Do guys get jealous of what other men have done to their wife?

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I wasn’t sure how to word the title lol
I was curious how men actually feel knowing or thinking about their woman’s sexual past. I know some guys get turned on by hearing or thinking about their wife getting fucked by a past lover but I’m curious how guys who don’t get turned on by it feel. Does it mess with your head knowing your wife has had other dicks in her mouth? Has had her legs pinned back and fucked by other men? Has had another man’s cum all over her or in her? Does it mess with you knowing she’s probably had a bigger dick fuck her? I’m genuinely curious how men think. Again I’m talking more to the men who are not turned on by the idea. Like how do you cope with knowing this? Have you ever been in a situation where you are around another guy who you know has fucked your wife? Has to be awkward for a guy. I know men tend to get more territorial and can feel more insecure about that stuff. Especially when it comes to dick size. I was recently at an event where I saw an ex lover. This man did things to me that would shock my husband. But I introduced my husband to him and told him he was a “friend” from college. I’m sure just by the shear sexual tension and light flirting that my husband can tell I probably hooked up with this guy. He’s fucking hot and really big. He was an athlete. More than likely my husband can assume he fucked me and has a large dick. Which he does. Little does my husband know that he’s chatting with a man who’s had his dick in my mouth pussy and ass. Little does he know I’ve had my tongue up this man’s ass and his balls all over my face. He has no clue he just shook hands with a guy who has sit on his wife’s face and has fucked his wife every way possible. I’ve had his cum in and around every part of my body and I even let him pee on my face before. So my husband is here chatting with a man who has done all of that to his “innocent” wife. It turns me on but I’m curious how a man feels and deals with that situation knowing your wife the love of your life the Mother of your children has probably been very slutty for a few men before. Guys any thoughts on this? Women any thoughts?
 
Interesting question.
I’ve had both reactions.
I had been insecure about having a small penis before I got married. I later found out that my wife had been with much better endowed men both before and later, after we were married.
Initially I felt embarrassed, angry, insecure and intimidated
However, over time I became fascinated, then eventually turned on by thinking about her being sexual with these big cocked men.
 
My partner and I go with other couples so it's not a thing for us.

Also I like to try to get to the jack off club at least once a month. And I have it on the calendar, she knows when I go. It's not a secret. She's cute, so she'll ask me when I get home... How many cumshots did blow and how many guys did you nut?

We are past the point of being jealous about each other's sexual history. Now it's really more about having a good time.
 
My partner and I go with other couples so it's not a thing for us.

Also I like to try to get to the jack off club at least once a month. And I have it on the calendar, she knows when I go. It's not a secret. She's cute, so she'll ask me when I get home... How many cumshots did blow and how many guys did you nut?

We are past the point of being jealous about each other's sexual history. Now it's really more about having a good time.
Congratulations! Sounds good and healthy.
 
I have a big dick and i like to know that i am her biggest, if i am dating a girl who tells me other guys was also big, tells me she had big dicks before without pointing out that ofcourse i was bigger than them, or worst case scenario tells me someone was bigger than me, it really bothers me to the point where i sometimes have ended up ditching her to find me a girl who tells me im the biggest she ever had, it just makes me feel so damn good when a girl sais that to me.
 
It has never happened,
But I like to think it wouldn't bother me.
As long as I know I can satisfy her.
Wifey dated a professional athlete years before she met me, didn't bother me at all, I was fascinated
 
No, not at all. In fact it turns me on sometimes. A long as we have a great relationship and great sex. As long as she's just talking about an experience she had and not longing for another guy that isn't me.

The time that turned me on the most was when she said she was learning to surf and ended up fucking the instructor. She said his cock was so thick and so long that she could only fit half of him inside her. She said the sheer size of his cock made her cum. I love hearing about that when I'm turned on... The thought of my girl struggling to get a giant cock inside her then cuming as his pushed as deep as he could go is mind blowingly hot 🥵
 
My ex wife once told me about an ex boyfriend of hers hat they had lots of sex. Didnt tell me much details at first, just they would have sex for long periods. She mentioned that one time he came rather quickly. She than explained that it was when he was fucking her full force annaly...
 
