Do men generally tell the truth about a girl's sex 'talent'?

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  1. rtg

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    Just wondering....cos I was with a guy for the first time the other day and during it he said 'this is easily the best sex I've ever had' and 'why are you so different than other girls..why does it feel so good with you?'

    Also my ex told me the other day that i'm the best he's ever had.

    I mean, I know i'm pretty amazing haha...But I was wondering, do guys just say this to make us feel good about ourselves?

    What do you think?
     
  2. D_Penny_Khandi

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    My girlfriend is easily the best I've had, and I tell her that.
     
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    I'm pretty truthful about it
     
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    I am truthful about it. Some girls just have more charisma.
     
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    i'm a pretty damn lousy lay but i get told the same things by pretty much every partner.
     
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    I am very careful not to lie or embellish in bed. If I told a woman she was easily the best I ever had, it would be true. I also don't say "I love you" unless I mean it. That stuff is too important.
     
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    I have a lot of talent and I really don't need to be told.
    His reactions and the fact he keeps coming back for more tells me all I need to know.
     
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    The reactions would tell you if that's true. Personally I've never told a girl it's the best I've had unless it was true at the time. Otherwise just say it was amazing, if it was... or remain awkwardly silent if it wasn't...
     
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    Men telling the truth about sex......hmmm
     
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    Lying, especially dishonest compliments, takes waaay too much thought for me. Thinking and maintaining an erection don't mix well at all with me, so I am pretty much 100% honest if I have a hard-on.
     
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    I always feel like I am telling the truth when I say things like that. But really, a lot of it is probably 'heat of the moment' stuff.

    I've had partners who were bad in bed, and I didn't provide them with a review of any sort.
     
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    Actions speak louder than words.

    I would probably go to sleep or make my excuses and leave if the sex was disappointin, on the other hand I'd definitely want more if the sex was good.
     
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    In general, no. However, in this case, it is possible he was lying because he wants to see you again.

    In a relationship, though, guys typically don't lie. There's no point, because you'll only say you like something because you want more of it, and you won't say you like something you don't because you'll keep getting it.

    Women seem to think they have to treat guys' egos like precious little snowflakes and hence put up with bad sex when they shouldn't. Men have no such problem speaking their mind.
     
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    Men are dogs. They'll say anything to get to fuck you again.
     
  15. D_Judith K Rantz

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    I have to agree.

    PS I giggle each time I see your sig :biggrin1:
     
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    I am generally a very honest guy, and some have in the past called me "rude". Hence, I have learned to be very calculated and careful with my opinion. To those who can handle the truth (and learn from it), I only just give the truth. To those who cannot, I generally keep quiet. There are also some people who get uncomfortable with too much compliments (as do I) so have to keep quiet there too. As for "sex talent" - that's one thing I avoid talking about. It's just too subjective to give in a "verdict".
     
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    My husband has told me the same thing, but I confronted him with this post. He said "bad sex is still good." Well, I don't agree with that, but then again, I'm a bit more discerning than a guy, I guess.
     
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    but bad sex isnt great sex. ive told only one person it was the best. and yes, it was to have some more, because why wouldnt i want more of the best sex i ever had if the relationship around it isnt bad?
     
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    I don't think you can put all men in the same category and ask "Do men...?"

    Obviously, it depends on the individual.
     
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    While I can't say I've never lied about a partner's performance - being more positive than it merited - the most I generally do is say something along the lines of "that was good" instead of "that was awful." If I say "you were fantastic," I pretty much mean it. I'm fairly transparent in this respect - it's easy to tell if I'm sincerely impressed or not. It's especially hard to hide when my cock flagpoles again soon after coming. In some ways, that's my lie detector.
     
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