Do ladies love the porn?

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  1. Charlie14

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    How often do you ladies here watch porn or read erotic fiction?

    Also.. can you show or describe some of your favorite porn/ big dick video clips or stories? And describe what about them excites you.

    Or do you have your own experiences that you think about that excite you? And what are these experiences?
     
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    Ok, I'll play along, even though the original question quickly devolved into the catch-all "so what gets you off, ladies?!!" :rolleyes:

    As has been discussed before, most porn is aimed at a male audience (straight or gay). Back in the day when the first stag films were rolling out of Ye Olde Pornoe Shoppe it was thought women would be a) offended and b) if not that, then for sure never aroused (the old "men respond to visual stimulation, women ehhhhhh not so much" sweeping generalization). Soooooo, since most commercial porn is aimed at guys, no, I don't find much of it entertaining. I don't like watching people (male or female) who perform like wind-up dolls. Forget the dialogue (and the music - eek), can't the director at least suggest that the performers "act" like they're actually enjoying the sex they're having on that hot soundstage in front of various crew members and those 3 fat Teamsters? And as soon as I see a woman on her back on a waterbed wearing thigh-high leopard-skin boots with 6-inch lucite heels, I'm sorry, any possibility of arousal is lost in peals of laughter. That's just wrong on so many levels. Having said all that, I would still gladly worship at the altar of Peter North.

    I have heard there are some alternative porn production companies exploring various niches and fetishes, but I'm not really kinky enough to know much about that. I do think the current DIY porn movement is very interesting... and I really only learned of that on here (thank you, LPSG)! Seeing real people/couples going at it is a lot more stimulating to me than watching 2 bags of silicone bounce on top of some overly-waxed metrosexual with a bad shag haircut.

    I also will give a big shout-out to Anne "bless her born-again little heart" Rice for her amazing Sleeping Beauty erotica, which took that traditional fairy tale and turned it on its head... and then gagged and bound and spanked and f*cked the hell out of it. I'll debase myself to admit that that trilogy impacted my sexuality (and so, my life) in a MAJOR way. I actually had an orgasm while reading one particularly steamy chapter - and I wasn't touching myself. Verily, that was an unusual reading experience for me, and it was only the beginning. :wink:
     
  3. DC_DEEP

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    Ah, SurferGirl, I think I love you!

    The Roquelaure/Rice "Sleeping Beauty" trilogy was indeed pretty hot... for the most part. Some of her phraseology made me giggle ("she moaned softly as he kissed her moist little sex") at the most inopportune time, but in all, it was exceptionally erotic. And it was loaned to me by one of my best friends, a straight woman who also liked porn. She has a fairly large collection.

    There are a few of the female porn stars who went on to start their own production companies, and produce porn geared either neutral or more toward "women's taste."
     
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    Since you asked.. :wink:

    I watch porn maybe once a week, and read (and write also) erotic fiction daily. Not het, though - I'm a big fan of gay porn and slash fanfics. There's nothing quite like two gorgeous guys getting it on.

    What excites me is mutual enjoyment (both parties getting off on the fucking (or blowing)), and the general lack of degrading that seems to be prevalent in het porn. Also, I just think it's just so fucking sexy to see some pretty young guy getting some serious cock from a hunky older man. :biggrin1:
     
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    I watch porn frequently. I am a Wanted List member (like XXX Netflix) and I rent 3 at a time.

    I already listed on another post what I like and don't like.

    Porn is good, especially if you're a nice girl like me who doesn't whore around like a tart in a bakery.
     
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    I love porn. I think I'll keep my type to myself though. People here who actually know me already know what kind of porn I like.
     
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    I have quite a good collection of porn actually, honestly i havent watch any for a good 2-3 weeks but there is times when i will watch maybe 2 films a day. My fav being man/man films, preferably downloading the Sean Cody stuff as it isnt too fake and the guys arent muscle bound meat heads.

    Also i did find one lesbian clip that i have found very good, probably for the same reason i like the Sean Cody stuff, the women are real and not some air head playboy bunny types
     
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    I like good stuff, often MM, and like Bronx I will leave it at that
     
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    The porn clips that i enjoy to see are very specific: Hot not fake, interacial couple or MFM interacial, she must be brunete and sexy and men must be black or brown...

    Almost nothing else...
     
