Do girls like butt sex?

[Fire Agate]

ive always wanted to stick it in a girls butt, but im afraid that

1, once she sees how big i am the answer will be no
2, the answer will be "are you kidding me? thats gross"

ive read from others that thats the tightest hole theyve ever been in and it was pretty much an amazing time.

i feel so left out

im pretty shy, and dont really know how to approach a girl to ask for buttsex. any advice?

 

[rich-9.8]

No, but I'd be glad to hear from you if you find the answer

 

[himy19]

Been there, but not entirely.....if you know what I mean. It is incredibly tight and for me a great turn on since I love the look of a my wife's backside!

 

[himy19]

Sorry, that wasn't much advice was it?

I've noticed that she enjoys my teasing of the butt, she is in the mood to go further. Try foundling and see if it goes anywhere.

 

[RicoGrl]

Ok, I'll put in my two cents.

I have had anal sex with only one partner, but current BF is way to big for me to try right now. but NeWays... I enjoyed it, i really liked when i would use a vibrator in my vagina and he was in my ass. I felt amazingly "full.
He was a little bit smaller than you but not much so you shouldn't have any problems as long as you make sure she is very comfortable with the idea. You might want to start with maybe a small dildo or some anal beads so she can get used to having something in there. USE LOTS OF WATER BASED LUBE!!! (KY) the anus does not make its own lube like the vagina.
If the girl things

 

[B_ScaredLittleBoy]

Have you never asked? I ask...jokingly yet at the same time trying my luck. And I'm quite shy. But I do like to joke around a lot in the bedroom and I see asking for anal as part of the fun. I've always been refused too

Maybe one day. I'm not really that keen on it though. Just somethin to try innit.

What I have heard working is sticking your finger in her ass or rubbing around it as she cums. Then she might get curious and ask you to stick more in.

 

[Fire Agate]

thanks for the replys so far using a vibrator in the pussy with my cock in her ass sounds like ALOT of fun.:smile:

 

[RicoGrl]

continued... sorry.
If the girl thinks its gross, then dont pressure her... there is nothing we hate more than being pressured.. if you pressure us into doing something out of our comfort range and we do it, it will not be fun for anyone.

I am a person that likes to be upfront about things so i would just ask "hey, have you ever done anal sex? I haven't and I would like to try it"

Maybe she wont go for it, but i bet she will admire you asking instead trying the wrong hole on purpose (had that happen once... dumb shit)

-rico

 

[Fire Agate]

Have you never asked? I ask...jokingly yet at the same time trying my luck. And I'm quite shy.

i never thought about using jokes to lighten the mood up, thanks.

 

[RicoGrl]

thanks for the replys so far using a vibrator in the pussy with my cock in her ass sounds like ALOT of fun.:smile:

I had some very intense orgasms this way! Its more of a mental stimulant than a physical. It might just be whats going on in my imagination.

 

[Eva]

This girl likes it. And I have quite a few female friends who are also fans.

Unfortunately, this is going to be the area where you well-endowed gentlemen are going to experience the most discrimination. If anal sex isn't done right (and "right" is different for everyone), it hurts, even with the small-small guys.

Best way to find out is simply to ask. If she points to your dick and says, "Not with that thing!!!" then see if she'd be okay with a little finger or tongue play instead. Maybe get a really small dildo or buttplug to get her used to the feeling. Make sure she's... um... cleaned out (has gone that day, hasn't eaten Taco Bell, etc), and if she's really shy, tell her to take a shower or bath and you'll devour her after that. Use lube. You might even want to try mixing in some of that numbing stuff that's supposed to make men last longer. It might lessen the pain.

Go slow. Got it? S....L....O....W.... Listen to her. If she winces, stop and pull back a bit. Keep talking to her, kissing her, touching her, telling her how hot she is. In short--if it's her first time and she's really nervous, keep her mind off the fact you're getting all up in her ass.

Anal does feel pretty good with the right partner. After some good licking, fingering, toying, she might just let you graduate to the real thing. Again, that's a take-it-slow thing. You might only get a bit of the tip in the first time before she asks you to stop. Let her go at her own pace. She'll be more appreciative of the respect and more apt to let you continue on.

