nearly-nude men in comic books, and then later when I had access to erotic imagery, where the penis was finally shown in all of its rigid glory, along with actual hard-core sex.
So, for me, a rock-hard (hard being the key work) massive cock in porn creates this erotic situation of envy and admiration, for both the owner of that great shaft of man meat, as well as for the dude whos going to take that thing on. At least one member of said duo needs to be skilled, and when both are experts, why then Im blasting loads into the stratosphere and beyond. (My apologies to NASA: I really didnt mean to splooge the windshield of the last Shuttle passing overhead.) When a guy has an average sized dick in porn, then the visual interest is more about hardness, color, shape, and girth, as well as the overall skill of its owner. (And a great cum shot is always a Boner Bonus.)
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