Do married guys get more action with men?

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In my experience, yes they do. Once I got married and wore a wedding band, I noticed a lot more attention from other guys. I think it puts down low guys at ease knowing I will be discreet. As a married man, i would be more likely to pursue another married man over a single guy for the same reason. But don’t get me wrong, I am not opposed to random hookups with single guys if they are attractive or hung.
 

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In my experience, yes they do. Once I got married and wore a wedding band, I noticed a lot more attention from other guys. I think it puts down low guys at ease knowing I will be discreet. As a married man, i would be more likely to pursue another married man over a single guy for the same reason. But don’t get me wrong, I am not opposed to random hookups with single guys if they are attractive or hung.

Thanks for the candid response, Pure. This logic makes sense.
 
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i think the main attraction from my own experience and talking with single friends who only cheat with married men (or women for that matter) is that these people have more to lose so they're more discrete and more cautious. this means that you will always have the upper hand when shit goes sour as you don't have a family to answer to. this is why i always advise all my married friends (both guy and girl) that if they're gonna cheat, be careful who you cheat with, as they may use the fact that you're married to dangle a carrot in front of you and use that against you. it's a two-way street.

however, if the married person is the one reaching out, then you can probably bet that it's gonna be a safer option and very discrete. most people like to indulge in their own private secrecy so married individuals are great cheating partners, for the most part.
 

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It's easier if you're married and one of your married friends is into it. Especially if your wives are friends too.

You can always get together and go do guy things without any questions being asked. For example if you're both into hunting, fishing, whatever. Your wives hangout and you guys can go and make a day of it, or at least several hours. No one suspects anything.

Also helps if you are really good buds aside from the sex. Your family's hang out together, do things together. Just keep it on a bro level. Best friends kinda thing.

Of course after I got married and put on a wedding ring both men and women were interested. Before that not so much.