Do Hung Guys Like a Fuss?

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Hubby and I went to a jack off party for the first time and will likely go to more. I'm hung only 4.5" x 4.5" and for me, a main attraction is stroking big ones. Since I enjoy the size contrast and some subtle sph, I'd like to tell a well-hung guy that I like how big his is, and how different stroking his is from jacking my little one, for example. Would you hung guys in that situation enjoy the verbal worship and comparison from a small guy? Would it be a turn on? Or a turn off? Obviously, this only applies to the hung guys who would want to play with a small-dicked guy in the first place. Any thoughts? Should I just keep my mouth shut and stroke? Or would you like some verbal admiration?
 

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Everyone is different, but personally I would enjoy the compliment of being told how much you admire my substantial cock, and if you get off on SPH I would gladly participate. That said, if your size is something you were self conscious about, I would gladly offer you verbal reassurance. No one should ever be made to feel uncomfortable with their body
 

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I love it when people admire my 9x6 dick. The size. The shape. The way it shows in my pants. What it makes them want to do. What it makes them think. I always get hard when I get compliments from anyone who is not creepy. If you mean what you say it will be hot.

The only thing that would be different would be if I was about to blow and you changed what you were doing suddenly.

Sometimes guys with big dicks have insecurities too.
 

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Hubby and I went to a jack off party for the first time and will likely go to more. I'm hung only 4.5" x 4.5" and for me, a main attraction is stroking big ones. Since I enjoy the size contrast and some subtle sph, I'd like to tell a well-hung guy that I like how big his is, and how different stroking his is from jacking my little one, for example. Would you hung guys in that situation enjoy the verbal worship and comparison from a small guy? Would it be a turn on? Or a turn off? Obviously, this only applies to the hung guys who would want to play with a small-dicked guy in the first place. Any thoughts? Should I just keep my mouth shut and stroke? Or would you like some verbal admiration?
Talking about my big dick would be hot. A little comparison would be cool. Focusing on your insecurity could be a turn off if it took attention away from the action and the very generous focus on my dick.
 

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Talking about my big dick would be hot. A little comparison would be cool. Focusing on your insecurity could be a turn off if it took attention away from the action and the very generous focus on my dick.
Thanks for the advice! Sounds like awe is likely to be welcome but unless I get encouragement about the comparison stuff, better go easy on it.
 

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In my experience, everyone enjoys having their dick complimented, but making too much of a fuss can seem weird and obsessive... though a few do sometimes get off on it being obsessed over ("fuck me with that huge cock, yeah!").

But also in my experience there are a number of guys whose entire identity is around the size of their cock and those people usually have massive insecurities or really bad attitudes and, perhaps not coincidentally, are usually really lousy in bed.

I've been with a number of guys who had huge dicks who basically felt that since they brought the penis, everything else was up to you... thus they didn't know how to use it, didn't have any sense of or appreciation for, your pleasure. So for me sadly a guy who is quick to show off his big dick and fishes for compliments is if not a red flag at least a caution flag to be on the lookout for bad attitudes and signs that they'll be a terrible lay.
 

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It totally depends on the guy. I love having guys fondle and comment about how big and fat my cock is. Plenty of guys have said it so it's not anything new since we've bene hearing it since high school. BUT, there are others who got teased over it in high school or made to feel self conscious about it in some way--and I've met a few of them-- and they don't like any sort of fuss over their cock size to the point they are almost embarrassed they are as well hung as they are. So, you have to take it on a case by case basis. If you're in a jack off group or sex club/resort/bathhouse and you see a hung guy, odds are he is going to be fine with the comments or he wouldn't be showing it off.
 

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If you're in a jack off group or sex club/resort/bathhouse and you see a hung guy, odds are he is going to be fine with the comments or he wouldn't be showing it off.
Thanks. That makes a lot of sense.
 
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When I play with small guys, I don't need them to compliment me on my dick size. But some guys like to be verbal about the size difference. When that happens, yeah, I totally get into it. The thing that I hear most often is how heavy my dick feels in their hand when I am totally soft. They like to bounce it in the palm of their hand like it was a piece of meat. I have never really thought about the weight. Mostly it has all been about the size difference. But when they do it, I love that they feel free to just explore the difference my dick is to theirs.
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The thing that I hear most often is how heavy my dick feels in their hand when I am totally soft. They like to bounce it in the palm of their hand like it was a piece of meat. I have never really thought about the weight. Mostly it has all been about the size difference. But when they do it, I love that they feel free to just explore the difference my dick is to theirs.
The weight of a big cock is amazing to me too. It must be hard for you to imagine what it's like carrying around the weightlessness of a small soft cock. Mine is basically just the head stuck on my crotch, like a bottlecap. It's no fun until it pops out. So, a penis that has a meaty shaft when it's soft is extraordinary to me and most small-dicked guys. And I'm likely to gush about it if I get my hands on it!
 

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I love when a small sick guy verbally worships my cock, but it has to be genuine. If it sounds too forced or fake (life a bad porno) it is a big turn off. If the little dick guy brings in size comparison, I will definitely engage in some SPH.
 

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I like a couple comments thrown in about my cock during a sexual encounter, but not so much if I heard someone talking about how huge it is every 30 seconds, that's overkill and it can feel like objectification (which I don't like). The comparison itself with a small cock can be very hot, but I don't get off on humiliating anyone (obviously I've played along a little if the other guy is really into it, but it doesn't turn me on personally).
 

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I love when a small sick guy verbally worships my cock, but it has to be genuine. If it sounds too forced or fake (life a bad porno) it is a big turn off. If the little dick guy brings in size comparison, I will definitely engage in some SPH.
I can't imagine the verbal worship not being genuine for you, at least not from someone my size.
 
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I like a couple comments thrown in about my cock during a sexual encounter, but not so much if I heard someone talking about how huge it is every 30 seconds, that's overkill and it can feel like objectification (which I don't like). The comparison itself with a small cock can be very hot, but I don't get off on humiliating anyone (obviously I've played along a little if the other guy is really into it, but it doesn't turn me on personally).
Yeah, it's the objectification that I worry about doing. I'm getting the idea that it's best just to ask: "Do you like hearing how big your cock is? Do you like hearing how much bigger it is than mine?"
 
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I do like hearing guys talk about my cock’s if I am choosing to show of my cock via naked at a bathhouse gay resort etc. or even if I am going commando. I don’t care for comments all the time like some guys.
 
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I had a hung fuckbuddy that hated when I talked about how big or hung he was.

A couple of my hung sex partners didn't care but they also didn't seem to mind either.

But for the most part, I think a majority of them get off on it. I know my one hung fuckbuddy loves it. He always mentions how big his dick is and he loves when I (or another guy) will tell him how big it is.
 
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When I play with small guys, I don't need them to compliment me on my dick size. But some guys like to be verbal about the size difference. When that happens, yeah, I totally get into it. The thing that I hear most often is how heavy my dick feels in their hand when I am totally soft. They like to bounce it in the palm of their hand like it was a piece of meat. I have never really thought about the weight. Mostly it has all been about the size difference. But when they do it, I love that they feel free to just explore the difference my dick is to theirs.
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