Do (hung) tops prefer experienced bottoms?

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So my current fuckbuddy is, according to him, 80% straight and not only prefers masculine bottoms when he fucks guys but ones who aren't eager bottoms (or "sluts" as he tactfully puts it) because it turns him on to think they're just giving it up to him because of his great cock. (It is pretty great, I'd say somewhere around 7x6 and a wicked upward angle.) I do enjoy bottoming, but penetration is only a sometime thing for me - it really depends on chemistry with the guy and how comfortable I feel with him - and while I can handle the very big ones, I do need some warm-up time and easing into it when it's very thick. So while I was actually self-conscious about it, he actually said he loved that I was making the effort, which led to me discovering his preferences as far as bottoms.

Anyway, the whole point of my post is that the impression I get from what I've read here and elsewhere is that if a guy has trouble taking a hung top's cock, it's frustrating/annoying/a turn-off for the top. My own experience luckily hasn't really suggested that, and this is the first guy who actually says he prefers occasional/less frequent bottoms. What do you guys who are hung tops think/prefer?
 

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I prefer a guy who's not giving it up to everyone, too. Not sure why it's hotter -- but it always is. Also, if it's tight and needs some loving to loosen it up, all the better. The frustration comes if the bottom won't relax; the hole always loosens up after a bit and then both can really enjoy the fucking.
 

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I usually bottom, but when I do top my biggest turn on is an active bottom. Someone who moves around, makes noise, knows how to use his glutes and sphincter playfully. I hate a "cold fish" who just wants to lay there. Ideally, I sort of like to wrestle around while fucking. Most guys newish to fucking (I have never had a virgin, as far as I know) are too nervous and shy and don't do much. So, for that reason, I guess I prefer experienced. In a relationship, I try to be the kind of bottom I would like to fuck. Hopefully someone not experienced as a bottom would catch on.
 
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I don't know if I really consider myself "hung," but I generally prefer a guy to be an experienced bottom who enjoys larger rather than grins and bears it. I've talked to seriously hung tops who have told me that a lot of bottoms like the fantasy of a huge cock but in practice can't really take it and it ends up just being completely unsatisfying for the top.
 

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I don't know if I really consider myself "hung," but I generally prefer a guy to be an experienced bottom who enjoys larger rather than grins and bears it. I've talked to seriously hung tops who have told me that a lot of bottoms like the fantasy of a huge cock but in practice can't really take it and it ends up just being completely unsatisfying for the top.

Having been on both sides of this situation, I agree. If you're going to brag about being able to take any size cock out there, you really need to be ready to deliver when the time comes. There's nothing worse than leading someone on and then not being able to follow through.
 

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Yes; much more fun with a guy who knows the ropes (as so to speak).

Same as an experienced girl is better than a girl who has not much.

Don't you all remember what a disappointment your first sexual experiences were?
 

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I usually bottom, but when I do top my biggest turn on is an active bottom. Someone who moves around, makes noise, knows how to use his glutes and sphincter playfully. I hate a "cold fish" who just wants to lay there. Ideally, I sort of like to wrestle around while fucking. Most guys newish to fucking (I have never had a virgin, as far as I know) are too nervous and shy and don't do much. So, for that reason, I guess I prefer experienced. In a relationship, I try to be the kind of bottom I would like to fuck. Hopefully someone not experienced as a bottom would catch on.

I like a bottom with an attitude just like that^^!!! Enjoy it, get into and off on it. I like to judge what a guy likes from the way he moves and sounds as we are going at it.

Mikey, you sound like a lot of fun mate. Of you're ever playing in London let me know! ;)
 

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As I said in another post on a similar question I would say yes they do. Easily the top complaint I hear from hung guys is they can't find guys who can take them. That gets me a li t of guys because I have a solid rep as a power bottom that can take huge cocks and a solid plowing. I have a number of hung fuck buds for that reason and have had hung guys contact me because someone they knew recommended me.
 

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I personally prefer an experienced bottom. Never one that just had to have a virgin to break in. Not sure I want to ever deal with all the pain that a virgin ass goes through the first time.
 
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As I said in another post on a similar question I would say yes they do. Easily the top complaint I hear from hung guys is they can't find guys who can take them. That gets me a li t of guys because I have a solid rep as a power bottom that can take huge cocks and a solid plowing. I have a number of hung fuck buds for that reason and have had hung guys contact me because someone they knew recommended me.