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    I think that most women don't like the same kind of porn that men like. I have seen a French porn film directed by a woman and I didn't find it very exciting at all (I went limp), too much "acting" and not enough hardcore action.
    I'd be surprised if there are many women that like Rocco Siffredi's humiliation based style of porn - although I wouldn't copy him in real life, his films do turn me on more than most.
     
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    I don't like to see bad porn actors try and act, no. I like to see genuine sexual attraction. but you're right, at least in my case Rocco is very far from a turn on, and frankly it changes my view of you.

    I know that porn turn ons are often very different from reality. but his stuff actually scares me sometimes. to me it's almost like you have admitted to getting aroused by female snuff films.
     
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    I'm just being honest that his rough methods and the submissive females do turn me on, he reminds me of a primitive cave man, showing how sex could have been when women were dominated by men, today it just isn't right to behave like that, maybe it is my male instincts that are causing this arousal, I can't explain it.
    I can't stand SM where women are actually tortured and I wouldn't even consider watching snuff films so it's not my thing.
    I am more hedonist than sadist in reality so there is no need to change your view of me.
     
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    I'm not convinced sex was ever like that. Frankly, some things will lead a man to get himself stabbed, evenin these civilized times. So in less civilized times...
     
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    I don't like hurting women myself...

    Anyway, I find most girls are against
     
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    I actually like these themes as well. I simply argue that Rocco does not illustrate these themes. he illustrates degredation, abuse, and physical danger.

    I guess it's my instincts of self-preservation that's making me uncomfortable! I can't explain it.

    I consider a great deal of Rocco's portfolio to be torture.
     
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    I am actuallly surprised to hear that some of the ladies like porn. When I watch porn I have a hard time imagining that any female would enjoy watching the vast majority of the stuff. The men are butt ugly for the most part, you see alot of limp or semi-hard dicks and most of the time there is no connection between the couples and it looks very fake. This is what irks me the most. I know I will sound like a chick when I say this, but I can't get into a porn scene if there is not chemistry between the couple.

    Anyway, are there any guys in porn that you ladies actually find attractive?
     
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    yep, you pretty much nailed why I don't like most porn. that's why I typically go for gay porn or amateur, since it's less plastic and boring. and I have seen more genuine caring, passionate kisses, gentle touching, and real orgasms between gay men than I have ever seen in any mainstream het porn.

    if there's a woman and I 'project' myself into her position I want her to be having fun. so when I see that (and real female orgasms... rarer than hen's teeth) I am overjoyed.
     
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    I agree partially with you, some of his scenes are just ridiculous and make me go floppy! Like when he spends more time slapping the women and spitting in their mouths than actually having sex! WTF?
    I think that Rocco has influenced the latest generation of male porn stars and because there is so much porn being produced, the quest to find something original in mainstream porn, seems to be overstepping the limits of what is tasteful/acceptable.
    I think most guys would like to think of themselves as the dominant male that Rocco portrays but personally, I think the violence is unesseccary and I prefer it when he sticks to just having rough sex!
     
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    I'm very ambivalent on Rocco's movies. He's done some great scenes for American movies. U.S. companies like Vivid won't have his aggressive stuff in them, although almost all of these are older movies. (I strongly recommend Chameleons with Ashlyn Gere and Diedre Holland.) And some of his scenes in Europe are fun, but to find them you have to wade through a lot of disturbing stuff.

    I find this with a lot of the Euro porn I've seen. Yes, there are fewer implants and fresher faces, and the production value is often very good. But a lot of the women clearly don't want to be doing porn. If the actress doesn't look like she's enjoying herself (pretending or not) then I can't get into it. Some of the Euro babes don't look happy during the scene at all and it's borderline rape on camera. I've read more than once of European porn stars moving to the U.S. because they're treated far better here.

    I'm sure there are American porn actresses that don't want to be in the business too. But to show her not enjoying the sex and obviously wishing it was over is another thing altogether. There's a strong misogynistic streak in Euro porn that I find myself avoiding.
     
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    I have just discovered Brazillian porn.

    The film that I saw is called: Fidelidade a prova by Brasileirinhas.
    It has everything that a porno film should have: Fly on the wall filming technique=no action missed out! Big cocks, natural boobs, good looking, multi-racial actors, real pleasure and real orgasms. These days, although it is "ordinary" porn, it stands out because it only has the best bits!

    It gave me a stonkin' hard on and I'm sure it is the kind of porn women would also appreciate.
     
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