Also: I'm personally more apt to try something that I know my partner would try as well. Maybe if you were willing to also take a finger, tongue, dildo, strap-on up the ass, she'd be more keen to let you do her as well? Approach it as a learning experience? One of my biggest fantasies is having a Bend-Over-Boyfriend and if I ever find him, he's welcome to my ass anytime he wants.

 

[RicoGrl]

Very good advice Eva... SLOOOOOWWWW!!!!

Head the words of Eva for she is wise in the ways of anal.

 

[Eva]

thanks for the replys so far using a vibrator in the pussy with my cock in her ass sounds like ALOT of fun.:smile:

Try getting a double bullet vibrator. It's essentially two vibrating bullets (or eggs) that each attach to the same handset but have long enough cords that you can use them in different places.

Next time you're going down on her, just kinda put one of the bullets against her asshole. You don't even have to push it in. Just the vibration feels good. And that, on top of a tongue (and maybe a finger or two)?? WHOA!!

You can also use the double bullet on YOU when she's giving you head. One against your ass, one on the underside of your balls. Or when you're fucking--against your balls, against her clit. The double bullets have alllllll sorts of great uses. And they're pretty cheap--you should be able to get them for about $30 for a good set.

 

[Fire Agate]

woah thanks! now im all hot and botherd:redface:

 

[Eva]

woah thanks! now im all hot and botherd:redface:

You started it!!

(And yeah, I know what I'm doing tonight.... tra la la....)

 

[Fire Agate]

to bad i cant find a girl like you:wink:

 

[Eva]

I like humid heat more than dry, split-your-face-off heat. Come on out to the bayou city. There are plenty of us!

 

[Principessa]

I've always wanted to stick it in a girls butt, but im afraid that:

1, once she sees how big i am the answer will be no - 2, the answer will be "are you kidding me? thats gross"

ive read from others that thats the tightest hole theyve ever been in and it was pretty much an amazing time. i feel so left out Don't feel left out. Enjoy what is available to you. Judging by your pics you probably don't lack for company. :wink:


Well I wouldn't approach a girl you barely know for it! I try to save that for a guy I trust a lot and with whom I have a real connection.


To answer your question, my ex-bf got me used to the idea of anal stimulation and play by renting some softcore porn and asking if I wanted to try anything I saw. I think a lot of women think about it but are afraid to voice it. He started by giving me a really good back massage. We used the unscented massage oil from The Body Shop. He fingered my anus and it felt REALLY good :05: :flirt: so he went from one finger to two, then three. I used to love when he fucked my pussy doggy style and finger fucked my ass. I would cum so hard. At one point he could almost fist my ass! Four fingers in my ass and thumb in my pussy. :flirt: Now here is the weird part, I was never able to take his 8x6 cock in my ass. :redface: I have no idea how big the head of his cock was but he had a nice big mushroom cap and he was never able to get more than half the head in me without my screaming like a banshee in the night. :redface:


Fast forward 10 years I ask my fuckbuddy if he's ever done anal, he says "yes." I ask him if he wants to try it with me cause I'm curious. He's like, "SURE! Are you home now? I can come right over." :biggrin1: Now granted my fuckbuddy was only 7x5 but I didn't need much prep. After making me cum by both oral and vaginal penetration he stuck one lubed finger in and swirled it a bit. Then he lubed up his condom covered cock and pushed in. I was about to ask if he was in yet when I felt his balls slap my pussy. At that point I felt intense pain. To his credit, he went really slow and gentle and before I knew it I was backing up to meet each delicious thrust. :biggrin1: That day a new butt slut was born. :biggrin1: My current quest is to see how big I can handle anally. After all if 7x5 felt good, then bigger must feel even better right. . . :05: :flirt:

 

[WildHoney]

I am so missing this attraction. I have tired to love it, but unless I am drunk, it hurts like hell every single time, slow, small or lubed.

I just dont like the feeling of cum in my arse, or the feeling of my arse after anal sex either.

So for me it is a no...but will oblige if hubby was really hankering for it. Lucky for me he is not a huge fan so dosn't usually ask.

x

Honey

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

How do i say "I love it" without sounding to enthuastic? :tongue:


As for how to ask for it.. DONT ASK.. let foreplay lead up to it, finger her ass, give her a rim job and see how see feels after that, if she wants you in there she will let you know.

Asking a girl (especially in a new relationship) for anal is like insinuating she is a bad girl, because only bad girls like anal right Give her a few gentle hints your interested and let her decide how bad she wants to be