Going back to the OP's original question, "Do Gay People have a Similar Set of Universal Physical Features?" the answer is no. However, I do think he's onto something here. I think the problem with this thread is the way the OP phrased the original question, not with the underlying idea.
I think jp_philosophy put it better:
...I do see a trend in facial characteristics in gay men...I've noticed similarities in jaw lines and especially in mouths. I've even noticed this before I identified myself as gay. Some guys you can tell by looking at their face. I can think of a whole handful of guys like this. Am I making this up?
Ah, a
trend, not "universal" features. That's better.
No you're not making it up, jp. Many years ago I noticed the same thing--there seem to be certain physical characteristics, particularly with regards to jawline, teeth, and the shape of the mouth, that I have only ever seen in gay men. I have not seen these physical features on all gay men, by any means, nor even most gay men, but I have seen them exclusively on gay men (so far). I have long wondered if my observation is correct, and have idly thought, "somebody should do a study of this..."
Hmph. Does this mean white gay people and black gay people look alike?
No, but I have seen these particular features on gay black men at least as often as I've seen them in gay white men. That doesn't mean that these men look alike in any other way. However, I think it's significant that these features exist in more than one ethnic group...but only in gay men, not straight men.
Stating that physical characteristics identify one's sexual orientation is actually dangerous. Some religious zealot to call attention to himself will probably write a book and then the hate crimes against any person having those characteristics would skyrocket...
I hear where you're coming from, but my scientific curiosity wins out over my fear of how the information might be misused. I think it's important to explore, not ignore or disregard, patterns or trends when we notice them. Maybe nothing will come of it, but maybe it will lead to significant discoveries.
This is a VERY dangerous pathway and this kind of discussion has no validity in medical fact.
I respectfully disagree. Sometimes particular physical features, or combinations of physical features, are recognized by medical science as characteristics of a disorder, and can be important indicators leading to a diagnosis. Consider, for example, Marfan syndrome, which is "characterized by disproportionately long limbs, long thin fingers, a typically tall stature, and a predisposition to cardiovascular abnormalities." Although people with the syndrom have particular physical features, people with the disorder can often look quite normal and go undiagnosed their whole lives. Sometimes they aren't diagnosed until after they've died of acute aortic dissection and an autopsy is performed. If the condition had been recognized earlier, they may have gotten treatment and lived longer.
Marfan syndrome - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Now I'm not saying that gayness is a disease or a disorder. But if it turns out to be true that certain physical characteristics are found exclusively among gay men (which has yet to be established), then trying to determine why that is so may give us a greater understanding of the connections between sexuality and heredity, and may lead to other discoveries.
It seems really hard for people to grasp that gays are identical in every way other than liking men instead of women. It's not some disgusting malformation that needs scrutiny and/or scientific explanation, it is what it is.
Thank you for saying this. Such unreserved acceptance of gay men by a straight man is something many of us have longed for our whole lives.
I agree that gayness doesn't
need to be scrutinized or explained, but I also don't think intriguing observations should be ignored. If 5% of the human population had purple hair, and most or all of them were gay men, wouldn't you agree that it would be OK for scientists to study that and try to find the connection between gayness and purple hair?
Well, I'm suggesting that certain facial features are found primarily, if not exclusively, on gay men. It's a bit less obvious than purple hair, but if it's true, then it's worthy of further investigation.