do men and women think about the act differently?

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  1. B_ILIW

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    This may seem a weird question, but it's something I've thought of.

    in sex, men "give" and women "take", if one gets my meaning. does this mean that men generally like to be more active and women more passive?

    or does it depend on the person, regardless of gender?
     
  2. Pendlum

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    You answered your own question in that list bit there.
     
  3. HiddenLacey

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    I get your meaning...

    I think we are all different. There is a lot of Fet life where the women take dominant roles and the men spend their time being passive. Freaking huge scary I could break you in half men crawl around on their hands and knees for little women in rocking boots.

    Personally I am definitely more passive, BUT that doesn't mean I'm a starfish. I like to give and take. Sometimes I may want to take control of the situation. I want to be on top, I want it to be fast and wild clothes ripped and grip marks left behind the next day.

    Sometimes I just want to share in the moment.

    However, mostly I want to feel his hands on my body and close my eyes and feel nothing but him all around me. The way he looks and smells and tastes and feels should overwhelm my senses. That is normally what I think about when I think of sex. I just want to focus on him, well us together.
     
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    submissive girl, i like the way you think. it sounds like its amazing for you
     
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    I think I need a cigarette and some ice after reading this.:naughty: I love the way you think.
     
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    He answered every question on this site!
     
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    No, I refuse to believe that all people are different from each other. I, for one, am not.
     
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    I'm exactly the same... on all counts.
     
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