Do Guys With Big D Have Better Sex Lives

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I am not super massive but when I was younger I was measured at 8 3/8 inches by a guy who lost a big dick contest to me.
I enjoyed testicular cancer and did not get hard for 9 months and did not have sex for right at a year. I am now about 7 inches when I can get hard.
My wife could not take me balls deep ever before cancer and still can’t take shorter me. My wife and I have been having sex for over 20 years and she could not deal with me last night. I was too big for her to enjoy sex, I was too big for her to just take it so I could cum. I am also too big for her to give me a BJ.
Long ago when I was big it was about 50/50 if a date would put out when we got home. I have been flat at told no fucking way. I have done a lot of titty fucking. My friends began setting me up with girls who wanted big dudes. I did better on set ups but still was difficult. In the late 80’s early 90’s condoms did not fit. I got to be so bad at getting laid my friends GF let me fuck her for 3 years. I was infertile because of the growing mass that became cancer, I fucked his GF bareback, they had lube for his condoms.
Would I trade my meat for smaller NO FUCKING WAY. Would my wife, hell yes.
There is good and bad in everything.
Sorry for rambling I have been up 48 hours.
 

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I am not super massive but when I was younger I was measured at 8 3/8 inches by a guy who lost a big dick contest to me.
I enjoyed testicular cancer and did not get hard for 9 months and did not have sex for right at a year. I am now about 7 inches when I can get hard.
My wife could not take me balls deep ever before cancer and still can’t take shorter me. My wife and I have been having sex for over 20 years and she could not deal with me last night. I was too big for her to enjoy sex, I was too big for her to just take it so I could cum. I am also too big for her to give me a BJ.
Long ago when I was big it was about 50/50 if a date would put out when we got home. I have been flat at told no fucking way. I have done a lot of titty fucking. My friends began setting me up with girls who wanted big dudes. I did better on set ups but still was difficult. In the late 80’s early 90’s condoms did not fit. I got to be so bad at getting laid my friends GF let me fuck her for 3 years. I was infertile because of the growing mass that became cancer, I fucked his GF bareback, they had lube for his condoms.
Would I trade my meat for smaller NO FUCKING WAY. Would my wife, hell yes.
There is good and bad in everything.
Sorry for rambling I have been up 48 hours.

cool story bro sorry about the cancer man
Glad you recovered

I guess it’s a double edged sword being big but it definitely beats being small

being large also has psychological benefits too for our wellbeing
 

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cool story bro sorry about the cancer man
Glad you recovered

I guess it’s a double edged sword being big but it definitely beats being small

being large also has psychological benefits too for our wellbeing
Yep, I am 6’6” so I need to be big, or normal for me.
 

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If you can find those who can take it, you can have a great time. Certainly when word gets out, you get a lot of attention, even from people who can't take it. Getting a good blowjob is rare if you are really thick and as a teen, most other beginners aren't going to be able to handle it.
 

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If you can find those who can take it, you can have a great time. Certainly when word gets out, you get a lot of attention, even from people who can't take it. Getting a good blowjob is rare if you are really thick and as a teen, most other beginners aren't going to be able to handle it.

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this is true early in the sex game as a youngster guys who are hung have it rough in the beginning they usually have to sleep with older women I was told

but I believe being hung also affects our psychological well-being too in a positive way
 

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Having a big dick definitely helped me over come my anxiety and without it I’m sure I wouldnt have had the confidence to approach half the girls I was with.

In terms of quality of sex life its been a mixed bag. I’ve had some amazing experiences because I’m bigger and I’m fortunate to not be so big I need to worry about being rejected but I’ve had a few partners really struggle. I know some days my wife definitely wishes I was an inch or two smaller
 

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this is true early in the sex game as a youngster guys who are hung have it rough in the beginning they usually have to sleep with older women I was told

but I believe being hung also affects our psychological well-being too in a positive way
Exactly. I had a few chances for sex in my teens vanish when they saw what the y were expected to take. I don't blame them.
 

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Having a big dick definitely helped me over come my anxiety and without it I’m sure I wouldnt have had the confidence to approach half the girls I was with.

