Do I Have The Right To Feel Confident?

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I don't feel I do I'm around 5.5 - 6 inches long girth is 5 inches around or 2 inches wide supposedly average is good enough but It doesn't feel like it. My penis seems tiny from most angles except when I stand infront of the mirror it looks somewhat thick but I hate how small it looks. My dick size is the main source of my lack of confidence, almost as though I can't feel good about myself unless I have a huge dick. I know it sounds ridiculous but it depresses the hell out of me knowing I'll never be able to make a woman cum like a man with a big cock can, I can't compete I admit it I wish I was well hung so I could please all types of vaginas, the fact that some women need a big dick to feel anything depresses me as well. What's worse is I tried to enlarge my cock jelqing and stretching I fucked up and it (the glands don't enlarge properly) since then I can't get a full erection im surprised it still even works as I abused my dick out of frustration. For those with average of small penises how did you over come your insecurity? Have any of you had much success with one stands?
 
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You need to develop your other skills and techniques to please a woman totally - Pleasing is not a one trick pony by a stretch of the imagination. Your thoughts should always be on her pleasure and forget yours - if you please her - you will get yours back in spades.

Also - too many guys get on - pump and get off and the woman never knew what hit her and is left totally wanting.Learn how to maximize what you have already - you cannot change that.

I was in a swinger club once and one of the guys nickname was "Magic" - the women loved him. Magic was short for "MagicTongue" and with that he could do amazing things.

So you really have to think about methods and techniques to please other than just using your penis alone.

I love sandbagging women with my other talents.
 

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I don't feel I do I'm around 5.5 - 6 inches long girth is 5 inches around or 2 inches wide supposedly average is good enough but It doesn't feel like it. My penis seems tiny from most angles except when I stand infront of the mirror it looks somewhat thick but I hate how small it looks. My dick size is the main source of my lack of confidence, almost as though I can't feel good about myself unless I have a huge dick. I know it sounds ridiculous but it depresses the hell out of me knowing I'll never be able to make a woman cum like a man with a big cock can, I can't compete I admit it I wish I was well hung so I could please all types of vaginas, the fact that some women need a big dick to feel anything depresses me as well. What's worse is I tried to enlarge my cock jelqing and stretching I fucked up and it (the glands don't enlarge properly) since then I can't get a full erection im surprised it still even works as I abused my dick out of frustration. For those with average of small penises how did you over come your insecurity? Have any of you had much success with one stands?


My wife would tell you a thousand times no woman marries a man for their dick size, Personality goes much farther than cock size. Develop a great personality I guarantee you women will be attracted to you. No woman lines up to see how big a guys cock is before having a relationship. You need to change the way you think. I use to be a four foot runt. I worked on myself and have been happily married for 36 yrs to a beautiful woman who has it all. Best of luck to you!
 
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You deserve to be confident just as much as anyone else.

Having said that, I think confidence is a scam. But if you think being confident is good for you then be confident.
 

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Confidence can come from more than just your dick and looks.

Matter of fact, it shouldn't come from that.

Never make a woman cum like a man with a big cock can? Stop watching porn, dude.
Agree with @Tight_N_Juicy 100% confidence from your looks are dick is a false confidence cause not everyone is gonna find you attractive or they could have had bigger. You have to be confident in yourself: that you are unique, have your own talents, abilities, and qualities that make you a good man. Knowing your strengths and and working on your weaknesses. Confidence is loving yourself so you wouldn’t want to be any other guy.
 

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I don't feel I do I'm around 5.5 - 6 inches long girth is 5 inches around or 2 inches wide supposedly average is good enough but It doesn't feel like it. My penis seems tiny from most angles except when I stand infront of the mirror it looks somewhat thick but I hate how small it looks. My dick size is the main source of my lack of confidence, almost as though I can't feel good about myself unless I have a huge dick. I know it sounds ridiculous but it depresses the hell out of me knowing I'll never be able to make a woman cum like a man with a big cock can, I can't compete I admit it I wish I was well hung so I could please all types of vaginas, the fact that some women need a big dick to feel anything depresses me as well. What's worse is I tried to enlarge my cock jelqing and stretching I fucked up and it (the glands don't enlarge properly) since then I can't get a full erection im surprised it still even works as I abused my dick out of frustration. For those with average of small penises how did you over come your insecurity? Have any of you had much success with one stands?

No offence but you sound like a straight man - there is soooo much more to sex than just a dick. ;)

Try to concentrate more on your partner and less time worrying about supposed shortcomings, you'll both have so much more fun. :)
 

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You probably need to talk to a behavioral health professional if you’re causing damage to your body.

Unless it’s some kind of fetish. Then, by all means have at it, man!
 

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Your dick sounds average length and above average thick. Whats not to like? I think you're getting hung up on size way too much. One of my exes was 5" long and 4" thick. We were together for years. He had plenty to play with so it was fine. Relationships are based on more than just sex. Instead of focusing on what you DON'T have, focus on what you DO have. Hey...as while *I* may be hung, and am lucky, there is still someone out there more hung than I. Do I let that upset me? Nope.
 
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I don't feel I do I'm around 5.5 - 6 inches long girth is 5 inches around or 2 inches wide supposedly average is good enough but It doesn't feel like it. My penis seems tiny from most angles except when I stand infront of the mirror it looks somewhat thick but I hate how small it looks. My dick size is the main source of my lack of confidence, almost as though I can't feel good about myself unless I have a huge dick. I know it sounds ridiculous but it depresses the hell out of me knowing I'll never be able to make a woman cum like a man with a big cock can, I can't compete I admit it I wish I was well hung so I could please all types of vaginas, the fact that some women need a big dick to feel anything depresses me as well. What's worse is I tried to enlarge my cock jelqing and stretching I fucked up and it (the glands don't enlarge properly) since then I can't get a full erection im surprised it still even works as I abused my dick out of frustration. For those with average of small penises how did you over come your insecurity? Have any of you had much success with one stands?

Im close to the same size (assuming your measurements are NBP) and I have had absolutely amazing sex with my wife. Simultaneous orgasms, gushing orgasms, etc. Lately she has been cumming after I ejaculate when my dick isn't quite still so I erect . Im still trying to figure out if its my semi floppy or my cum that does it for her.

Yet.... l have still have some the same confidence and depression issues as you. She doesn't always have great orgasms or orgasms at all. Its those times that my confidence wanes and I cant help but think that she would have had a good one if I had a big dick. I honestly I dont think, at least for me that there is a cure to these thoughts. You just deal with them and try to keep yourself from going over the deep end over them.
 

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Some of the most amazing sex I've had was with guys who were confident and much smaller than you. Despite what porn might suggest, a dick size isn't the alpha and omega of sexual enjoyment. Someone having a huge dick is a lot like having blue eyes for example. Sure, I find blue eyes pretty, but I'm not going to turn down sex with a hot guy just because he has brown eyes.
 
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Thanks for the advice but I measured recently again I'm a bit under 5 and half inches erect under 5 inches in girth. Bear in mind I can't get a full erection so I can't get a proper measurement god I wish I could have a few inches more. I find it hard to feel confident about myself when I'm so insecure about my dick.