Do I appear gay at the gym?

[HamYai]

Not that I care that much, cuz I'm secure with my sexuality.

I'm hetero and always have been and always will be, but never say "never" is my motto.

We live in a changing and ever more liberal world (thanks be).

I started working out after I got divorced (should have done it years previous, as I actually found that I love it).

I beefed up pretty quick and get the most wonderful comments from both girls and guys on an almost daily basis.

The thing is.

I wear no wedding ring, no more.

I also find clothes restrictive (I'd go nude just about everywhere if it were allowed).

I can't wear a Tee-Shirt when I'm working out cuz I get too hot.

So I wear a muscle vest (a la freddie Mercury) when at the gym.

I also smile a lot to anyone who wants to pass the time of day (friendly soul that I am).

No wedding ring. Muscle vest. Smiling at anyone who catches my eye.

Talking with anyone who engages me in convo.

Do I look gay?

 

[Industrialsize]

No, you look like a friendly guy who goes to the gym regularly.

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

You definitely appear gay. Very very gay, in fact.

Congratulations.

 

[HamYai]

No, you look like a friendly guy who goes to the gym regularly.

Awww. I was gonna wait before I jumped in again, but that is so nice.

I was hoping that's how it was.

So why do none of the ladies hit on me, then?:biggrin1:

 

[HotBulge]

You are probably exerting too much mental energy over this topic. It's a trivial concern. Only be concerned about being gay only if you engage in homo-erotic behavior.

 

[HamYai]

You definitely appear gay. Very very gay, in fact.

Congratulations.

LOL

 

[Principessa]

[quote=STD;1447656]*SNIP*Do I look gay?[/quote] I dunno are you decked out in pastel pink?

So why do none of the ladies hit on me, then? :biggrin1:

Cause that's the guys job silly. Girls flirt, smile, flip our hair, maybe say hi. That's how girls show interest. From there the ball is in your court.

 

[HamYai]

"Hi"

Is that all there is?

I have to stutter and stammer and try to find a subject that we're both easy with (no sport, no politics, no news, no history, no wise-ass).

And all she has to do is say "Hi" or flick her hair?

There's a deffinite imbalance going on here. LOL

 

[tvilleguy70]

GAY.....sorry.....

 

[HamYai]

GAY.....sorry.....

Don't be.

If I hadn't guessed that, I wouldn't have asked.

And like I said - who cares?

Maybe I have a latency.

Just interested in how it sounds I appear to you folk, cuz that's pretty much as I do.

So how come the guys aren't hitting on me? LOL

 

[tvilleguy70]

if i were in your gym...and you appeared to be as HOT as you sound....especially if you were in the locker room....or the shower....WOOF....with that big ole slab of meat floppin around....i would DAMN sure be hittin you up!

 

[uncut1234]

gay ? no
a dumb ass in a muscle vest.. YES

 

[Principessa]

]"Hi"[/FONT]

Is that all there is?

I have to stutter and stammer and try to find a subject that we're both easy with (no sport, no politics, no news, no history, no wise-ass).

And all she has to do is say "Hi" or flick her hair?

There's a deffinite imbalance going on here. LOL

An imbalance? Why is that an imbalance? Women give very clearly defined signs of interest. If you choose not to respond then we know you aren't interested and move onto the next guy.

 

[HamYai]

gay ? no
a dumb ass in a muscle vest.. YES

Listen and learn:

YouTube - Thumper Clip From Disney's Bambi

 

[uncut1234]

Listen and learn:

YouTube - Thumper Clip From Disney's Bambi

lol learn to take a joke man
you should be used to them walking around in a "muscle vest" :biggrin1:

 

[HamYai]

gay ? no
a dumb ass in a muscle vest.. YES

Oh.

That was a joke.

Now I see it:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:

 

[uncut1234]

see the smiley at the end.. that means it was a joke!!!

 

[HamYai]

see the smiley at the end.. that means it was a joke!!!

There was me thinking that the smilie was your clap on your own back at how clever and humerous your post was.

 

[B_Think_Kink]

Deff gay.

 

[uncut1234]

There was me thinking that the smilie was your clap on your own back at how clever and humerous your post was.

hahah no no, you got me all wrong then.. sorry if it looks that way...
im not trying to hurt anyones feelings usually (only the guy that runs "monsters" account) ..