In a heterosexual relationship, the males act like men and are usually more dominant in the relationship while the females act like women and are usually more submissive in and out of bed.... Does this also happen in gay relationships? Is one always the "Top" and the other is always the "bottom"? Can you both be dominant? can you both be submissive? Do you both act masculine or feminine? Do you trade roles whenever you want? Do you even think about this? Do you care?