Ellie, has to be your decision in the long run. You have to live in your body, both physically and emotionally.
I had it done and I'm very happy. I was too big for someone my size, and my breasts were seriously sagging. It was uncomfortable for me and I was wearing a bra day and night because of the pulling. Many people who didn't know me well or had not seen me in more revealing cloths were surprised I'd had it done.
"I didn't look that bad", they'd say. But I had clothing that was good at hiding my boobs and bras that could hold up the QE2.
My husbands only concern was the anesthesia, his biggest worry.
But he felt it was time, as long as i was ready. I had also breast fed my daughters quite some time, and that can affect the size and shape of breasts over time.
No regrets here. I do have the same scar women have from implants under the breast. I have a scar that runs vertical from the nipple to that scar. It becomes very light and barely visable. The nipples are moved up. At that time you can choose to have the size of the nipple made smaller. I did. Either way, there's no visable scar there.
I can wear tops a size smaller. Many tops I'd put on fit in the shoulders, but would not button , or pulled. We have a room set aside as an exercise room because my husband has always exercised. I do the palates 6 days a week.
I felt good, I was in good shape, but my boobs just didn't match my body ( in my mind) and the weight seemed to bother me more and more.
Now I'm a perky 32-c. Small c.
Think about it, and get more than one opinion if you do want to have reduction.
One con; I do have some numbness under the beast,around the scar. But many women who have implants do also.
Otherwise my nipples and other parts of the breast feel normal.
Good luck whatever you decide.
OK, how about this discussion: I told my husband that I am seriously considering breast reduction surgery. I'm 35G and I don't care to be anymore (in fact, I'd love to have your C cups, collegeqt89). He told me in jest that breast reduction is fake boobs and men don't like fake boobs. I know he was joking, but seriously, are all surgically enhanced breasts fake? I know I'd be 100% me but not all 100% of me is there. Makes sense? And please no comments about how I shouldn't because you love them big.