An ass can accommodate any sized cock with enough practice. I have a small frame and never met a guy I couldn't handle lol. My dick is on the larger side but it's a perfectly manageable size, so when someone has difficulty with it I know it's more of a mental thing rather than physical.
 
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I prefer a bottom that allows me to top. A bottom that is too experienced or aggressive totally ruins it for me and I don't care what he/she looks like. My dick is curved, so it needs to be finessed (and I know best how to work it). Its just a matter of preference.
 
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while i can enjoy taking my time with a less experienced bttm and work him up with butt plugs, etc --- Power bottoms are my favorite. I love a bttm who knows what he wants and is ready to take it. The more agressive the better.
 
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while i can enjoy taking my time with a less experienced bttm and work him up with butt plugs, etc --- Power bottoms are my favorite. I love a bttm who knows what he wants and is ready to take it. The more agressive the better.

Wow. We should really meet up sometime
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As I said in another post on a similar question I would say yes they do. Easily the top complaint I hear from hung guys is they can't find guys who can take them. That gets me a li t of guys because I have a solid rep as a power bottom that can take huge cocks and a solid plowing. I have a number of hung fuck buds for that reason and have had hung guys contact me because someone they knew recommended me.
Lucky !
 

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Unfortunately for me it seems like the biggest cock I have had is 7 inches and can take it rather well. When the person I was fucking with whom was 6 it was painful for a while because i am picky whom i sleep with so I do not do it often. I think most the time I fuck i post about it on here :) so you can really tell how much my ass is used.

However the last guy was the biggest at 7 with a head that was like a fist. Once he got that tip through the rest felt great. I had to bite the pillow hard, but i look forward to the day that I can take a pounding and call out my top for not fucking me hard enough. Right now I am the little bitch that mowns when it goes really deep with pain and pleasure. I was talking to a guy who is 9.5 and the thing looks 12 inches. I honestly say I am terrified lol.
 
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So my current fuckbuddy is, according to him, 80% straight and not only prefers masculine bottoms when he fucks guys but ones who aren't eager bottoms (or "sluts" as he tactfully puts it) because it turns him on to think they're just giving it up to him because of his great cock. (It is pretty great, I'd say somewhere around 7x6 and a wicked upward angle.) I do enjoy bottoming, but penetration is only a sometime thing for me - it really depends on chemistry with the guy and how comfortable I feel with him - and while I can handle the very big ones, I do need some warm-up time and easing into it when it's very thick. So while I was actually self-conscious about it, he actually said he loved that I was making the effort, which led to me discovering his preferences as far as bottoms.

Anyway, the whole point of my post is that the impression I get from what I've read here and elsewhere is that if a guy has trouble taking a hung top's cock, it's frustrating/annoying/a turn-off for the top. My own experience luckily hasn't really suggested that, and this is the first guy who actually says he prefers occasional/less frequent bottoms. What do you guys who are hung tops think/prefer?

If a guy has trouble taking a bigger guys cock, it is most often the tops fault. It is the driver of the car who puts the car in the garage. With some patience and technique, along with some good lube everyone is a winner. If he is too dense to realize that, then the lesson we learn is it takes more than a big cock to give a great fuck. You are perfectly right to expect some warm up time and a little patience from your hookup buddy. There are two people who need to come away satisfied from the sex - you and him. You are worth the same comfort and enjoyment as he expects. Your guy seems cool with how things are going between you, so keep talking to each other and you both keep making extra efforts for the other and it will stay good. I think with a little effort you can get him down to 50% straight!
 

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I try to be good for my partner no matter the size. I let them know I am an experienced bottom and if they say they are a certain size, I will hold them to that. Only had one guy ever say that he wasn't as big as he told me and he backed out of sex completely. The most recent that said he was 8.5 may have been 7 but he had thick girth. He knew I was experienced. He used the condom and lube and went to town putting it in balls deep on the first thrust and pounded me really good. I think he held me to saying I was an experienced bottom LOL! But I loved the way he went about his business and did it just so. Yes, I was squirming, moaning, trying to adjust to being stretched so quickly. His pounding me and taking charge the way he did actually made him very appealing to me. I think I will go back for more.
 
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