In terms of quality of sex life its been a mixed bag. I’ve had some amazing experiences because I’m bigger and I’m fortunate to not be so big I need to worry about being rejected but I’ve had a few partners really struggle. I know some days my wife definitely wishes I was an inch or two smaller


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based on what u said it’s been mostly a positive experience because u don’t fear approaching women

that’s awesome
 

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Exactly. I had a few chances for sex in my teens vanish when they saw what the y were expected to take. I don't blame them.
Yeah, so mixed bag for me. I have had women say oh.... I’ll blow you, but that is too big for me, while other women couldn’t wait to take it for a ride. I guess all depends on the woman and what she enjoys.


Rejected for being too big is great
 

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I think more than anything your attitude will determine how good your sex life is. But that's just my thoughts.
I agree, I am well below average and have been with my fair share of girls. All of them have been good looking. I’ve actually not had sex with more girls than I’ve had sex with by my choice. On the flip side, I’ve had a few girls who were in my bed and felt me when things were getting hot and heavy that backed out all of a sudden. But for the most part, what mattered most was my attitude. Shoot, my wife now likes bigger than any woman I’ve ever met, and we have so much fun having sex. We average around 5 days a week and 9/10 times I want sex, I get it. Sure some girls only want big cocks, and others want average to smaller ones (I had one girl tell me she was glad I wasn’t big because big ones hurt too much). I do feel that there are some definite advantages in having a big cock, but I think overall, it’s how you carry yourself more than anything.
 
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Having a big dick is certainly a bonus when it comes to sex as you have a lot more inches to work with. That being said, sex isn't only about having a big dick. One of my friends has an average sized dick but he gets the same amount of action as I do since he's a freak with his fingers and tongue. Foreplay can make sex feel even more amazing than just having a big dick and mindlessly pounding her ass.
So yeah, knowing what you're doing in bed > having a big dick and not knowing what to do with it.
 

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Honestly, for the majority of women who even like larger, there is a point where it’s just a party trick.
That point is individual.

I originally was referred over here by a fellow LPSG woman. I was grouching on another forum that my then partner was difficult to take. He was skilled, thankfully, and patient, and all about both parties having fun.
Lots of lube and slow was the answer for us. But I cannot say I was ever comfortable with his size.
I much prefer an effortless fit. Or, in my current situation, a lot closer to fit.

Skill and good attitude > physical dimension.


Don’t forget, the brain is the center of sex for women.
 

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While I know this might be considered sacrilege on a site devoted to the alleged advantage of monster cock, but every man is more than the sum of his junk. Whether I fall into the parameters of a "big D" is not for me to say, as I possess humanity, but either way it has had nothing to do with either my success or lack of with sex or pleasing a woman.

But if I was to drop my humanity slightly, I've known many guys in the swinging lifestyle who were beyond a doubt smaller than myself (as well as fatter and less attractive) and yet had more success and got laid a lot more than me. What they may have lacked in size, than more than made up for in confidence and social ability (something I've always struggled with) as well as being very good at techniques that didn't necessarily involve their penis. So while there are undoubtable size queens out there, one's personality, confidence and how one treats a woman, both in respect and love-making that doesn't involve penetration I believe has 10 times more to do in attracting most women and keeping them satisfied.

Sometimes I wonder where this widespread belief that a big dick is the end all to be all to good sex comes from. Then I remember where I am :rolleyes:.
 

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Honestly, for the majority of women who even like larger, there is a point where it’s just a party trick.
That point is individual.

I originally was referred over here by a fellow LPSG woman. I was grouching on another forum that my then partner was difficult to take. He was skilled, thankfully, and patient, and all about both parties having fun.
Lots of lube and slow was the answer for us. But I cannot say I was ever comfortable with his size.
I much prefer an effortless fit. Or, in my current situation, a lot closer to fit.

Skill and good attitude > physical dimension.


Don’t forget, the brain is the center of sex for women.

“” dont forget, the brain is the center of sex for women.“


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good call it seems we forget too often
 
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It occurs to me that the availability of seeing other penises, and women willing, at some point to say some things about them (and I posit that at least 80ish percent are under questioning), has really fucked up men’s psyches.

I have no idea if I’m tighter, looser, deeper or shallower vaginally than any of my past or present partners’ past partners, because I do not care.

I care that I rock his world. Fin.


Post fin: not that I could do anything other than pelvic toning exercise anyway. And I do that for me. No peelaughs for me yet.