I shared my ex with several men & couples, only one guy seemed to have such a hold on her that it made me jealous. She would do anything for him willingly and he would dominate her, she rarely let herself completely go like that with me. It was a huge turn on and also a bit disappointing
 
I had been insecure about having a small penis before I got married. I later found out that my wife had been with much better endowed men both before and later, after we were married.
After? Does that mean she cheated on you or is your relationship open?
 
my wife has slowly revealed all about her past and at first it was hard to listen to. She was a very active girl it's fair to say, and it definitely shattered a few of my illusions. But she has slowly learned to use it to tease me in the most insane way imaginable
 
my wife has slowly revealed all about her past and at first it was hard to listen to. She was a very active girl it's fair to say, and it definitely shattered a few of my illusions. But she has slowly learned to use it to tease me in the most insane way imaginable
You’re lucky!
 
I wasn’t sure how to word the title lol
I was curious how men actually feel knowing or thinking about their woman’s sexual past. I know some guys get turned on by hearing or thinking about their wife getting fucked by a past lover but I’m curious how guys who don’t get turned on by it feel. Does it mess with your head knowing your wife has had other dicks in her mouth? Has had her legs pinned back and fucked by other men? Has had another man’s cum all over her or in her? Does it mess with you knowing she’s probably had a bigger dick fuck her? I’m genuinely curious how men think. Again I’m talking more to the men who are not turned on by the idea. Like how do you cope with knowing this? Have you ever been in a situation where you are around another guy who you know has fucked your wife? Has to be awkward for a guy. I know men tend to get more territorial and can feel more insecure about that stuff. Especially when it comes to dick size. I was recently at an event where I saw an ex lover. This man did things to me that would shock my husband. But I introduced my husband to him and told him he was a “friend” from college. I’m sure just by the shear sexual tension and light flirting that my husband can tell I probably hooked up with this guy. He’s fucking hot and really big. He was an athlete. More than likely my husband can assume he fucked me and has a large dick. Which he does. Little does my husband know that he’s chatting with a man who’s had his dick in my mouth pussy and ass. Little does he know I’ve had my tongue up this man’s ass and his balls all over my face. He has no clue he just shook hands with a guy who has sit on his wife’s face and has fucked his wife every way possible. I’ve had his cum in and around every part of my body and I even let him pee on my face before. So my husband is here chatting with a man who has done all of that to his “innocent” wife. It turns me on but I’m curious how a man feels and deals with that situation knowing your wife the love of your life the Mother of your children has probably been very slutty for a few men before. Guys any thoughts on this? Women any thoughts?
Doesn't bother me a bit. I posted about my size feeling completely average at 7.75x5.5", so not a big dick, but also nothing to cry about. I do get curious about my performance. I'm 47, married to 35 wife, meter her when she was 25. She has had bigger dicks or a bigger dick and she didn't like it, but the guy was probably a douche bag anyway. We are open and honest, and not every time we have sex is the greatest, she has opened told me I'm the best she has ever been with. I've been with about 100 women, not sure her number, probably 15-20 guys I would guess. But other women have told me they think my average dick is perfect, not that it's big, but just right for all occasions. I can go nice and slow and use my tip to massage her gspot, or let her ride me and she has deeper, Pspot orgasms, we think. But I've always been able to have great sex with say 90% of women.

Don't get me wrong, I don't want her describing this monster dick that she had to just "deal with", but I'm open to hearing what she has liked from other people. I'm not insecure, not always super confident, but never insecure. We have what we have, and even if I bust in 2 minutes, I just go to town with my tongue and make her cum. So, we work with what we have, use our strengths, and no reason everyone can't have great sex.
 
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